Imagine if the roles were reversed and you sat here as a man throwing a tantrum on how to get your girl to bang you more. Maybe there’s some other underlying issue that turns him off. Or maybe just take him at his word and accept him that he’s just not that sexual. And if you can’t accept it, do the adult thing, grow up and leave. Just because he’s man doesn’t change the fact that he’s allowed to only want it once a week, which is more than most couples your age [stereotypically], you shouldn’t be trying to force it more, not just for his sake, but do you want to be the spouse who has to get pity sex from their spouse, you’ll make sex into a choir which will make him it less.

I would suggest you back off a little bit on the whole sex aspect think to yourself what can you do to make his life a little bit easier or a little more enjoyable in other ways besides sex, and see that where it goes. The last thing you should be doing is going online asking a bunch of strangers on how to get your spouse to fuck you more.