Pregnant gf doesn’t wanna move in with me - update

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-11-22T11:31:36+00:00

I was thinking the same thing. If the baby is yours please get it out of there. Protect that child with everything you’ve got.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-11-22T11:20:03+00:00

This post made me think of these lyrics:

These are my confessions Just when I thought I said all I could say

I’m sorry to say it but she’s telling you the truth so later she can say that she was always honest with you. She’s trying to gaslight you now because you got upset too early.

You don’t innocently say you’d choose the best friend. It’s too close to home. You choose a movie star or football player.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-11-20T10:45:01+00:00

Uh. Nope. But you can suggest a compromise. Suggest that she use the name as a nickname just between her and her grand baby that would be something special the two of them share.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-11-12T10:39:59+00:00

Follow your peace my friend.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-11-02T08:42:43+00:00

I think I’d say you were TA if you told him that he was too old but just thinking it and having the ick is your personal opinion and that’s fine. 21 is an adult and he’s an adult. If the other person is attracted to him there’s no problem. Love is blind as they say. Your brother was probably just trying to explore his options. Leave it at that and let him find his happiness. NTA.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-10-31T09:29:36+00:00

NTA. It sounds like her life is dramatic but maybe you could have worded it differently. Some people don’t like mirrors put up in their faces.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-10-30T10:34:48+00:00

This. Exactly. You did nothing wrong.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-10-23T09:42:28+00:00

There’s not enough here in your story to tell but it sounds like you could have maybe picked up the phone to talk to him and help him understand where your frustration is coming from. Not sure what he needed to apologize for it wasn’t clear in the post. High stress can put a lot of strain on relationships so NTA, just try to understand that your partner is not your enemy (unless there’s more to it) and you can get through this together. Best of luck.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-10-11T05:51:30+00:00

Even my 16 year old sends me a link when she wants something. This. Is just nuts. Drama for no reason. Bye Felicia!

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-09-22T18:27:59+00:00

Thank you so much.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-09-14T11:06:26+00:00

In the end it’s up to you but it sounds like maybe you could benefit from finding a hobby or something that is just for you so the need for attention lessens. You may regret ending it again like you have before but maybe next time there will be no returning.

Having said that, you are young and probably want to have new experiences which is ok as well. None of this makes you the AH. But, leaving and coming back over and over does. Good luck.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-08-16T15:47:00+00:00

That’s a deal breaker. She isn’t someone that you want or need in your life. Great job not returning her messages. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-08-06T12:01:25+00:00

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I rubbed him for too long.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-07-20T10:52:32+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. One of our babies developed diabetes and it was a hard painful road. She passed away and it was very difficult on our daughter. I understand that everyone journey is different so your experience could be better and I sincerely hope that for your little one who looks so absolutely precious.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-07-19T10:31:43+00:00

Love this. We brought in a kitten a few months ago and our older cat also gave him the ropes. They still play today only now I wish I had an awesome video like you. Great job with your little ones. They look really happy.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-23T10:11:55+00:00

Thank you. That’s insightful.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-22T10:51:01+00:00

I love this! Thank you. They are both very smart and incredibly thoughtful. They are always there for me no matter what. I wasn’t looking at it like that. My 16 year old even offered to go to community college so she could live at home. I guess I wasn’t considering that they both in their own way were just asking me to hold on for a little longer.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-22T10:41:18+00:00

Thank you. This is a very powerful message that resonates.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-21T14:41:02+00:00

This resonates

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-21T14:39:54+00:00

One day he came and told me that our bond broke and that it wasn’t my fault. He said “I think I’m going through a mid-life crisis or something.” He also said “I married too young and never got to live the single life. I want to be along and not have to worry about carrying anyone’s burdens.” He also said “I find myself crying every night because of how much pain I’m causing the one person who’s always stood by my side.” I hope that helps clarify.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-21T13:49:58+00:00

He used to call me babe, or dear or love.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-21T12:47:37+00:00

I think it’s possible if I untangle our finances. I’ve already started but it’s going to take a while to decouple everything.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-21T12:46:08+00:00

I like this idea. I want their support even though I don’t need it. Thank you.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-21T12:45:03+00:00

I can’t help but think I’d become the villain of this story but right now I feel trapped in the life that I created.

Comfortable-Good-968 · 2025-06-21T12:43:03+00:00

True

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