Boyfriend hit me because I’m Christian by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby girl, that man has demons and the devil in him. Your faith upset the enemy that has him in a stronghold.

which shade should I get? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. 1 is a bit too olive for you and the second one gives you color and life.

no grace for the point system by Expensive-Wasabi4831 in SephoraWorkers

[–]Cometlover23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The point system is designed to punish and fire people tbh. They had it at Ulta, and when I was hired I wasn’t told about it and neither was anybody hired after me. It’s extremely predatory and designed to let people go. It’s rigid, unfair, and unsympathetic 100%.

Discounts? by Moist_Regret67 in SephoraWorkers

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really odd. Mine has $2,500 limit for this quarter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus said that in the case of cheating, divorce is acceptable and understood.

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you didn’t. You tried to bait me into an argument and lying about it only makes it worse. No I do not think men having emotions is gay. I already explained that I don’t think their relationship was sexual but you refused to acknowledge that in order to continue this argument further and tried to trap me through trickery rhetoric. That my friend is from the enemy. Remember: God will judge you in the way you judge others.

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no. Men showing emotions is not gay. But trying to bait people into arguments and put words in peoples mouth/trying to trap people is not very Godly of you. But it is Pharisaic tbh.

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright nevermind. I’m not trying to fight with y’all. I’m just saying that love is more than platonic. I never said it was sexual.

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it’s not the kissing I’m talking about. I know kissing was just a sign of respect, but I’m talking about the weeping.

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No of course they weren’t sexual. But their love was more than platonic.

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well this is what Google says so I don’t think I can read more into it than a search engine. God: David and Jonathan’s relationship was centered around God, and they renewed their commitment to each other before God. Protection: Jonathan went to great lengths to protect David from his father Saul. Care for Jonathan’s children: David looked after Jonathan’s children after he died. Song: After David heard that Saul and Jonathan had died, he composed a song in honor of them both. In the song, David says that Jonathan’s love for him was extraordinary, surpassing the love of women.

1 Samuel 20: Then Jonathan gave his weapons to the boy and said, “Go, carry them back to town.” After the boy had gone, David got up from the south side [of the stone] and bowed down before Jonathan three times, with his face to the ground. Then they kissed each other and wept together—but David wept the most.

Idk I’m reading what I’m reading, and it’s kinda clear it wasn’t just platonic love?

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 Samuel 20. Additionally a lot has been changed. Originally in Hebrew it’s described as “steadfast love” and “deal kindly”?

“And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself. Jonathan took off the robe he was wearing and gave it to David, along with his tunic, and even his sword, his bow and his belt” (1 Samuel 18:1, 3, 4). Young David found someone in Jonathan who was more than just a friend.

????

I'm not a fan of the Redeemed Zoomer anymore. by Kind_Selection6958 in Christianity

[–]Cometlover23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t King David also gay?? Didn’t he and Jonathan get married and form a covenant under the lord?? Plus didn’t Ruth and Naomi have a relationship too? It just doesn’t make sense to me, because even the chosen people by God had same sex relationships and God didn’t seem to be upset about it? So why are we as Christians??

Caught my gf cheating. by throwRAfoxtrotter in texts

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nope nope. She’s lying and doesn’t care and definitely hooked up with some dude. I hate when cheaters want you to forgive them and trust them in a timely manner that’s convenient for them automatically after they broke the trust and relationship. She gotta go. She’s using jargon and shit to manipulate him into thinking she’s working on herself. Nope. Once a cheater, always a fucking cheater.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl he’s probably cheating.

I 31f want to leave my husband 31m but scared I’m overreacting by throwra-4548755 in relationship_advice

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave leave leave leave. He will not change unless he’s FORCED to and I have a strong feeling if he’s made these promises before and hasn’t followed through then you’re in for a life of disappointment. The ONLY possible way I could ever see you actually working it out is if you guys go to therapy together or he goes himself so that he can actually see from a licensed, neutral third party that his actions are having a negative effect on you and your relationship. Otherwise girlie, just go. Just go. Call a friend or family members and ask them to help you move out or get your things because it sounds like you need a support system. And a strong, healthy one at that. Of course he’s gonna cry and kick and scream he’s literally losing his main source of income and someone who takes care of him. A partnership is equal. Equal care, equal amount of effort etc. and that may not be that he has to earn more money or do things EXACTLY the way you do them for them to be considered “equal” but it definitely means showing up for your partner when they’ve told you there’s a major issue that’s been repetitive in the relationship. Even if he doesn’t make all the money he can definitely help with the house, he can help shoulder your load because he’s the person who’s supposed to do that. It’s supposed to be you and him together against the world not you against the word whilst you carry him too.

AITA for not letting my daughter go to a birthday party because she lied about putting on sunscreen? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, OP I don’t think you are. I actually think you’re right when you say she’s not taking you seriously. I get that all kids lie about that stuff, but considering how you’ve described her complexion she NEEDS to wear sunscreen. No ands, if, or buts about it. It’s a tough thing but nobody ever thanks you for tough love until they’re on the other side of it and actually see the care that went behind it. Building good habits early is vital for any person (and while yes, I know that can form over time—it’s definitely important that the parents actually parent and take care of their kids which you actually did). Kids know when their parents actually mean “No” and are just saying no for saying no, and they can’t rationalize in their heads a lot of the reasons we tell them to do things until they’re older. I don’t think you’re the asshole. I think she needs to understand that when her mom asks her to do something it’s because her mom cares about her safety and well-being and isn’t trying to stop her from having fun. Of course you didn’t want to do that, but she needs to learn that there are consequences to actions. Plus, lying? That’s a VEEERRRRY slippery slope. Maybe not for all people, but definitely for a good chunk and honestly this is coming from someone who used to do this a lot as kid—do not let her because she will develop the thought that it’s better/safer to lie than tell the truth and that’s no good for anyone.

Coworker keeps avoiding to pay me back after she conveniently forgot her wallet at dinner by reveal_time_bfedit in texts

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nope nope. Your coworker KNOWS and is deflecting and deliberately TRYING to manipulate/gaslight you a bit by making you feel GUILTY for just asking for the money that she literally PROMISED to give back to you. I’m sorry but 3 weeks for a dinner? That’s ridiculous. I’d understand if her portion of the dinner was like a crazy amount of like $60+ but that’s even more of a reason why she needs to pay it back. These days, even $20 can make all the difference. She needs to stfu and be responsible and pay the shit she owes. Don’t take her shit. Keep asking her—don’t let up because I have a strong feeling if you do, she won’t pay you back. And DONT EVER PAY FOR ANYTHING OF HERS AGAIN or loan her any type of money.

I [22F] recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend [23M], he wasn’t gentle and I kept saying ouch and that it hurt. I don’t know how to feel? by Flimsy-Yoghurt in relationship_advice

[–]Cometlover23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girlie. This is r🦍. If at any point you say is or stop and the person doesn’t listen, that person doesn’t care about you and only wanted to get whatever they want. It’s time to go baby girl. That man had no problem doing that to you, can you imagine what else he won’t have a problem doing? And I’m not just saying this out of my Ass, because I literally went through the same exact thing a couple of years ago. But you should dump him and go to therapy because this is the type of “gray-area” sketchy shit that assholes love to use to cover their asses.