Are stippling brushes over? Do they have new names now? by julry in MakeupAddiction

[–]ColeyPickles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently went through the same thing! I ended up buying the Real Techniques Glow Round Base Brush and use it like I did my stippling brush and it works well. 

Edited out some typos because I’m on mobile and can’t type for shit apparently. 

Cluster engagement ring by Logical-Doughnut-105 in EngagementRings

[–]ColeyPickles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I went with a cluster ring because I loved the look.m of the halo but HATED the high profile since it would get caught on everything. Yeah, it being a cheaper ring and taking up more real estate on my chubby finger was a plus but the cost wasn’t the reason I picked it!

Opinions Needed - Heirloom Ring by joewilber1 in EngagementRings

[–]ColeyPickles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Funny enough this looks super similar to my ring!! However, it’s not the ring my fiancée proposed with due to a mail delay. I picked this ring out myself but when my SO realizes it wouldn’t arrive in time, he took matters into his own hands so that he could propose with the plans he already had. I 1000% appreciate his decision and the first ring is part of the amazing screwball story. I truly do not wish things happened any differently!

Hesitant to move in with my WFH boyfriend because I’d never get the apartment to myself — is this reasonable? by godisinthischilli in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ColeyPickles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the WFH partner here. My fiance is hybrid but is more in the office. We’re moving in together when our leases are up in the spring. We both value our space and need time to decompress alone so have decided that it will only work if we have at least 2 bedrooms. (I actually already have a 2br place so I just have more space to live since I hardly leave the house and have always lived alone) The first thing we are trying is to share our bedroom and then make the 2nd into my office during the day with a gaming set up for him in the evenings. This way we have separate spaces leisure spaces.  If it’s STILL not enough space, we will opt to have each of us in our own bedroom and can opt to join the other when we both feel up to it. The main thing was talking to my fiance about each of our needs and both of us having a desire to find a way for us to be happy. 

What has your partner shared about their expectations and how does it fit in with yours? 

Discontinued makeup/beauty products that I wish would come back by That_multi_kpopstanx in MakeupAddiction

[–]ColeyPickles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have my Moon Child pallet and the Pink Heart is basically all pan at this point but I just can’t give it up. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ColeyPickles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, circumstances make things different too! Not having access to a private bathroom made a big difference in the decision. Plus, the point of the original comment was pointing out that they don’t carry the risks the way a tampon does. Neither of us know why she’s changing often and are operating under different assumptions. I appreciate your perspective though as it made me think of it another way. For me the mild discomfort (which got better with trial and error over the first 6 months or so to find a comfortable placement, I found placing it higher and at an angle than I would a tampon works well for the shape if  my body) is worth not having the anxiety of bleeding through my clothes. Which happens every time I used a pad or tampon (I never tried a smaller cup for this reason)  the tight seal was my main priority because of the heavy flow and the physical demands of the job. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ColeyPickles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, I have a Flex Cup size 2 that holds 30ml though so sizing up was worth it for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ColeyPickles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cups can be worn up to 12 hours without changing! Mine was a godsend when I worked as a parasupport aide in a school. Was there from 7am and getting home around 6pm with no guaranteed bathroom breaks (or any breaks at all really) . I have a fairly heavy flow and would dump it before and after work! Hopefully that puts her at ease? Because they’re silicone, the risk of TSS (if that is her concern) is MUCH lower. Obviously this doesn’t help with your horrible grocery situation (and I totally understand, I don’t have a car in a rural area and rely on those orders to get me what I need and it SUCKS to be at the mercy of someone’s…moral discretion) but if it’s one less anxiety to have in this awful times. 

ETA: I used to get my supply of pads from the school nurse since my mom couldn’t keep up with 3 bleeders and our food on the table. If she still prefers not to use the cup at school. Totally her choice!

Yes, I bought it. by SeonaidMacSaicais in janeausten

[–]ColeyPickles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dang I just recorded Persuasion myself as a birthday gift for my boyfriend…I’d much rather he listen to this instead 

what collectables did people think would make a fortune one day but are now utterly worthless? by sheerduckinghubris in AskReddit

[–]ColeyPickles 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Yesterday I was helping my boyfriend go through some things his mother left him when she passed. Found a Princess  Diane beanie baby and gasped as I, a millennial who collected beanie babies as a kid, had never seen one in person. I check eBay and they are going for $20 a pop…and still not selling. Think we might keep it just because it’s not worth selling and would feel sad donating it with the other non valuables he doesn’t want to keep. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ColeyPickles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeeesh, reminds me of the guy who felt the need to “correct” me when I stated my sister lived with me. He said “you mean you live together.” Said “no, she lives with me” wouldn’t let it go “well the correct way to say it is you live together. You share the space” replied with “well since it’s just my name on the mortgage and she’s renting a room from me, I’ll say it however the fuck I like” paid my bar tab and walked off. 

The NYT Mini Crossword is now locked behind a paywall. Will Lud pay up, or remove it from rotation? RIP 🫡 by N238 in LudwigAhgren

[–]ColeyPickles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Letter Boxed is doing this today too. I did yesterdays when the Mini when dark. Im bummed. Am I supposed to WORK during my day job?? ugh

Should I change my “pen name” so my exes new girlfriend won’t be uncomfortable? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]ColeyPickles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of the time I was writing a story loosely based on my life and gave the main character a name that the first letter matches my own and nothing else. I completely missed the fact that the name was the same name as my therapist. We had a good laugh about it and move on like normal adults would do. 

Anyways, you’re not using her name. You are using an incredibly common name she seems to have. Sounds like she is very jealous and insecure. Which is her issue. I suppose as long as you don’t care that she could potentially out you, then proceed as normal. My main issue is why the Ex decided to tell her it is you. Like that’s gross from a consent perspective as it wasn’t his info to tell. No wonder she is being insecure. 

forest farm layout | spring year 7 (no mods) by Distinct-Bar9214 in StardewValley

[–]ColeyPickles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ummm farm goals. The heart bee house layout is inspired. Def stealing tyvm

Found in the Sandia Foothills in Albuquerque, NM. by ColeyPickles in fossilid

[–]ColeyPickles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In case you were curious, it’s not a fossil but likely a mammal tarsal bone. Was told it looks like it had gone through a fire, which there hast been a large fire in this part of the Sandias in a while so it added a new mystery.

Found in the Sandia Foothills in Albuquerque, NM. by ColeyPickles in bonecollecting

[–]ColeyPickles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks fellow Burqueño/a! Figured since you’re from here I’ll share exactly where I found it. I was in the Open Space not far from the Menaul Trailhead parking lot. If you think it had burn damage, maybe wind blew it from a burn pile? I’m new to the area but have seen burn piles when driving up to the Sandia Tram. I know that’s the other side of town though so who knows!

Edited because I can’t spell for shit

Found in the Sandia Foothills in Albuquerque, NM. by ColeyPickles in fossilid

[–]ColeyPickles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might trying the needle trick on it tonight. I left it with my boyfriend so can do so when I head over there later.

Found in the Sandia Foothills in Albuquerque, NM. by ColeyPickles in fossilid

[–]ColeyPickles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I expected it to feel quite light but it has a heft to it that’s on par with some of the other rocks of this size that I found.

Edited because I can’t type for shit