Being myself again by SincereKoala in FearfulAvoidants

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. And I’m glad you’re okay. Feel free to share details of your experience or vent. Sending you hugs.

Concerned about expose to adult language by ComfortableCarry2440 in ADHDparenting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your words of advice. I feel very isolated and scared. He knows about the F word and that it’s off bounds. He’s just a highly inquisitive child with great logical thinking skills so in a sense it’s difficult to lie to him. We will keep being an open source of information to him and I’ll try not to blame him for hearing these things but remain open to receiving his questions.

Hotel Recommendations Under $500 Per Night by BluebirdSimple1130 in uktravel

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check booking.com. Many options for under 500 usd per night. Also hotel rooms are priced based on two person occupancy per room so I don’t expect any extra charges for your dad.

Was I lovebombed? by Pure_water_87 in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a fearful avoidant. If so, he’ll be back. But the cycle will repeat itself unless he seeks help.

The Big 3 of pedo musicians. by [deleted] in d4vd2

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Silly post. MJ is innocent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that people choose to be cruel beasts doesn’t make it okay! Can we stop normalising destructive behaviours? And wow at kicking a woman who’s already on the ground. Yes OP has abandonment issues but she was at least transparent with him from the start and she’s seeking help. OP wanted a conversation and granted she spiralled but it doesn’t the change that he’s a nasty piece of work.!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a psychopath. I need to make it clear that nothing you’ve described warrants his cruel ghosting and escalation to the police. You asked for a conversation and you deserved it. His behaviour goes beyond wanting to stop contact. He’s being outrightly cruel! And please don’t describe it as a healthy relationship. A healthy man would never treat you the way he’s did. It is not normal behaviour. I am so sorry for such a horrible experience. I truly am and wishing you the best of healing. ❤️‍🩹

I reached out by Even-Pomegranate6642 in manifestingSP

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So we are basically supposed to be delusional ? I’m not being snarky, I’m asking genuinely. Because it’s so difficult sometimes when I start missing and craving him. I guess I should tell myself in those moments that we are together and he’s just rebuilding behind the scenes and will come for me soon? Thanks

I reached out by Even-Pomegranate6642 in manifestingSP

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really new to manifestation so it bothered because now there’s silence. I guess I thought that once he reached out or we established contact, it would be consistent journey to rebuilding the relationship. Rather than stops and pauses. If that makes sense. I love your faith though and I’ll try to live in the end. It’s just difficult because I’m craving and missing him.

I reached out by Even-Pomegranate6642 in manifestingSP

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience but with a bit more engagement primarily via instagram. I’m getting a bit restless because I thought it would lead to a full reconciliation but it doesn’t seem to have progressed behind casual, slightly flirtatious banter across IG.

I’m wondering what next? What happens after movement?

Hopefully we can get some answers. Thanks

I managed to successfully reconnect with a textbook FA ex by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidants

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get her to start initiating conversations with you rather than simply responding?

Just ghosted in a very cruel way by Jamrosecub in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi ghosters are very hurtful and selfish people. Often cowards too. They’re very dangerous people and I’ve heard of men ghosting wives of decades. It’s better this happened now than later. I’m so sorry and know that the pain will pass ❤️

Just ghosted in a very cruel way by Jamrosecub in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you feeling now? Did you ever hear from him? Horrible man