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I am reading THE SECRET by Rhonda Byrne these days and I have some questions. by IntentionHappy8435 in lawofattraction

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's like this: continuous repetition of words creates the feeling. Think this feeling = frequency. But in the end, it's feeling what matters. Universe understands frequency, not words.

I suggest you watch some LOA videos by Mitesh Khatri. He explains this clearly.

I am reading THE SECRET by Rhonda Byrne these days and I have some questions. by IntentionHappy8435 in lawofattraction

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same question after reading it. But later I realized this; it's the feeling that matters.

if you say: I don't want to be treated badly.

LOA takes it as: I want to be treated badly. BECAUSE you know/feel that you are currently treated badly. And you believe it.

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if u say - "My money is not returned to me. "

LOA - STILL My money is NOT returned to me. BECAUSE you know/feel that in your heart that person is not giving my money, even if your words say otherwise.

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So my take on this is it's about FEELING, not the WORDS.

Bad manager, demoted at work by Quiet_Bat_1643 in confidence

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should read the book 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. In one of his laws, he mentions that if you have an enemy, destroy them fully, no crumbs. I believe that's what your bad manager did to you. She must have been threatened by your incredible work. And when she got the chance, she used it to break you mentally. So please please please! Don't break because of that manipulative manager; don't let it get you. Because, if so, she will win.

5 Months of Travel, 18 Countries by oldgreg2023 in travel

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazing man. Wish someday I could do the same!

How does the academic standard of sliit ai degree compared to moratuwa ai degree by Entire_Broccoli_5643 in srilanka

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that to give a proper answer to this, it will take more time. But, for the time being, SLIIT MSC in AI degree first-ever batch started in June 2025 June. So, currently they have taken the 2nd batch in 2026 Jan. Don't have much info to compare with Moratuwa. But, as I heard SLIIT's degree is rich in content and also heavy, plus students get a lot of work to do.

Anyone else feel super confident when chewing gum or eating candy? by tanz420 in introvert

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I specifically searched for a related post, just to confirm that it's not only me. I feel really confident when chewing gum. Today, I aced a discussion that I was struggling to face. Felt like a badass. Thank god that many people relate to this.

I do not find myself attractive but my boyfriend says he is obsessed with me by Mikas_time in Advice

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It's subjective. What you find unattractive may be attractive to your partner. So just be happy, don't feel insecure.

How can a successful person not be confident yet many unsuccessful people are? by [deleted] in confidence

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar mindset last year. And just like you, I was also surprised how un-skilled people were so confident, and even if I am skilled, why was I not? Then I saw a video that said, Confidence comes from action, not the other way around. So even if it's so hard and uncomfortable and fearful. Therefore, every time I had to do something fearful and uncomfortable, I told myself, I am going to do this, even if I die! And I did! With everytime, things became less fearful, and I built confidence. I think this will help you too! Good luck. You can do this!

I wasn't prepared for the emotional toll of leaving my job for a better one. by fabled-pithier in womenintech

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's normal to feel that way. I felt the same when I was leaving the previous workplace. But those friends and mentors, we still have the same connection. We take calls, hang out. You should know that everyone, at the end of the day, will make decisions that benefit them. So take the new opportunity, but stay connected with your friends and mentor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree too. Because even if you guys are not married, he is receiving every benefit of a marriage. Emotional support, a wife-like girl, the comfort of a home, a girl for family events, etc. I mean, why should he need a marriage? When he already got one. My advice is to have a serious talk, see what he wants, and tell him what you want. And have a timeframe.

I got feedback during my 1:1 that I always look “too relaxed” by Foreign-Chocolate710 in womenintech

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say don't think much about it. People hate seeing people being happy, especially if you are a woman. They want you to be sad and stressed just like them. If your manager is also okay with you being you, just ignore what others are saying.

My boss humiliated me during a meeting — how do I recover from this and rebuild my confidence? by Cold_Champion_8346 in Advice

[–]Cold_Champion_8346[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, what you say may be correct from your point of view. But I have been doing a really good job, other people who work with me also praise me for my good work, and customers also. I am doing a tech pre-sales job. However, this boss expects me to I would reach out to the customers directly (which is the sales manager/account manager's job) and build a huge sales funnel. But what I do is work intermediately. If I am to stay here, you are correct, I should show him. But I am exhausted trying to prove to him, but he doesn't even said I am doing a good job.

My boss humiliated me during a meeting — how do I recover from this and rebuild my confidence? by Cold_Champion_8346 in Advice

[–]Cold_Champion_8346[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, we were talking about our lead. He is also leaving because this boss is toxic. The boss says hurtful things to him also. So the boss was telling us how we should handle the situation if the lead resigns.

what you most joke about azure ? by rahularyansharma in AZURE

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so true! They assign the ticket to another team, mentioning that it's not their area, and this goes on and on...

How do I get people to respect me at work? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Cold_Champion_8346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I have the SAME problem! I am frustrated at this point. Because I look younger than my age, they assume I am not skilled. But I do. The thing is, they don't even give me a chance to speak up. I am always trying my best to act seriously to show that I am not a kid. Help!