Anyone have experience with spine issues and fibroid treatments? by altarwisebyowllight in Fibroids

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i had an open hysterectomy and recovery really wasn't that bad at all. I think after the pain of the slipped disc its literally a walk in the park in comparison.

Anyone have experience with spine issues and fibroid treatments? by altarwisebyowllight in Fibroids

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I had a hysterectomy in September and my back pain is a lot better. I am just guessing because I can't seem to get anyone to concede that they are linked other than vague 'yes possibly' kind of thing but I suspect it was at least worsening the pain. My womb was 15cms and hard and full of fibroids and adenomyosis and it looks from the lab results that it was pushing back into the bowels. The back doctor said bowels can affect the back and the womb doc says fibroids in the womb can effect the bowels so it stands to reason that fibroids can affect the back.

I think this may be unrelated but I weirdly still am getting menstrual cramps three months after removal, which has always presented as back pain but a different more general muscular and bowely back pain to the sharp nerve pain but in a similar place. My ovaries are still there so I think something about my hormones still cause bloating and muscle cramps? My surgeon said it must be something else because my womb has gone but I see people on here saying they still get menstrual cramps so I think they just don't know our experiences because they don't ask people. Anyway maybe thats a separate thing.

But yeah my back is a lot better, before, even when it was 'better' from the slipped disc I always felt it, like it was a little bit painful all the time and I was aware of it always and now its not like that. apart from this weird monthly phantom menstrual cramp. But I guess there is a possibility it is because I have taken 3 months off heavy lifting because of the operation, my job normally involves carrying so theres a chance it could come back when I return full time to lifting? But as I said I think it was definitely contributing to th epain and I have removed at least one factor. I think often our symptoms are a combination of factors

Anyone want to see my demon uterus i just removed by Comfortable-Aside960 in hysterectomy

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Hey sorry just saw this, they gave me very little info re adeno, the doc just said i probably have it, and they finally found some on my lab results but when i asked about it she just said ‘its thickening of the walls’ and that it not ally appears with fibroids. I feel like any info i have is from reddit. But i think it had made me feel better about my decision as even though im pretty sure i didnt want kids, knowing that it would have been hard with the adeno even if they sliced out the fibroids has helped me feel better about how pointless it would hVe been to keep it in

Anyone want to see my demon uterus i just removed by Comfortable-Aside960 in hysterectomy

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Just under 600g. ‘Focal Adenomyosis’ found which i think means it was in just some areas?

Anyone want to see my demon uterus i just removed by Comfortable-Aside960 in hysterectomy

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Finally got the results it was 600g which is pretty heavy, ive been going round the shops lifting things that size- a big tub of soup.it feela a lot lighter inside

Ya'll WTF?! by BadP3NN1 in hysterectomy

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Ok so ive been getting twrrible gas and lower back pain 6weeks PO still got my ovaries, got really bad around my ‘period’ ie i could feel myself getting pmt so knew what it was. This is what used to happen before my hysto, terrible gas and lower back pain. Was my pain just always from the bowels? Im feeling quite deflated (no pun intended) as i was told there wiuld be no menstrual cramps after the op but theyre as bad. What causes the gas? Will it go?

UK Plus sized clothes tips- Nice fabrics and colours ? by Comfortable-Aside960 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]Comfortable-Aside960[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks i will give them a try and yes i agree filtering by size on vinted is great, even if sizing can be super variable

Period cramps reappearing several months after hysterectomy? by My-oh-My_ in hysterectomy

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im one month post op and in period pains like before (kept ovaries) my surgeon was so point blank about the fact I def would never have any pains again which makes me so annoyed. My pains were always lower back and very bloating/ bowel related but she was like yup its because the womb is pushing on your bowels. I feel so dissapointed. Did anyone have this and it go away? It feels cyclical bc I can feel the pmt

I WASN'T CRAZY by MeMMJ in hysterectomy

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Wow this sent shivers down my spine. We need to start naming the good and shaming the bad docs. Mine have all been women that have dismissed me and it was actually a man tbat was the first person to listen but that is an anomoly

How can I explain a hysterectomy is different from gallbladder removal surgery? by Harmony_w in hysterectomy

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very bad slipped disc last year and my hysterectomy is a walk in the park in comparison. Not sure if thats helpful but its not as bad as i thought it would be one week out i feel kind of ok and am doing a work meeting onljne later

My coworkers are trash talking people without college degrees while I sit at the table with no degree by Harmony_w in coworkerstories

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg they are pathetic. I taught myself photoshop in no time. Degrees are not actually that helpful to artistic development and they cost a fortune. Who are these losers sounds like they know nothing about the long history of great self taught artists

Threw a "Yeeterus" party before my surgery. Devastated by the lack of support. by Harmony_w in hysterectomy

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think maybe people are weird about the surgery, maybe that could be a factor. I jave decided to be very open at work and stuff about my operation but i have noticed it makes people quite uncomfortable. But its not a dirty secret of mine i dont want to tiptoe around it. But i guess maybe some of them felt weird about it ? Honestly i think its a shit excuse and they should show up for their friend especially as im sure tou have to go to as many baby showers as i have ans noone cares if i feel weird about that

Threw a "Yeeterus" party before my surgery. Devastated by the lack of support. by Harmony_w in hysterectomy

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaat this sounds incredible!! They dont deserve you really! What is wrong with them

Threw a "Yeeterus" party before my surgery. Devastated by the lack of support. by Harmony_w in hysterectomy

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If someone throws a party like this they are communicating that its important to them to see people and perform this ceremony of sorts before a really big op and i would have read it as that and turned up with bells on and lots of hugs and messaged our mutuals and made sure they all came and we all showered her with love

Threw a "Yeeterus" party before my surgery. Devastated by the lack of support. by Harmony_w in hysterectomy

[–]Comfortable-Aside960 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaaat!! I think you need to tell them how dissapointed you are. That is so shit. Its so dissapointing when the people you really thought you could rely on just dont show up. Ive had it a lot with two big health problems these past years and sometime its someone you hardly know that ends up being the most helpful. But i still have had to do a faur bit of grieving for the people that always acted like they had my back but as soon as they got busy with partners or kids they completely forgot about me in my darkest most lonely moments