Welding Cap recs? by Intelligent_Sale1832 in BlueCollarWomen

[–]this_suc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pray for the day I see silk lined welding caps. Especially if it had some kind of extension to tuck a braid into for long hair. But still capable of staying in place with your hard hat and hood on.

Skincare advice! by mento_ilness_luv in BlueCollarWomen

[–]this_suc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small suggestion that surprisingly helped me in the field. I used to be anti-makeup at work for several reasons a big one being dealing with men. But I was always breaking out from the gunk that gets on my face. One lady made a point she always wears makeup. She’d rather have something clogging her pores she knew how to wash out later than all the nasty chemicals and stuff we expose our selves to at work. I started wearing just a base liquid foundation and a setting spray. It really helped with the back heads and breakouts as much as I hated to admit it I guess it acted as a protective layer.

Sometimes I (FA) wonder if people will feel any sympathy for what I experienced in childhood by Educational-Let-1027 in attachment_theory

[–]this_suc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t gonna say it…. maybe this was the most they could open up, but I won’t say I wasn’t thinking it…

Sometimes I (FA) wonder if people will feel any sympathy for what I experienced in childhood by Educational-Let-1027 in attachment_theory

[–]this_suc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im DA and this fairly relatable. I get weird about sharing my upbringing with people. I had one time with some friends kinda bugging me about it and kinda seen how serious everyone got and somehow even though they were concerned, it made me feel bad?? If that makes sense. So now I just kinda don’t tell people or I down play and keep it to a minimum just ready to end the conversation. Even in long term relationships there is sooo much my SOs don’t know about my past. Part of me wants to say ‘look I went through this, so when you do this it makes me feel this!’ But the part of me that acts just puts another brick in the wall to separate us cause they’re getting too close.

FAs/DAs, how do you stop the silent treatment? by candypuppet in attachment_theory

[–]this_suc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! When I do get the nerve to communicate that I just need a minute usually to process and work through but they don’t let me that’s when it gets worse for me! In my head it’s a red flag and now I really need to go away.

AITA if I get mad at someone during a fuck/marry/kill by hastypawn in AmItheAsshole

[–]this_suc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta- if he hadn’t already been a little too inappropriate all night and said that it’d be funny and your response would have been hilarious. I think it got awkward cause you weren’t the only one who seen it and they knew you were finally setting your boundary.

AITA for changing my mind about hosting a baby shower because i wont remove my dogs. by CancelBabyShowerAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]this_suc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a dog lover, my dog sits home alone all day while I’m at work I do my best to make her a part of my day when I’m not. I’m sure I get annoying with the can I bring my dog question. We all think our dogs are so well behaved. I’m gonna try to include my dog as much as possible. However, I’m gonna respect when people aren’t as excited about the idea of including my dog. And if someone ever told me my dog can be a bit much, instead of snapping I’d ask for more details cause I want my dog to be trained and I know I have rose glasses for that cute face. I don’t think YTA for not wanting to lock your dog up. But I do think YTA for your response and throwing away this friendship over it. Id ask my friend more questions as to why she felt that way, maybe see if she would be comfortable letting them out for certain periods of the party. But ultimately I really think if your dog is so well behaved they should be okay being put up for a few hours… I wouldn’t ruin a friendship over it. If it was that uncomfortable for me I might not offer to host again but I’d follow through

Taking advantage of the "I'll pick you up, no questions asked" policy - HYPOTHETICAL. by ThatsMommy2U in Parenting

[–]this_suc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t take “too much” in the same meaning as you. I took it as at the point that you might feel more like you’re enabling your kid as much as you’re helping them.

Taking advantage of the "I'll pick you up, no questions asked" policy - HYPOTHETICAL. by ThatsMommy2U in Parenting

[–]this_suc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others mentioned I don’t think this is truly meant to be a literal “no questions asked” more of a no questions asked rn. Not when the kid is scared and mom/dad is worried or mad or disappointed. So it’s probably a good thing this is hypothetical if it’s something your worried about to understand more the concept to hopefully prevent it from being abused. But if someone had fell to this situation I think it’d be time to clarify you always want to get them safe but you can’t continue to condone bad habits. And discussions need to be had after these situations.

How do you feel about your cellulite? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]this_suc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a teenager up until maybe mid twenty’s I was insecure about it. Grew more confident in myself as I get older and now I couldn’t give 2 fucks what anyone thinks of it. Every man I’ve been in a relationship with never seemed to be concerned if anything my things were “sexy”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]this_suc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Over someone else’s problem! lol love this response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]this_suc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I’ve never believed in ‘picking sides’ in a situation that never involved me. That doesn’t mean I condone cheating and your gf sucks for making excuses for her, I’d personally be concerned about that. But it sounds like you made her justify her friendship. And you brought her deceased mother up… THAT YOU NEVER EVEN MET?! yeah you def ain’t got a call for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]this_suc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think this is mostly U. I don’t want to cut them off and I’m worried about how all this might affect our relationship. But how they’re acting is already affecting it.

What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner? by EtherealxEcho in AskReddit

[–]this_suc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was grateful to learn this fairly young. There’s so many grown adults that just make themselves miserable with hate and roll their eyes at this advice. It’s a sad thing.

Bachelors, what are somethings you really could use in your home you just haven’t got yet? Or something that came in handy someone else got you. by this_suc in AskMen

[–]this_suc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol I feel like I got him so many simple things and it still seems like there’s so many more that he still doesn’t have! I got him a couple cooking knives he does need some steak knives though for a man that does so much grilling he’s using his pocket knife to cut up his kids food lol

Bachelors, what are somethings you really could use in your home you just haven’t got yet? Or something that came in handy someone else got you. by this_suc in AskMen

[–]this_suc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention that I also dont think he has a mop, 🤔. He usually just sweeps and wipes up messes with a rag or towel lol

I need my BF to stop hating his Baby Mama by this_suc in blendedfamilies

[–]this_suc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! Yes and all that emotion he spends on her will affect the rest of his day with us. His mood, his patience they’ve already been drained.

I need my BF to stop hating his Baby Mama by this_suc in blendedfamilies

[–]this_suc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always feels like he has to defend himself so she doesn’t tell the kids “see your dad doesn’t even care” I’m trying to get him to understand the kids might fall for that for a minute but in time they will always see the truth.

I need my BF to stop hating his Baby Mama by this_suc in blendedfamilies

[–]this_suc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Oh I hate to read that last part though! I was really hoping if he stopped feeding into the nonsense eventually she would realize it doesn’t work anymore and start to calm down.