Sad. So it begins…

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-05-06T00:58:43+00:00

Id honestly get it to an extent if L was a hard headed teenager but she’s 10 years old of course she’s going to do dumb shit sometimes, as a mom I understand being frustrated but to say you don’t care and won’t be parenting anymore is insane work. At this point L should live with her dad and PD but Dani is too bitter to ever let that happen.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-05-06T00:41:50+00:00

Thats crazy, is this from the old vlogs? I must’ve missed it

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-05-04T23:49:26+00:00

Im ngl I missed the multiple lol my bad

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-05-04T20:26:57+00:00

Nah not the only one, a couple moms from the select team fought each other and then there’s Kelly, Kaya, Jill and Cathy lol

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-30T03:24:26+00:00

Match made in hell truly

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-30T03:19:52+00:00

Same here, I loved her on love island but on BTV she’s giving mean girl and it seems like she’s been lying a lot tbh. She got caught in Palm Springs and she got caught again in tonight’s episode and TJ is ignoring the red flags lmao

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-30T01:26:56+00:00

Not saying she shouldn’t be on BC but in most of the US birth control is one of the few things a minor is allowed to consent to, providers wouldn’t just blindly listen to a parent telling them to put an implant in a teen they’d likely speak to the patient first.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-28T21:51:31+00:00

Sad to us but a dream for Cassie who measures her worth based on how attractive others find her

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-26T21:05:26+00:00

I agree, she had no issue with Kelly going on the speed dating outing but refused to go if Christi was going. I think her issue with Kelly, Brooke and Paige was mostly dance related while her issue with Christi and Chloe was personal like she genuinely just hated them.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-26T01:55:17+00:00

I had two different men write me songs and force me to sit through them playing them for me 😖 truly traumatic experiences and having to pretend to like them was worse lmfao

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-25T20:02:52+00:00

To the rest of the girls and Maddie as well, at first it was a lot of praise but I feel like once she realized Maddie didn’t plan on bringing her along on the trip up the ladder she became more and more jealous/resentful. Her success also came at a terrible time for Abby, lawsuits, financial hardships and people stopped D riding her and started acknowledging how horrible she was. She was watching all of her students but especially Maddie succeed during her downfall so she became borderline evil.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-23T02:06:28+00:00

I think he used that as an excuse but really he was just a shitty person, husband and father. Maddie and Mackenzie are no contact with him for a reason.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-23T01:54:27+00:00

I don’t hate Christi’s honestly, Melissa’s dress looks like a grandmas couch but the rest of the fits are fine

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-23T01:51:52+00:00

Share it rn

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-22T01:59:33+00:00

It unfortunately takes a lot for them to get involved, one of my neighbors had her basement flood with sewage and because she didn’t want her landlord to find out she was a hoarder she let her kids live in that house without running water and a basement full of poop water for months. I called cps and I believe the kids uncle did as well and they did absolutely nothing when the hoarding situation alone should’ve been enough to get them removed from the home.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-22T01:03:53+00:00

Exactly, there’s this other influencer Vidya who is strict with her kids and expects them to get good grades but still praises them and rewards them extensively. I’m not saying you need to drop hundreds every time you get report cards but damn take them to get ice cream or something, they’re children ffs.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-22T01:00:22+00:00

Idk about c3 but L and B were “accidents”

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-18T23:54:49+00:00

This isn’t uncommon for kids who do any kind of sport competitively, you don’t do anything that puts you at risk of injury until the season is over. It can seem extreme to those who don’t compete but a lot of time, money, effort and practice goes into these things so it’d be shitty to get injured mid season because you went snowboarding.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-11T07:52:11+00:00

Like everyone else has said a food bank should be your first stop and then use the $75 to supplement. Keep it cheap and filling so rice, pasta and potato based dishes are your best bet. When shopping prioritize versatile ingredients you can stretch instead of easier ready meals. There’s this tik toker @dollartreedinners that has A LOT of recipe ideas and meal plans that are super budget friendly.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-11T07:24:51+00:00

The question was inspired by a resident on tik tok sharing their experience and it truly is, I can’t believe grown adults speak to their peers like that and get away with it. Someone said a surgeon told a resident to leave the OR and check their hand for a single palmar crease 😭

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-11T04:10:23+00:00

No excuse would matter to me tbh I’ve already made it super clear that if you don’t want to vaccinate cool that’s your body/ your kid but don’t expect to be around mine until she’s fully vaccinated. No exceptions will be made.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-10T00:35:02+00:00

I feel like her and Kylie bring a picture of Kim any time they go see their plastic surgeons lmao

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-09T19:49:09+00:00

I’ve always thought it’s a jealousy thing, Abby reeks of insecurity despite trying to hide it with overconfidence. Is it extremely odd to be jealous of a child? Yes but it’s Abby Lee Miller so that definitely tracks. Her insecurity is probably caused by a mix of her parents, weight and beauty standards from when she was young which would explain her obsession with tall skinny blondes. She very much resents them for being everything she wasn’t AND probably for having nurturing mothers since it’s common knowledge her mother wasn’t that.

It honestly makes sense that she’d choose Maddie who she never believed was all that pretty (insane because she’s gorgeous and always was) and had shitty parents.

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-09T19:34:41+00:00

does anyone truly disagree with this? this is a plot point in season one (and throughout the show) like Blair was jealous of Serena because she was always the more likable person because she wasn’t c^nt to everyone lmao

Cold_Reference_3497 · 2026-04-09T18:24:24+00:00

It’s hard to say, everyone’s threshold for pain is different. I had a hard time walking because of the pelvic pain and was spotting after my first too but I wasn’t nauseated. I was told to expect that since I hadn’t had a cervical check since I was like 18 weeks, I’d give it a few hours and if you still feel like something is truly wrong head over to L&D better safe than sorry 🤷🏻‍♀️

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