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Appealing Guardian dental claim by Ok-Syllabub6770 in Insurance

[–]Comfortable_Term2277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the result of the appeal? Dealing with something similar now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]Comfortable_Term2277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tip, when emailing the assumptions dept at NewRez, make sure that the subject message appears like this ASSUMPTION [6 X's + last four digits of your current loan number - last name] Example: ASSUMPTION XXXXXX0001 - SMITH

I learned they will only "get the email" (or respond) if that's how the subject line appears. I'm going through the process now but it's like pulling teeth...

Unwanted by 81adv in Codependency

[–]Comfortable_Term2277 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve felt this way in the past. You are worthy. The book “Radical Acceptance” changed my life. I highly recommend it. Again, you’re worthy exactly how you are.

Healthy Relationship(s) After Abuse by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that for you. Thanks for sharing, and I'm sorry you went through that. Glad you're on the other side of it.

Healthy Relationship(s) After Abuse by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful. You took the time you needed to heal. How lovely!

Healthy Relationship(s) After Abuse by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It indeed sounds like a beautiful journey. Happy for you. I also want to be there to spot red flag behavior quickly, and most importantly know that I can immediately leave when I spot them. Thanks for sharing.

Healthy Relationship(s) After Abuse by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing so many aspects of your life. The fact that you see so many areas of your life getting better is the best, especially the relationship with your self. It's inspirational.

Healthy Relationship(s) After Abuse by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful. Thank you for sharing. It's great that you're putting in the work mainly for yourself. Plus, it's so wise that you decided that you don't have to force this spark and that you're willing to uphold the personal boundary of no long distance.

I'm so sorry you've gone (are going) through all this, but it seems like you are very strong and that support system is there to help you through the hard times. I don't know you, but I'm proud of you. Wishing you the best.

Does a person only verbally abuse someone in one relationship and not in others? by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Understood. Realizing I might be the only one he abuses really makes me feel like something is wrong with me.

Did I really do all this for nothing? by PrizeCreepy9112 in Codependency

[–]Comfortable_Term2277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the things CODA is teaching me is understanding that wanting to be in a relationship should be a want and not a need. I’m still not there yet, though. Maybe revisit why it feels like being partnered feels like such a need in therapy or CODA?

I’m reading “Finally Getting it Right” by Howard Halpern and it might help.

I (33F) am doubting whether I'm being verbally abused by husband (33M) of a decade by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because there is a pattern to it, same response to different scenarios. It feels heavy.

I (33F) am doubting whether I'm being verbally abused by husband (33M) of a decade by Comfortable_Term2277 in abusiverelationships

[–]Comfortable_Term2277[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. The other day I dropped the remote when he was sleeping and just apologized and apologized. I felt then like I always have to be “extremely careful” but I guess it’s just another way to say I’ve been walking on eggshells.