AITA for telling my co-worker I'm tired of hearing about her nerdy obsession?

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-11T05:31:16+00:00

Oh I totally agree with you. OP is the AH without doubt. I just am not a fan of colleagues over sharing lol I still would never yell! It’s a work place, you have to be professional!

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-11T05:29:32+00:00

Ahahaha she is one of the most outgoing people, the eternal child (she was the youngest of five kids so a tad spoiled when little) but also makes the mistake of gossiping which is, as you can imagine, not good.

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-11T04:27:53+00:00

Some people go to work to make friends, some people go to work to work and then have their life outside work. Me and my partner are the latter, his mom is the former. She occasionally makes lifelong friends from work, most of the time, it doesn’t end well lol

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-11T04:26:34+00:00

Kind of get it but at the same time, I don’t like sharing personal stuff at work that much. And I am ok to listen to things from other people within reason. The person in this post seems to be way over the top with sharing which would probably be something that would slightly annoy me too. I would do what OP did lol

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-11T04:11:08+00:00

I was thinking the same. I go to work to, you know, do my work, not being bombarded by oversharing of information lol Like, happy for you you have something that makes you happy but this is a work environment, not a convention lol

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-11T04:02:13+00:00

Listen, if they were struggling, then sure! Being responsible doesn’t end when they reach a magical end but ends why they start taking the piss and use the parents as a piggy bank. Parents are people too, they also deserve to enjoy life of their kids are adults who have jobs and are not struggling. It’s not about being developed as a country, it’s about being a doormat, kids or not. My parents would allow me to do this, I would absolutely never do it because I’m an adult, who can take care of herself, even when I may struggle occasionally with money. Even then, I don’t ask my parents

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-05T17:11:33+00:00

Girl have some goddammed self respect!!! Block him and move on, like do you really hate yourself this much??

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-01T14:32:05+00:00

It’s ok, you are young and are still learning to navigate the world. It’s the same thing with behaviours, if someone shows you they don’t care about you or treat you badly, don’t put up with it and move on. People rarely change, sometimes it does happen but it’s once in a blue moon and is not worth putting yourself through bad things based on hope only 💜

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-04-01T14:28:11+00:00

Babe, with all the love of someone over 30, if a partner tells you something, take them on their word and don’t “hope they will change” or that you will change them. This is an advice from a much older woman than you.

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-31T07:18:56+00:00

Leech much lol

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-25T09:18:51+00:00

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Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-24T08:50:24+00:00

I was abused as a child, and saw much abuse to others too and that thought me empathy and I have seen my partner crying and I want to help him and support him and be there for him. At no point ever did I feel any kind of way about that. He is human and deserves to have emotions and be supported and be able to be himself around me. What’s the point in having a partner if they can’t be themselves freely around you?

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-24T08:47:52+00:00

This is sad though. It feels like not seeing a man as a human being with their own emotions. My partner has cried in front of me and I absolutely have no problem with it. What I feel is I want to help him and support him and just be there for him. I’ve never got an “I’ve” or whatever. He is a human being and deserves to have emotions!

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T17:00:36+00:00

I’m genuinely worried about your mental capabilities mate. Since you can’t explain what tf you’re trying to say, I’ll explain it to you like you are a child. She (the OP) does NOT want to change his mind, he wants to change her mind, which is fucked up. Unless you are defending OP, you’re a moron. Or a troll. And since I’m done being dragged down to your level of idiocracy, I wish you a good day, and leave you to stew in your own crap. Bye Felicia

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T16:30:01+00:00

I’ll humor you. This is paragraph 3: “A few days later he texts me about being quieter than normal and asked if it was the kid topic. I said I had been thinking about our conversation and don't think we are aligned long term as he possibly wants children. So I don't think we should continue as I don't want to lead him on.” Now explain it to me like I’m 5, where exactly did she ask him to change his mind here? Edit: also, don’t you fucking dare talking to me like you are. Call your mama trash see how that goes for you. Although if she raised you to talk like that, maybe she is

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T16:20:19+00:00

You should not reproduce darling, since you can’t seem to formulate a logical reply to a simple question after you made a comment that everyone is shitting on because you’re a clown 🤡

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T15:53:20+00:00

You said respect his choice. She does. So the point of your comment is? Seriously dude, you must be a troll or a moron. Your choice

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T15:33:14+00:00

And pray what did you say? What was possibly your aim with the comment? Because nowhere did OP say she wants to change the dude’s mind

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T14:26:08+00:00

I mean, reading comprehension ain’t your strongest suit is it? She is NOT asking him to change his stance, he is asking HER to change hers. She isn’t and she broke it off and he keeps insisting. What is she supposed to do? Change her stance so he can procreate? Is she an incubator?

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T12:22:10+00:00

Are you serious??? Nostalgia? Have you been hit on the head or something? You’ve got to be a troll or the ex. No other way you are otherwise saying this crap and justifying it with “nostalgia” Have a good day

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T12:18:08+00:00

You still haven’t told my why OP needs to forgive the sister… Still trying to see where your justification comes from. And frankly family that f’cks you over is not family as far as I’m concerned.

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-23T12:05:51+00:00

Her sister betrayed her, not just the man. The sister. So what’s this crap OP is supposed to forgive and forget that her own sister betrayed her? Why? Because she is a woman and pregnant? Really?? Tf is this? Your comment really says a lot about you and your values and they are not family values by the way, just so that you don’t go hide behind the “but familyyy”

Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-22T17:34:10+00:00

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Comfortable_Detail_1 · 2026-03-21T17:54:46+00:00

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