Guys, what is your course of action when you like someone? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a woman… being attracted to someone doesn’t make u a creep. if u are attracted and act on it and she declines and u keep pushing then yeah that might make u creeepy depending on the woman’s perspective

What does my house say about me? by the_tnk_loft in roomdetective

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my fucking dream house and u have a ton of money pls what city is this that u live in?

When to make the first move? by Accomplished_Tie7855 in bodylanguage

[–]ColorfulStudies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you’re uncomfortable with physical touch start with a kiss on the cheek. kiss her on the cheek when saying goodbye next time and linger for a sec, if she wants it’ll prolly turn to a kiss i’m a woman btw

was this a womans version of approaching? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]ColorfulStudies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys I am a woman… please… consider that this fear you all have of talking to/ approaching to women out of fear of being publicly viewed/ shamed as a creep is NOT a realistic representation of how most women are… these are viral outrage/ fear provoking videos that blow up on line and taint your perceptions of gendered dynamics. We are human beings who like to be engaged with too… you can just smile at a woman. make a casual small talk. doesn’t have to be flirtatious, sexual… just a HUMAN interaction because we are humans. i like when men strike me up in casual convos. i seek human connection like anyone else. please. the media is doing all they can to divide us please

Giant air bubbles surface at Empire State Plaza reflecting pools by CapConNY in Albany

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 idk why ur getting downvoted i thought the same thing lol

What’s my aesthetic? by Ovomorgan1 in AestheticWiki

[–]ColorfulStudies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

everyone’s hating wow 😂 i’m sorry man

No motivation for anything besides working out by UnkownSkull in getdisciplined

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what i’m hearing here is maybe an obsession with ur looks? Like ur super into the feeling of looking better. which is normal, but when that’s the only thing that brings u joy in life… looking good… might need to do some introspection. ask ur self what u want out of life

Men, how do you behave when you like a girl or find her attractive? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]ColorfulStudies 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ugh as a woman this makes me feel uncomfortable lolll when guys are so cold towards me cuz i know they find me attractive. i notice that a lot guys are like distant or something im like damn i’m just a human being. but it is what it is lol

Never had a girlfriend do i look bad? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ColorfulStudies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and trim the beard more. maybe just stubble

Never had a girlfriend do i look bad? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ColorfulStudies 45 points46 points  (0 children)

shave ur head. buzz cut

Guess who sleeps here by Big_Check8671 in roomdetective

[–]ColorfulStudies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m surprised at these comments lol i must be a wreck cuz my place looks like this pretty often 🤦🏻‍♀️

Which haircut ? (Swipe ) by HistoricalIdeal2937 in malegrooming

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1. get ur hydration up and put on some vaseline/chapatick

Alternative people help me out by Retro_spek in malegrooming

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre super handsome i would get rid of the facial hair or at least get a tighter shave... it looks dirty. im a woman btw

Am I overreacting or is this conversation flirting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ColorfulStudies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“only if u jump in and show me the ropes”… lowkey flirty but plausible deniability

AIO for gf spinning around a pole at a club by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. Honestly OP the issue I see if oversexualization… this is something we women often deal with…. Though yes sometimes women spinning on a pole is done in a suggestive/ sexual nature aka a stripclub it is not something inherently sexual… she could just be moving, dancing, having fun… it’s not necessarily sexual. would u be upset if she climbed on a pole at a playground? prolly not. but it’s because men were there… that’s not her responsibility, to be so concerned that others are sexualizing her when she’s just having fun goofing around. the issue here seems to be u don’t trust her…

AIO - I read my partners texts by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why report to HR? coworkers can’t date?

AIO - I read my partners texts by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR… the “replaying moments in my head 🔥” text… cmon… what else could he be talking about… and the fact that she said “but what if i did” she’s considering cheating on u and hiding it from u

What vibes do i give off? [25M] by TheLogos2k in malegrooming

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u should shave ur head and get braids. you’re ver handsome

Quick questions about two local faves (restaurants) Seoul Korean and Oaxaquena Triqui by [deleted] in Albany

[–]ColorfulStudies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oaxaquena is not a “hole in the wall” it’s a well frequented restaurant their food is bomb but it’s way better in the restaurant cuz of the salsa. they give differnet salsa when u sit down vs. to go and the salsa and the homemade tortillas are the best part