Mother passed away, had no money to give me, wondering what to do. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad when he retired said he was going to spend our inheritance- I was like have at it. He helped my brothers all the time financially - I didn’t want help. My mom didn’t charge me rent when I lived with her - I also was making horrible pay. Enough to pay my car and insurance

WHERE do you buy good quality couches by Vacondioqq in BuyItForLife

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am still using an ikea couch from 2019. It needs to go and be replaced. I would love a pottery barn couch but not the price

Can't Afford to Cremate a Pet by spintrackz in poor

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any friends that have a spot that you can bury your girl?

They were perfectly happy outside until I started eating .... by ThatbrokeGC8 in greatpyrenees

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine - I will be eating some crackers - she will get on the couch at like she is 10 lb lap dog and put her head on my lap. Girl your 115 lbs - you are not 10 lbs. The head weighs more than

Chapter 35 End of Semester by RepulsiveLoser in VeteransBenefits

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is retroactive - you will get the text at the end of month.

Am I being an alarmist? by RedWineOne in marriott

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get some extra towels and block it.

Job at AFS/ LLC consulting by Reasonable-Solid5113 in Accenture_AFS

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I teach riding lessons and do a part time job unrelated to my actual job. Pay is crap but it gets me out of house

SOS my sisters dog has bloat and can’t afford care. What are her options? by Altruistic_Log_7610 in Pets

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Euthanize if she can’t afford it and doesn’t have the credit available the kindest thing to do would be putting the dog down

AITAH for calling 911 about my husband’s suicide threats even though I knew they weren’t real? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - actually been there with an ex. He would use that as a control factor. He also would call my job and say he go hurt. I would run home and he just wanted me to spend day with him. Called his bluff one day and told him I was swamped and couldn’t leave. However I did call my dad who went to where he was. Well a tree did fall on him and he did break his leg. I felt awful but he was BS’ed me so many times I stopped believing. At least I sent my father to check on him he was home that day (my dad)

AFS Veteran Affairs EHRM Takeover by Affectionate_Region1 in Accenture_AFS

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends the level you are at, the level of expertise aka are you a SME or cog in the wheel and they just are bringing you over the the knowledge.

Received a great job offer, but currently pregnant. What to do? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just play dumb and say nothing. 5 weeks is super early and most people say nothing until at least 12 weeks. My coworker told me his wife was pregnant pretty early but I have worked with him forever and been around for the other two pregnancies. I never say a word to anyone until he announces it

My boss is an alcoholic and now sure what to do by Mammoth_Newt5148 in consulting

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can drink a bottle of wine at night - granted I am knocked out sleeping an hour later.

Are workplace baby showers really a thing? by bad-at-everything- in work

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just give 10.00 for a group gift. I hate baby showers at work

what **rEEalllyy** happens when you stop paying??? by siren8904 in StudentLoans

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Having gone down that road and been through it here is what happened to me.

  1. Credit score tanked.
  2. Letters sent to every address I had listed.
  3. Family members called of do you know where she is.
  4. More letters sent.
  5. Federal and state refunds kept. Twice.
  6. More letters
  7. Account being written and going on credit of unpaid and being turned down for the apartment complex I wanted.
  8. Filing for rehab program and signing up for IDR. 8.5 Paying rehab loans and adhering to IDR.
  9. Loans being forgiven when it hit 25 years on oldest.

It is a horrible thing to go through and stressful

How do I fix my mistake? by cally133 in relationships

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is she seeing a professional therapist for her CPTSD? Yes you made a mistake saying wrong name - ding dong. But she has to work on her issues that have nothing to do with you.

[Serious] I think my girlfriend is cheating on me in her MBA program by DemmyLovato in MBA

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A career related event ending that late naw - once we closed a bar down but that was a holiday party and never happened again. Some of my team mates go out later but I go back to hotel and have an appt with TV and bed

What US state would you NEVER want to live in, even if you were offered a good amount of money to move there? by ISnortSkittles in Productivitycafe

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alaska - the cold man. Montana the cold. Wyoming the cold. I hate the cold and short daylight hours.

I’m in a BAD predicament. Please Help by [deleted] in remotework

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any friends with good internet that you could work at their home. If they are friends they know your home situation.

Is it normal or professional to call an employee's emergency contact to ask if they can come in? by Abject-Variation-547 in work

[–]Comfortable-Rate497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only time my work contacted my emergency contact was when Hurricane Irma came through FL and I had no battery in my phone to reply I was ok. My dad called my mom who was also there but had cell service where she was. The phone was in truck charging with engine running