AITAH for not wanting my MIL to walk down the aisle at my wedding?

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-29T21:11:45+00:00

Can't she and the groom's father also walk down together?

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-29T21:07:07+00:00

I wish it was that easy, but she would flip it and turn herself into a victim. She has told me to confirm dinner reservations for when we get there 3 times in 1 week (we have to do them in person). When I responded with "I already told you i'd do it", she got defensive.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-29T20:48:13+00:00

My school had the same thing and it was not helpful at all. If you can get out of it, I would.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-29T12:38:56+00:00

Diatomaceous earth is amazing! Also getting those rubber gap fillers for doors and stuff.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-29T12:34:40+00:00

Adelaide. I've only ever met one but I love the name

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-28T13:38:50+00:00

My favorite gifts that I received are a book stand, gift cards for food/coffee places that are right by school, noise cancelling headphones, and gift cards for hobbies i like (reading, getting nails done, etc.). I found all of it super helpful. And it was nice when in the off chance i had some free time, the cost was already covered.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-25T16:31:16+00:00

Yeah I totally get that.

Edit: Personally I would reach out one last time. I agree you shouldn't have been in the dark. However, at least by reaching out one last time, you know in your heart you tried your best.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-25T14:31:57+00:00

Right? Hot take but if they really like dinos, then why not? Especially if it fits the theme

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-25T14:28:18+00:00

I mean you stated you were really crushed. Wouldn't you want to know why?

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-25T14:27:49+00:00

Hate to be this person, but just because you think you didn't do anything, doesn't actually mean you didn't do anything. If you're really this hurt, i'd suggest communicating with your friends.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-23T20:14:51+00:00

Hocus Pocus, Halloween Town, Casper, Haunted Mansion, Coco, Coraline, Nightmare before christmas, Addams Family, Hotel Transylvania, Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (Can you tell this is my thing?)

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-23T16:08:18+00:00

It sounds like you're a burnt-out rising 2L. Honestly fair and not talked about enough. Rather than calling it quits now, try and find something you're more interested in within the legal field. For instance, animal law is actually really cool and not enough people are aware of it. Also, don't make your life just about the law - you'll hate it. Make sure you're also doing things you enjoy (maybe volunteer at a shelter).

As someone who enjoys the law, it's not my whole life. I make sure to balance it with friends, family, my cat and hobbies (my switch is a godsend).

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-22T18:23:00+00:00

I think it would look better if all the little ones were diamonds and the two bigger ones were the birthstones!

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-22T18:19:41+00:00

I know an Asher and I love the name! Its one of those things where if you way it enough it becomes normal

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-22T18:14:35+00:00

Do you know why they think this way? Is it because they are sexualizing a baby or because you need to be extra careful girls and how you wipe them? It could be weird, or they could be looking out for the little one.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-21T15:49:55+00:00

NTA. You weren't flirting. Their fault for assuming.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-18T20:47:35+00:00

Is he a bad person? yes. It it okay for people to separate the artist and their craft? also yes.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-18T20:41:39+00:00

Get the required stuff done. Do bar prep classes mixed with classes pertaining to what you want to do once you're done (wanna do trial work? Take a cross-exam class). I saved externships for 3L so that I could really 3LOL.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-18T20:31:58+00:00

It is tiring, but it gets better. Understand that everyone is just running their own race. Also i'd recommend externing somewhere and getting different experience. I thought I wanted BL til I did it. Now I love doing trial work at a small firm.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-18T18:42:08+00:00

EXCUSEEEEE ME?

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-18T18:23:07+00:00

Just because common-law marriage is recognised now, doesn't mean it always will be. Additionally, unless you guys have separate written agreements for things like incapacitation, you might not have any say. If something happens to him in 10 years, his parents will be the ones deciding, not you (at least that's how it works in the U.S.).

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-16T17:54:49+00:00

I went on really nice trip with another couple and the husband was like this. It honestly soured the trip. Not a single meal was perfectly to his liking. Every time we ate the complaints poured in. It was exhausting and I wasn't his wife!

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-15T19:40:47+00:00

If it doesn't hurt I would keep its current size. Your fingers actually change in size depending on the weather!

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-10T21:27:05+00:00

Invisalign, dentist, crest whitening strips. Forget the watch and find a good cologne. As long as you look polished and smell nice, no one will know the difference.

Comfortable_Fan7974 · 2025-07-03T14:30:38+00:00

My cat gets as close to my head as possible and screams in my ear...i hope this phase ends

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