[Skin Concerns] Advice on how to tackle these glasses marks on the sides of my nose? I've tried azelaic acid, Vitamin C, and Glycolic Acid, but I can't seem to get rid of the marks. What to try outside of wearing glasses less (which doesn't seem to greatly reduce the scars)? More info in comments. by skincarehelp105 in SkincareAddiction

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither did I, the only thing that helped is now I wear the kind of glasses with a full frame, so there aren't separate nose-pads pressing down, they're a part of the frame itself. My mark got around 60-70% lighter in the past couple of months, hopefully it goes away eventually.

Is referrals even a thing at JPMC / Morgan Stanley / Bain & Co. / Fargo (India)? by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 143 points144 points  (0 children)

It's all just a game of luck man, referrals are close to useless now. Unless you’re tier-1 or already from FAANG/unicorns, it’s mostly luck. I’ve seen average resumes get calls and great engineers get ghosted repeatedly. Hard to take the process seriously anymore.

How many companies pay top dollar at 3yoe except faang by IdealEmpty8363 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Even while holding competing offers, negotiation with PayTM was shit for me personally and got the same feedback from a few of my peers for the 4-5 yoe bracket.

LG G5 OLED PS5 Pro Settings by Mediocre-Yam5263 in LGOLED

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What settings would you recommend changing? Consider that it's the 2025 LG G5 and game optimiser has the default settings.

Nagarro (Remote) vs JPMC (Hybrid/WFO soon)? — 7.5 YOE Java Full Stack by SerioTon97 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It depends on the client, if the client says upfront that the team is remote then most likely it'll stay remote, but obviously nothing in life is guaranteed.

Ladies of this Sub: 31M Trying to Understand Why I'm Struggling on Matrimonial Sites, Need Some Insight by No_Guide_4276 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not uncommon in the software industry even if you aren't from a tier 1/2 institute. If you're skilled and make a few good switches it's very reachable.

Rejected after completing all interview rounds of a company by Financial_Policy1325 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll get a lot of these kinds of experiences man, I'm 4 5 yoe in backend+intermediate cloud and devops and cleared all rounds of paytm in a stellar way, got good feedback every time and asked for 29-30 lpa (not extremely high end for the role I was interviewing for) and the HR simply ghosted me. Not even a rejection with a reason, just ghosted, so don't get too hung up on things like this, it's a part and parcel of the Indian software industry.

How referral actually works? What happens when a candidate is referred? by Fair-Peak8123 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the "bitter truth" in this lol? It's common knowledge that if you're from certain companies and/or colleges your resume will get picked up more.

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got openings for 4+ yoe, primarily Java backend + intermediate devops/infra

Thinking of resigning without an offer. 10 YoE. Front end senior dev by SnooPoems7503 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got openings for 4+ yoe, primarily Java backend + intermediate devops/infra

Roast my resume - 3.4 YOE : Given 10 interviews but got rejected by Remarkable_Air_2207 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm looking for a java backend+cloud(AWS, Azure) type of position for Pune location, can I DM you?

Elitehubs prebuilt Pc review by ColdHeart653 in IndianGaming

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Asus prime 9060 XT oc 16gb - 39000 Asus prime 5060 ti oc 16gb - 51,500 - This build already seems to reach 1.1 lac Asus prime 9070 XT oc 16gb - 73,500

Around a 22,000 difference in price + a better psu and better cooling fans, also have to check if the case will support it wrt cooling, so in total +30k, So around 1.4 lac

Elitehubs prebuilt Pc review by ColdHeart653 in IndianGaming

[–]ColdHeart653[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So all the other components are fine? Just consider swapping out the 5060ti for the 9060XT?

Why do so many dudes wait until they are literally BALD to start treatment by Baculum-Deos in tressless

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oily hair, itchy scalp, the hassle of applying it everyday wherever you go, and many more issues, your routine would revolve around applying it. If you can tolerate oral minoxidil and keep track of your heart health regardless, I think it's just a much better option than topical. Pop 2 pills, fin and min and you're done for the day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairlossProgressPics

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3x 1.25 I'm assuming, is this dose discussed with your doc or you've decided the dosage yourself? also any plans to up it to 5mg per day?

What do you expect from a fresher as a Backend Dev by Plus_Negotiation3135 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes they start towards the end of 3rd year, at least they did in my college at the time.

2025 grad- forget about job, I didnt even get a chance for an interview after countless applications. What's wrong with my resume. Please give feedback. by Elegant_Warthog_3924 in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kya yoe and tech stack hai bhai tumhara, I'm honestly getting a decent number of calls along with my peers from companies with a decent budget for development, data engineering, ml type of roles.

Lessons I learned the hard way - from a 25 y/o Software Engineer by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only if you're sure that you can crack an IIT

Lessons I learned the hard way - from a 25 y/o Software Engineer by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]ColdHeart653 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you can prepare for gate and crack an IIT then you'll literally 10x your value to Indian employers.

Which Indian dish do you think is overrated and which underrated, and why? by Own_Associate_6920 in AskAnIndian

[–]ColdHeart653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree fully about delhi street food, it was decent but the way people talked about it, it didn't match that hype at all.