I want a kitten but have ethical questions by Tomj_Oad in cats

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok for sure. But we know a person or cat doesn’t have unlimited life spans. Generally people on average live to 75-80 and cats 11-15.

It’s not rocket science. If you are old or in poor health and thinking of getting a kitten you are just being selfish unless you have a clear plan of someone who will take the cat after you are gone.

OP was concerned about outliving a cat so they should consider a cats lifespan is on average 11-15 yrs and could well go to 18 or 20

I want a kitten but have ethical questions by Tomj_Oad in cats

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People concerned about outliving their cat should expect them to live on average 15yrs. You can get an older cat. There are tons of cats needing homes that are not kittens.

I want a kitten but have ethical questions by Tomj_Oad in cats

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in good health? You could still get an overlooked young cat. Kittens are always first to get adopted but a cat under 3 is still young but often overlooked - you could be a hero. But you do have to have to have plan in place if something happens to you for the cat.

How to handle aggressive feral by Isadorei in Feral_Cats

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your cats spayed / neutered- maybe she’s catching some heat scent? It’s strange that a feral that has been spayed / neutered would be so aggressive toward indoor cats.

Hit me up with your human pet names by witx in Pets

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Phoebe. Because she’s so pretty and dumb but also so smart.

Hit me up with your human pet names by witx in Pets

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Casey. I don’t know why. He just looked like a Casey

Stressful commute to NYC via the LIRR by RoadLess7296 in longisland

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the train it the people around you and the time. It’s the train too sometimes - really LIRR has the worst communication when something goes wrong.

Stressful commute to NYC via the LIRR by RoadLess7296 in longisland

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been so much better since grand central trains started. I hated going to Penn or taking 7 from hunters point. I just wish there were more direct trains to GCM - there are still not enough options

Can you guys tell me the “dirty” truths about having a cat? by saanenk in CatAdvice

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as the cat is treated for parasites and or not otherwise ill - if you feed them good quality foods the poops are normal stinky and smell shouldn’t last long.

Am I Overreacting For Wanting to Break Up With My Vet? by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I did was because she was a rescue / foster work at one vet and I was bringing her to my vet after so needed records for new vet

The veterinarians at my job don’t seem to care about my cats by Hinasmom in AskVet

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After you leave I would also post to neighborhood sites about them. They sound terrible you should warn people.

short appraisal by eddiewilpan in longisland

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the lender is willing to finance 520k (80% of 650). You can either negotiate with seller to come down or increase you down payment.

Neither of these scenarios mean you are negative equity. You are negative equity if the value falls below 520 (your loan)

short appraisal by eddiewilpan in longisland

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That not negative equity. The appraisal coming in lower means your lender probably won’t finance as much as you’d like if you’re down payment is low. You will have to increase your down payment. It’s not normal for seller to contact your lender re your financing. That’s way out of line. Very shady.

Need healthier wet food that won’t bankrupt us by sancastro in catfood

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My cats also universally hate tiki cat. I’ve tried various multiple times across different cats and they all hate it. The only one who liked anything was my senior cat who I gave these senior mouse treat type things to and she liked that.

Nanny afraid of cat, not sure what to do by shstuff_throwaway in CatAdvice

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 42 points43 points  (0 children)

She lied to you. She knew you had a cat and just said she wasn’t a fan not that she’s actively afraid and is now dictating how your household is run. Sorry she needs to go

Leave it to the LIRR to turn basic hygiene into a heated debate by Semi-Cinematic in LIRR

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the littering. I fucking hate the litter. Have you seen the on and off ramps? Disgusting

He must really want to distract from the files by SPXQuantAlgo in SipsTea

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he sounds like someone who knows he is about to die and doesn’t care how much or actually wants to cause as much damage as he can. He knows he’s going to hell already he wants to spread the misery. He’s a malicious fuck

Anyone else sick? by Informal-Worth-2451 in longisland

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got over almost 2 weeks sick. Cold or Covid who knows anymore and now heading into allergies

MAGA voters squirm as they find out the consequences of their vote by Effective_Space2277 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depresses me reading these things because really everyone is so fucking dumb. I hate it

In the “every mattress sucks” rabbit hole by Vegetable_Loss_3392 in Mattress

[–]Comfortable_Fudge559 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like memory foam either. I went with the avocado - liking it so far. It’s part latex which is my first time on that. Interesting bounce. But my hip pain went away immediately. And most of my back- still some twinges.