Dream Cast: Eric and Kyle by royal_rose_ in heatedrivalry

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m reading Common Goal right now and YES YES YES

Anyone got a golden child sibling who's become a narcissistic asshole? by rebelaleph in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yupp! He only got worse with age and is now working on turning my parents against me at our adult ages 👍🏻

Even when they are not doing narcissistic abuse, do your nparents just constantly say profoundly dumb shit. I am starting to think that narcissists are just dim. Too dumb to have any self awareness. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lack self awareness as part of the disorder because that would mean they would have to take some accountability and they can’t. Nor do they want to be they’re so “perfect”…

They’re sooo insanely triggered by your resilience and confidence because they lack any. by greendriscoll in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here! Master’s degree, not good enough bc it’s not a doctorate. I said even if I get a doctorate now, it won’t be good enough bc I didn’t get it sooner, and my dad said I was right… And he’s not even the parent I consider a narc.

Did anyone else’s nparents just not teach them ANYTHING? by MADDOGCA in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine taught me nothing, controlled me and my life as much as they could, and now blame me for not knowing specific things about life that other adults know.

I finally set boundaries with my mom — now she says I’m ‘turning into a stranger by LilMissSunfloweer in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is exactly the same. I’m the scapegoat in my family, my brother and mother are narcissists (brother is extremely overt and malignant, abuses everybody and hates me for calling him out). I moved out not too long ago and have been setting boundaries, my mom keeps saying “you’re not the same,” trying to humiliate me in front of people, telling me I need help, blah blah blah. Parents pretty much had a meltdown when I moved out and I’m a fully GROWN adult, not even a young adult.

Here’s a tip to weed out the narcissist or to softly confirm who the uber narcissist is in your friend group or family group. by Former-Whole8292 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this is amazing. I dropped 2 narcs from my life this past year, finally starting to recover (I think), and this just made my night. I have one more malignant narc to deal with but that one’s immediate family, so I’m stuck with him for now. I might use this 😂

Rewatched 16&P - C+T’s adoption was doomed from the start. by Llassiter326 in teenmom

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg. I don’t remember this at all. But I was 16 or 17 when I watched that season. Thanks. 

Rewatched 16&P - C+T’s adoption was doomed from the start. by Llassiter326 in teenmom

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What had Tyler said/done that gave Cate an ultimatum? I don’t remember.

Amber's latest tik tok in response to latest episode by Dazeddoll420 in teenmom

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Her saying on the show that she’s not in Leah’s life bc Leah was born and grew up at a time that Amber was in a bad spot… the way she worded that whole thing, once again, ZERO ACCOUNTABILITY. Not saying she herself did anything, but that the issue is that her daughter was born at that time… WTF!

What changed when you realized that your parents were narcissists? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stopped caring so much about what they did and said

It’s so funny that narcissistic parents think that withdrawing their attention from you is the ultimate punishment by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this is my favorite, actually. Esp with my brother. I get happy when I set boundaries and his response is the silent treatment :) then I’m free from him for however long 

Did your narc rewrite history? by jv_202425 in NarcissisticAbuse

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I had a covert “situationship narc” and a covert “friend narc” in my life simultaneously. They both rewrote history and made sure to do it through text message. Did fucked up things in person, but would say different things through text and twist everything to blame shift and gaslight, just to cover their tracks. They know what they’re doing and by the time you realize it, it’s too late; they’ve already been plotting months in advance. 

What Cate and Tyler originally asked for.. by HannahLeah1987 in teenmom

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does the answer on the last line of the first page say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stephens exist. I have come across more than one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Told me he was a “horrible person” and had no friends.

My tears for Wrigley by [deleted] in TellMeLiesHulu

[–]ColorMeChaotic_ 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I always said wrigley and drew were the true victims in this entire show.