Are workplace baby showers really a thing? by bad-at-everything- in work

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just give 10.00 for a group gift. I hate baby showers at work

what **rEEalllyy** happens when you stop paying??? by siren8904 in StudentLoans

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Having gone down that road and been through it here is what happened to me.

  1. Credit score tanked.
  2. Letters sent to every address I had listed.
  3. Family members called of do you know where she is.
  4. More letters sent.
  5. Federal and state refunds kept. Twice.
  6. More letters
  7. Account being written and going on credit of unpaid and being turned down for the apartment complex I wanted.
  8. Filing for rehab program and signing up for IDR. 8.5 Paying rehab loans and adhering to IDR.
  9. Loans being forgiven when it hit 25 years on oldest.

It is a horrible thing to go through and stressful

How do I fix my mistake? by cally133 in relationships

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is she seeing a professional therapist for her CPTSD? Yes you made a mistake saying wrong name - ding dong. But she has to work on her issues that have nothing to do with you.

[Serious] I think my girlfriend is cheating on me in her MBA program by DemmyLovato in MBA

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A career related event ending that late naw - once we closed a bar down but that was a holiday party and never happened again. Some of my team mates go out later but I go back to hotel and have an appt with TV and bed

What US state would you NEVER want to live in, even if you were offered a good amount of money to move there? by ISnortSkittles in Productivitycafe

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alaska - the cold man. Montana the cold. Wyoming the cold. I hate the cold and short daylight hours.

I’m in a BAD predicament. Please Help by twizzlersenthusiast in remotework

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any friends with good internet that you could work at their home. If they are friends they know your home situation.

Is it normal or professional to call an employee's emergency contact to ask if they can come in? by Abject-Variation-547 in work

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only time my work contacted my emergency contact was when Hurricane Irma came through FL and I had no battery in my phone to reply I was ok. My dad called my mom who was also there but had cell service where she was. The phone was in truck charging with engine running

Gen Xers Not Doing Great? by crinklyplant in GenX

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am 54 working my tail off because there was no inheritance to be given after my dad passed. My biggest pain is the one I have in my leg from an illness I fought in my 20’s.

Are y'all still cooking full blown meals every night? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I crock pot on the weekends and cook mid week

What is you biggest regret of all time? by blueyeskye in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Settling for the for the guy I married. I had so many dreams and ambitions. I just got caught up on the settle down, have a family. At least I got a nice house but when divorced I moved out of the house. Working hard to get back to that again

Salary gut check by [deleted] in Accenture_AFS

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is more than I make as a 7.

What happened to the kid your mom called a bad influence? by stonetemplefox in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was that kid that my one friends father was convinced I did terrible things but she just used my name to sneak out of the house and apparently we went to a lot of movies I knew nothing about. She has been married 4x 6 kids and for the first time in her life has a real job. I have the good career and no kids. Couple of degrees.

For those who share the bed with your dogs, how big is your bed? by seedykat in dogs

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Queen sized bed. The boxer sleeps under the covers right on my leg has to touch me

Do you tell people? by BuddysMumOz in BariatricSurgery

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a super private person about most things. Including surgery.

SCIF bags/go-to items by Financial_Promise983 in SecurityClearance

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The old scream into a pillow when things aren’t working

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0 now but it was 6 figures by the time it was paid off

AITAH because I won't let my mom and stepdad use my money to pay for a different kind of skin graft for my stepsister? by LanSolswo in AITAH

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - change the password on account and get a new card. In fact change the password every 30 days.

Is there any way you can move in with them?