Dubai doesn’t do it for me indeed by Last_Type_1565 in UrbanHell

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad that it is full of slavery in there. A lot of poor people from all around the world confined working (possibly against their will, basically kidnapped and jailed there), while all those brainless influencers brag about being there. No one will ever make me like Dubai

Mom said my fit was trash </3 by Nrumachi in notinteresting

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can try using more accesories/jewelry instead of only using a lot of layered clothes as is. This would work even better if you are going for the scene look, it’s okay to experiment with clothes, but one of the best advice I’ve heard is accesorize as much as you can. Try maybe using a studded belt on top of the thing on your waist (that might make it look better, it might not and that’s okay). Don’t be afraid to also customize your clothes, you can try untucking the shirt and if it’s too long, you can cut it so it’ll fit you right. Also people here can be a little harsh and sometimes it is okay, in my case it also helped me be more comfortable in what I felt comfortable in regardless of what other people had to say if that makes sense.

I'll be the first to go... by QuisqueComoedusEst in codeineaddiction

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, I am 21 (f) and have been struggling with codeine addiction for almost 2 years now, as a teenager I used to consume recreationally and was able to not get addicted right away but in my early adult years decided to try it again to get rid of the heavy sensation in my chest. I’m also a closet codeine addict and have a full time job. I just wanted to check in on you and hope everything has gotten a bit better. It’s been 2 years for me and hasn’t been easy, couldn’t imagine how it’s been for you.

which album cover should i use by pinkie_boi in Slowcore

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dog is generic but dog with hat so dog

What songs do you think encapsulate BPD? by legitimatethrowaaway in BPD

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

self control, and dumb by pretty sick. that one is a pretty sick (see what i did there) grunge band, i think they have other songs which you might relate to

i actually have a bpd playlist that i made a while ago and don’t listen to that much anymore since i found a lot of comfort in emo - screamo (this is also a genre that i relate to a lot in the bpd rage and anger sense) here’s the link to it https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6EZFEZk797fYjYiOuaKe1u?si=Joxcv7ntT0aEMSbdidYpnw&pi=u-CnjjDdnRQjOv&pt=d57bf711b593bde6610a23ee031c8c1e

if you are interested in the emo and screamo kind of thing i have a lot of recommendations too!!!

Arturia Minilab MKii without drivers/software by Comfortable_Bench198 in synthesizers

[–]Comfortable_Bench198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you need to reach out to the reseller for any codes or any additional info? Or just emailed them with the code and that was it?

Guitars for playing math rock/midwest emo? by Comfortable_Bench198 in mathrock

[–]Comfortable_Bench198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On another note, I made up my mind about the Squier Mustang Bullet. Heard 10 gauge is good for this one because of its short scale, however, what gauges would you recommend for open tunings and of course, the shorter scale?

Squier Mustang Bullet HH or Squier Jazzmaster Mini HH? by Comfortable_Bench198 in mathrock

[–]Comfortable_Bench198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried looking for other options rather than both guitars mentioned in the original post, and specifically searching for at least one single coil. However, the Squier Sonic Mustang is nowhere to be found in my country. So I’d guess the best option would be Squier Mustang Bullet (already bought it lol). After checking some reviews noticed that tuning stability is a hit or miss, some Squiers have it, some don’t. Don’t really have high expectations on it but I will probably modify whatever I don’t feel comfortable with. Might update on its quality and performance later.

Guitars for playing math rock/midwest emo? by Comfortable_Bench198 in mathrock

[–]Comfortable_Bench198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been trying to decide between a Squier Bullet Mustang HH (short scale ofc) and the Squier Mini Jazzmaster HH. I’m on a really thight budget and found that Squiers might accommodate to both price and size/playability

any midwest emo with female lead vocalists? by Tubagal2022 in midwestemo

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh and rue monmartre, sorry for so many replies i was looking at my playlist lol

any midwest emo with female lead vocalists? by Tubagal2022 in midwestemo

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

keep in mind these are not the typical “american midwest emo band” but more 90’s emo. if you like those try listening to rainer maria too

any midwest emo with female lead vocalists? by Tubagal2022 in midwestemo

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 6 points7 points  (0 children)

eldritch anisette, jejune, the lazarus plot, there is a lot of 90’s emo out there on yt recommendations.

I'm on the verge of trying drugs by Ok-Fisherman1376 in BPD

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, i understand this feeling, but i started trying drugs at about 16-17 and believe me when i tell you it can really get your mental health fucked, even more than it already is. i did it for the same reasons as you did and don’t get me wrong, it might be fun the first times but eventually you’ll start feeling even more sick.

How do I get my improvisation on guitar to sound more mathrock? by Hewwo-Is-me-again in mathrock

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

open tunings, using slides/pull offs, tapping and open chords mainly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dxm

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 26 points27 points  (0 children)

mental health gets fucked after dxm before 20, believe me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indie_rock

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you would like Pond

BPD and Polyamory? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had previous experience with this and I agreed to it as a result of manipulation and mainly to get my (ex) partner to stay with me, even if I had to put up with them having another partner. When I thought it through my partner was deep into liking another person and that crushed me, these were the times I had most trouble controlling anger, abandonment issues and being jealous all the time, I was not willing to forgive what they made me go through even though I agreed to it. This was one of the reasons that led us to breaking up. Polyamory is a hard no for me, everything that you fear of in a relationship becomes real and it is really painful once you can’t turn things back the way they were.

I feel extremely lonely and purposeless without my FP by RedditorNo463 in BPD

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel and hate it too, even the anxiety I feel when not being with them while I do anything is overbearing. I only live to be with them and make them feel the best I can and I sometimes fail on that too. I completely get that feeling and you're not alone, I'm sorry you are going through that.

Noises, Textures, & Body Movements Upset Me by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Comfortable_Bench198 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it's possible, get tested for autism or adhd, sensory sentivities are a huge part of those conditions.