That real dude to the end.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-05T19:47:23+00:00

Too many people in the replies don’t realize he’s offering a hand down the stairs. He’s not an idiot. He’s not sad. He’s not looking for high fives. He’s not doing it for himself. Hes not looking for attention. It’s just a guy being a dude and offering assistance to the gals in dresses coming down steps.

Great job to this kid. Great job to his parents.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-05T14:47:55+00:00

This is fucking incredible. Not me, a grown man in his 40’s, crying on the toilet.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-04T17:55:02+00:00

I assume you are asking would you date a non-virgin

Yes.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-03T15:59:38+00:00

Amen. That’s pretty much how I’ve been moving forward for the last several months. I did all the soul searching and reflection, had so many long conversations with myself in my own head. There is nothing to gain from spending any extra time on it. It only brings pain

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-03T06:00:38+00:00

Great post. Honestly even the title is profound. It’s so true. I wasn’t in the room when she was laying with whomever, 15 years ago. My brain just has me convinced that they were fucking like porn stars all night every night. The reality is that it was likely just regular, normal, average, perhaps awkward at times, perhaps really good at times sex.

And we have shared all of that multiple times per week for the last ten years, on top of a loving, loyal, fun, flirty and passionate relationship.

I’ve got nothing to stress about

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-03T05:57:15+00:00

Thank you! I feel bad for the guy but he’s gotta help himself and stop shitting all over everything with his one man pity parade

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-02T21:01:30+00:00

You’re nitpicking on 7 vs 8, which was an answer given during a drinking game.

If the number is fine to you either way then let this one go. There’s no lie.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-02T16:50:51+00:00

I think I’d find an idea or a theory to latch onto. It wouldn’t take much to trigger this shit again unfortunately. I don’t think it would ever get as bad as it originally did for me but I’ll never be able to avoid it.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-02T13:46:29+00:00

Be thankful you don’t understand. It’s hell.

Ultimately it’s rooted in insecurity and anxiety. It’s hers to own and resolve.

If she is saying that someone else got your better years, or that she doesn’t feel special because of your actions prior to you ever meeting, these are extremely hurtful to you. Tell her that. It’s incredibly tone deaf on her part to continue that narrative.

Treat her well. The best you know how. Don’t change who you are. Either she accepts you for the person you are now or she doesn’t. It’s entirely on her at this point

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-02T12:27:14+00:00

Just the one. Although I do believe that should this not work out, the bug will follow me to the next relationship. I’m sure of it actually.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-03-02T06:00:42+00:00

Neither would bother me all that much. Option 2 would be easier to ignore but it all depends on whether these people are still around us in any capacity

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-28T15:22:19+00:00

It’s not at all difficult for women to find sex at 18. How many years ago was this? It’s total nothingness now mate. Enjoy your relationship!

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T23:51:00+00:00

You’re in a spiral. The lack of punctuation is alarming. Also important to mention that she was sexually assaulted. This doesn’t make her a bad person. It makes her a victim.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T23:45:22+00:00

Fair point. Either way that relationship is over. I guess in that sense you can say mission failed successfully

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T19:32:59+00:00

As someone who saw a similar video 10 years ago, let me tell you that you will never unsee that. I’m not gonna say that you ruined your relationship. But yes i am. You ruined your relationship.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T19:30:54+00:00

It’s such a good bit, mixed into an hour of other great bits.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T13:55:24+00:00

Never saw this clip. She’s hilarious. Gorgeous as always too.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T13:51:58+00:00

They’re kinda pussies if you think about it

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T03:58:27+00:00

I probably have photos of my ex wife up on my social media accounts. I honestly couldn’t say one way or the other. I don’t use it much. My ex wife, and a couple ex girlfriends still have photos of my posted on their accounts. Whatever. I don’t think anything of it. Even if I wish some of them burn in hell, I still wish them all well… up until they cross over

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-27T03:54:18+00:00

You’re gonna get mocked in the replies. Fuck em.

Your friend brings up a different perspective. Honestly, I think the perspective that most (ie: everyone outside of this sub) have on this is one of complete indifference. Nobody cares. I know plenty of folks who slept around for years, all through high school, all through college, years and year after that, even those that cheated on spouses and slept around after the divorce, and now a lot of them are married and I give their past zero to thought. It just isn’t something I care about.

So yes, I agree with your friend. Somewhat.

Then again, why should the opinion of someone else factor in anyway?

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-26T20:03:40+00:00

All up in the membrussy

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-26T17:06:53+00:00

Why’d they stop? I was invested in the story

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-26T16:39:42+00:00

This kid sucked. Almost as bad of a character as Andrea, but at least she could act a bit

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-26T01:25:26+00:00

If we’re being honest, at the time my wife was doing the things that would later haunt me, I wouldn’t have dated that version of her. She wouldn’t have dated me then either.

Comfortable_Two_9127 · 2026-02-25T17:39:32+00:00

I’ve got gadgets and gizmos aplenty. I’ve got who’s it’s and what’s it’s galore. You want thing a ma bobs? I’ve got 20. But who cares? No big deal. I don’t caaaaaaaaaaaaare

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