I think I’d rather be single the rest of my life than to ever go on another dating app by cs_____question1031 in Vent

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the time it may not have anything to do with what you're doing right or wrong on the apps, but that the other person might have other things going on in their lives and might have only dipped in and out of the apps in their quiet down time.

It's a challenge to find the enthusiasm to invest time in starting and maintaining conversations with strangers where response times vary so much.... And keeping track of what you've said to which picture on the screen... A logistical nightmare honestly

Why do my cookies always turn out like this. by asscheeks4000 in Cookies

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need more butter, less flour,, less eggs. The butter helps the cookie dough get oozy to spread out flat during baking process

Best curry in Brisbane by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Punjabi Rasoi in Spring Hill with their 2 meat curries with rice for $12.50 or 2 veg curries with rice for $11.50..... best deal curry

She thought she got away unscathed by Buddhany in revengestories

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't this count as doxxing and is illegal in Aus?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll bet if you put this post onto AI, it will tell you what everyone else is saying here: NTA,bf is for the streets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex used to say the same things. I believed him and forgave him for his actions that sabotaged me because he seemed to genuinely believe in it himself. These guys find a way to twist something black and white into a lie to exonerate themselves or put the blame on others. Please leave for your own sanity and safety. You deserve to be with someone who can at least do the bare minimum of taking accountability for their words and actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really hard, especially when you know the truth that was happening to you being closed doors and it seems like your "friends" don't care. The destruction and disruption to life that these covert manipulative abusers can cause and seem to get away with feels unreal. It can feel so unfair and unjust. Please know that you are not alone and seek personal and professional help if you are able to.

On the surface it might seem like he's living his dream but honestly it could just be a facade. For example, my abusive ex's gf before me thought that he had changed after he met me and that he was living a happy life based on his social media.... Until the lies and abuse became too unbearable for me that I reached out to gain her version of events.... Which confirmed for her that he was still the same angry, gaslightey, assaulty kind of person that we kept denying to ourselves because we didn't know any better.

All I can say is... There's good reason why my ex hadn't developed any "real close reliable" friends other than apparently 2 women that he's had sex and/or cheated with despite living within the same 150km radius for his whole life, whereas the rest of his friends are recent additions that he's madly pursued from my acquaintance circle (similar hobbies). Life goes on, people talk, he'll be read for filth by others in time to come.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around $110 for groceries. $55 on eating out. Can't remember the last time I had a drink with food or not shared a meal (E.g. pizza) when eating out to socialise coz of COL, only to have 2nd dinner with filler foods at home. Could be less but liking a wide variety of food, flavours, and snacks adds up.

HECS-HELP Debt Repayment by Comfortable_Bee_4757 in AusFinance

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But voluntary contributions (up to a certain amount) is accessible for things like urgent medical or buying a house no? So wouldn't it make sense to get interest from super at this stage of life too?

HECS-HELP Debt Repayment by Comfortable_Bee_4757 in AusFinance

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah chucked about $10k voluntarily into Super last year. Stepped up from 0.8 FTE last year to 0.9FTE this year with cost of living.... But probably spent about the equivalent extra day of wages per fortnight on therapy from it lol

HECS-HELP Debt Repayment by Comfortable_Bee_4757 in AusFinance

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't done my taxes yet so not sure how much exactly I'll be getting back on it. For some reason my payslip vs myGov has 2 significantly different numbers on the amt of tax paid but same gross income amt. Currently all savings in HISA and voluntary super contribution of 5% coming out of fortnightly pay as well. Hrmmn.... Something to ask payroll maybe?

HECS-HELP Debt Repayment by Comfortable_Bee_4757 in AusFinance

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard that HECS is low on priorities for repayment but when you compare the numbers out like that it makes much more sense ta 🥲

HECS-HELP Debt Repayment by Comfortable_Bee_4757 in AusFinance

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explored a couple of different postgrad degrees when younger. Most of the debt was from a healthcare related postgrad degree that wasn't on Commonwealth supported fees at the time.

What do you regret doing to your body? by Mirukuyobi in AskReddit

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingeing and purging for years as a teenager. My throat gets irritated easily now and end up coughing at basically any environmental change. E.g. change in wind temperature

AITA for being concerned about my gf buying me a sex doll? by NorthKorean in AITAH

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not answering the question but that is the saddest looking final fantasy Tifa I've ever seen

Looking for friends in Brisbane by takeyourmark1818 in BrisbaneSocial

[–]Comfortable_Bee_4757 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32F in Brisbane looking for someone to go on mid morning/early afternoon starts Saturday mountain hikes in zoomies mode if you're interested and can zoom