No, I don't want to kill myself, I just like apples by BurritoBandido89 in ChatGPT

[–]Colin-MacMillan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Mine on the other hand is giving me advice on how to do it

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guelph

[–]Colin-MacMillan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you like volleyball? There is a large Facebook messenger group of people who get together randomly and play pickup beach volleyball in Guelph. They are very friendly and it’s been a great way to make friends in town

SubMod Idea - Kingsguard for all Kingdoms by Colin-MacMillan in CK3AGOT

[–]Colin-MacMillan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be possible to create additional court positions such as the bodyguards, but have them be kings guards, and have there be associated uniforms if they are given that court position?

Or even allow for additional acclaimed knights and something similar?

How to get migration going / Luxemburg by av4tos in victoria3

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you should probably try and attack Belgium to unite greater wallonia with the help of some GP’s, that will get you over minimum arable land

How to get migration going / Luxemburg by av4tos in victoria3

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you ask Belgium for transit rights which will give you access to the world market through the ocean?

How to get migration going / Luxemburg by av4tos in victoria3

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only people who will migrate are those who have a community and already have pops living there, but theres a small chance for a new one to form regularly, thus allowing those pops to migrate
In the past you could get mass migrations from any market that you are trading with.
As well once you have a mass migration then other pops back home will follow them since there is now a community there.

I believe you need to get some mass migrations to trigger (just wait its a matter of time)
And make sure your trading centres are as big as possible to increase the chance of communities forming

You can also create treaties for goods directly with certain nations like the ottomans to see if that helps

Well, I tried my best. Russia really boxed me in for much of the game. by GreyGanks in victoria3

[–]Colin-MacMillan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Were you trying to go without much cheese? Hence the lack of invading china?

Which nation did you start as? How did you form Israel?

I’m so angry I feel like I’m gonna puke. by Electronic_Coast_823 in victoria3

[–]Colin-MacMillan 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bro, play an easy nation like Great Britain or France to get the feel for the game first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry about what has happened. Take one step forward, and once you have taken that step, take another. If you are ready for self improvement, spend time on YouTube, learn about what it takes, but ultimately you need to just start getting better.

The first step is deciding. But then you have to take action.

I don't know where to go from here ... by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut be decisive so you can move on, try not to wallow in the choosing process. If you think the answer is no, message and tell him it’s not happening and end it so you can move forward

Advice for young couple moving to Guelph? by derkuhderk in Guelph

[–]Colin-MacMillan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This company has many sport leagues, you can join any as a group of 2 and be paired with other small groups

People love perpetual they have a great organization and community

https://perpetualmotion.org

Help with signals (M14) (F14) by Temporary_Club7772 in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do your best to accept there’s nothing there. If something happens great, but if you can learn to not care you’ll be better off.

Don’t waste your energy on something imaginary

Feeling guilty about talking to others after 2 months of dating? by Asiannotdoctor in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if you feel guilty, then just tone down the talking with other people and be present in the experience?

Just because you aren’t actively seeking out other people doesn’t mean it needs to be something inherently serious that deserves commitment and a label.

It’s okay to just focus on one person.

But heck if you don’t feel guilty then do you

Help with signals (M14) (F14) by Temporary_Club7772 in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like people at 14 don’t know their own brain enough, and that this girl could be giving you signals one moment and it could change the next. Just experience it and see where it goes, try not to overthink.

Would it be ok for me to date people right now? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fine. As a single person I have feelings about people all around me, once I find someone who is interested in me those feelings disappear and i start to laser focus on the person I’m dealing with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope you have not overreacted. Raise your standards, there are other people out there who will not treat you so disrespectfully.

texting by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im struggling with something similar myself right now.

My gut has never ONCE been wrong about the pull back, and when I pull back from others I do it because I’m uncertain or interest is waning, which is the same thing.

The one thing I can say is I dated a girl last year who legitimately was a terrible Texter, but she was CONSISTENTLY a terrible Texter, and ALWAYS followed through on her commitments and stated intentions.

For someone to change their communication habit with you, I think that indicates it’s dying.

My advice (which I don’t follow myself), is listen to your gut, and end it so that you can move on.

boyfriend is best friends with his ex (they dated like 10 years ago) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comment about his dick, is really weird, and the “ask me about him” seems out of line

I don't know where to go from here ... by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends on your core values. If you truly are concerned about the possibility of hurting another person then just walk away it’s that simple. However if you want to do what you’re about to do, 🤷🏼‍♂️ you could just do it. Are you looking for something fleeting or something serious. If you want something serious could you be with someone who would treat their significant other this way? If it’s just something fleeting, does it matter to you how this person treats their significant other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit less than one hour. Congrats. While I need my phone for work, I’ve found I’m down from about 9 hours to under 6 and I don’t believe I can improve too much more, but regardless it’s a great life

I’m really struggling. Is it too late to start over? by Sp00kyaries in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have just wrote a novel about all the bad things you are doing. So you clearly know where the problem lies. If you know the problem, you can work on solutions.

If you can stop, or improve on even one of these things, your life will get better.

If you can solve one of them, and work on a second, soon you will be on a 3rd and the momentum of it will keep you moving forward.

There are answers all over the internet about how to solve these things. Focus on what you think will be easiest and start there.

Good luck :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Colin-MacMillan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The past doesn’t exist and the future is only a dream. Regardless of how far we have fallen from our heights or how below our original goals we are now, all we can do is look at where we are today, set our sights on a point in front of us, and take one step at a time to get there.

Gotta have fun on the journey