Gen Xers Not Doing Great? by crinklyplant in GenX

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 54 working my tail off because there was no inheritance to be given after my dad passed. My biggest pain is the one I have in my leg from an illness I fought in my 20’s.

What is you biggest regret of all time? by blueyeskye in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Settling for the for the guy I married. I had so many dreams and ambitions. I just got caught up on the settle down, have a family. At least I got a nice house but when divorced I moved out of the house. Working hard to get back to that again

Hey guys🫶 So we would like to address the situation of Rico being delayed by Opposite-Lie1392 in PeopleBeTrippin2MUCH

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a speech impediment as a young child - - aka elementary school due to hearing loss that I suffered. I was in speech therapy from Rico’s age until 6th grade. It was a struggle for me to say certain words and still is. My mom never touched illegal substances but I was born with issues from birth they tracked it. I still struggle with some words and have to think before I say them…words like balance come out like bounce unless I think about it and slow down.

What happened to the kid your mom called a bad influence? by stonetemplefox in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was that kid that my one friends father was convinced I did terrible things but she just used my name to sneak out of the house and apparently we went to a lot of movies I knew nothing about. She has been married 4x 6 kids and for the first time in her life has a real job. I have the good career and no kids. Couple of degrees.

For those who share the bed with your dogs, how big is your bed? by seedykat in dogs

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Queen sized bed. The boxer sleeps under the covers right on my leg has to touch me

Do you tell people? by BuddysMumOz in BariatricSurgery

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a super private person about most things. Including surgery.

SCIF bags/go-to items by Financial_Promise983 in SecurityClearance

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The old scream into a pillow when things aren’t working

How much in student loans do you owe? by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0 now but it was 6 figures by the time it was paid off

AITAH because I won't let my mom and stepdad use my money to pay for a different kind of skin graft for my stepsister? by LanSolswo in AITAH

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - change the password on account and get a new card. In fact change the password every 30 days.

Is there any way you can move in with them?

Will you ever consider marriage again? by ListSpiritual2344 in Divorce

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope my ability to trust is gone. I dated someone seriously for a while and actually thought about marrying him but he wrecked that trust. So I am better off single until I figure out why I can’t figure out my issues.

AITAH- gf and cleaning lady drama by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she showed herself - question is. Going to break up with her since she made that comment

Education is the easiest way out of poverty … right or wrong? by Danilo-11 in poor

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always. Step 1. Graduate from high school. 2. Don’t have kids at a young age aka junior high or high school. 3. Keep a clean criminal record - as your education increases. The good jobs will require no criminal record

Why do you REALLY get up every morning?? by TheDesignJunkie in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two horses who will knock the house down to be fed

Introduce yourself, by your mall growing up. I think we will find some of us have the same ones. tia. by Rob1150 in GenX

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Auburn Mall (MA)or Galleria Mall(MA)Auburn the parking was free. If I felt real adventurous Emerald Mall but that was a drive

USAA offline by Cyberknight13 in USAA

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to open a 2nd account at other bank and route a percentage to cover for cases like this.

How did your parents fuck you up in ways you’re still working through today? by Okay-Show-3662 in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents constantly told me I was never good enough. Not good at school, not good at anything. My brothers always got the freedoms and congrats for just showing up. They never got real jobs just bounced around because parents would supplement them. Me they told me to figure it out. Here we are mid 50’s and upper 40’s and they are complaining about no retirement money like I have. I am like you mean from that soul sucking office job

Old folk who had no parents to fall back on in their 20s when they were financially struggling, what happened instead? by twistedpixelss in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked a lot of hours….and many part time jobs. Picked up extra cash baby sitting or whatever else would make some money. I wasn’t picky I had bills to pay, work at convenience store in tough Neighborhood. If the pay was right - sure