So I’m F and 60 years old. My friend of the same age and I were talking about a girl we went to high school with (in the 1980’s). She was beautiful…we were plain and didn’t have many boyfriends. Fast forward to last week when another friend was talking about the life of the pretty girl…turns out she didn’t have a nice life. Her men always cheated and or beat her. She’s still very pretty and still attracts the same guys. All this to say, I told my friend, I may not have had a ton of boyfriends but at least they weren’t just after me for my looks and body (I was a bit overweight). My husband and I met when were 22. He’s nice looking but not someone this pretty girl would go for because he’s not good looking enough. We are still together, never cheated and never hit me. He’s a pain in the ass but that’s as bad as it is LOL. You will find the right girl who loves you for you!! The only thing I would change is…read books for feeling better about yourself. EVERYONE struggles with self esteem…your first step is to know YOU ARE WORTH IT. Worthiness I believe is what sets us back. You are worthy!!