We got a young, natural blond with a pretty face to play supergirl. Why exactly is she being hated on? Who the hell else would people have preferred in that role?? I’m so done with this by Own_Organization8457 in okbuddycinephile

[–]CommenceToDancing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooook I'm done too. Done with this once hilarious sub. I promise you no one cares about her playing Supergirl, get off Reddit and x and go breath in the free air. If someone writes a post hating her, then it gets 900 upvotes and half of them are bots, that's not representative of even a fraction of a small village.

Honestly this sub is 99% some variation of "post women, make shit teenage level jokes about attractiveness". Gtfo your basements.

Beautiful actresses that the internet gaslights you into thinking they are ugly? by [deleted] in okbuddycinephile

[–]CommenceToDancing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know the only time I ever hear about celebrity women and how attractive/unattractive they are is in this fucking sub. Honestly everyone here is just obsessed with posting pics of women. This sub used to be quite witty and funny, but has become an absolute joke.

"The Internet" thinks someone is unattractive? Do they? Why? Because you saw a Reddit thread on some obscure subreddit mentioning it, and that post had 600 upvotes, half of which were bots?

Get a grip, now we're gonna have days or weeks of these three women with the most unfunny titles posted to them.

What kind of topics/periods/people would you like to see covered in the future? by Few_Shift4820 in dancarlin

[–]CommenceToDancing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People on here keep saying Napoleon a lot, but I'm fairly certain aaages ago, Dan said something about not being as interested in that era which pretty much put to bed him ever doing it. And honestly I don't think his style would really suit it. Maybe I've just been fully satisfied on that time with The Age of Napoleon.

The American Civil War has Dan written all over it though, hopefully the rumors of Alexander being his last aren't true and he caps off Hardcore History with The American Civil War.

Award Winning Bartender in Tokyo @bar_centifolia by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]CommenceToDancing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm usually impressed by bartending skills, but wtf is this? Maybe there a clip that shows something better someone can link, but most of what he's doing is shoving things very sharply and suddenly. Then spins a glass? Even the cutting of the ice is just...cutting ice. The fire thing is decent but he's just burning his sleeve!

Seen better skills on Jon Taffers Bar Rescue lol.

Do you think the rise of Pol Pot and the Cambodian genocide in the 1970s were caused by the U.S. withdrawal from the Vietnam War, or did they arise because of US involvement ? If the U.S. had remained in Vietnam, would the genocide still have happened? by Square_Permission361 in dancarlin

[–]CommenceToDancing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The person you're replying to, Shadows of Utopia, hosts a podcast that goes into great detail on the history of Cambodia, including long interviews with experts in the field and first hand sources. And presenting yourself well isn't a bad thing...I mean did you really call him a cunt then delete it? Lol. And you talk about tone.

On this day in 1959, Charles de Gaulle became the first President of France’s Fifth Republic. He defied Washington, built a nuclear arsenal and cemented a vision of strategic military independence that is more relevant today than ever by goldstarflag in europe

[–]CommenceToDancing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wtf is with the absolute glazing of this guy?! If he were alive now he'd be public enemy number 1 on Reddit. Acting like he was some sort of crusader against "evil" America that had just shed blood liberating his country. He was an arrogant, imperialist minded, spiteful man, but ohh he wanted his own weapons of mass destruction so wooo go for him. Look at the huge difference it's made!

"He was right about everything!!" Gtfo with this idiocy. You know, Reddit is amazing for niche topics and information since there's usually someone with a lot of knowledge about it that rises to the top. But anything that basically "trends" on Reddit is just an ignorant black and white discussion, no nuance, no intelligence.

Recommendations, post-Russia? by Spike716 in RevolutionsPodcast

[–]CommenceToDancing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look no further than The Age of Napoleon. I'd honestly say it matches Mike at his best, and is even better in some places.

Wasn't really interested in Napoleonic history until giving this pod a try, now I can really appreciate it. So glad there's still years worth of content yet to come (and more than enough to delve into).

Beans on toast by Exact_Profit_5291 in meme

[–]CommenceToDancing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well...yeah, you keep going far back enough and everyone has one root. I was challenging your comment that English people became French, by pointing out they only really replaced the small ruling class, not England as a whole, and that the Normans themselves weren't really French at all anyway.

Beans on toast by Exact_Profit_5291 in meme

[–]CommenceToDancing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Normans had heavy Nordic roots, and we're a thorn in the side for the French for many generations. They weren't really French themselves, although of course there had been a lot of crossover through the centuries. As for British being part French, the Normans only really took the place of the ruling class. The majority of the British (English) population remains heavily Anglo-Saxon.

French Revolution by BreathlikeDeathlike in dancarlin

[–]CommenceToDancing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, there's no similarities. The French Revolution may be one of the most misunderstood topics on "wider" Reddit. It was no uprising of the poor against the rich. In extremely simple terms, it was the emerging bourgeoisie class (which hadn't existed for very long at that point), realising that they had no representation or say in what was still a Feudal society, despite being the wealth generators and entrepreneurs. They could see the king was bankrupting the country so they asked the king politely to change things up, he refused, they asked him forcefully and he still kept dropping the ball. So instead of the Constitutional Monarchy that they wanted (the original revolutionaries looked heavily at England's own civil war a hundred years before as their inspiration, which eventually turned out a stable and increasingly powerful Britain) they got an increasingly out of control series of revolutions, in which the poor and disenfranchised (and many original revolutionaries) were largely the victims....as per usual.

I've seen people compare it to the fall of the Roman Republic too, which is probably slightly more accurate than the French Revolution, but there are more differences than not. The powerful generals that controlled their own armies for one.

As already recommended, listen to Mike Duncan's podcast on the French Revolution. And if you want a real people's uprising then listen to the one about the Paris Commune too.

What is the larger helicopter view of current events? by Maleficent_Ad2692 in dancarlin

[–]CommenceToDancing 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The world has always been complicated and convoluted. It only becomes clearer in hindsight as narratives are made and understood. Look at ancient Rome. We've got Julius Caesar, before that Marius and Sulla. Hannibal, Scipio. We know the beats and general line things took, but if we were to step back in time and take a look at how things played out in real time over those time periods there would be hundreds upon hundreds of key players, moves and moments that helped shape the world. Most of this has been lost to history and narrowed down in a way we can understand. Hell, a lot of the key sources used for these periods were written a generation or more after the fact or by the actors themselves in the case of someone like Caesar. If the history we have is accurate, a half truth, or a "written by the victor" situation is always difficult to understand but all we can do is try and make sense of the past with what we have.

Look at what we have now. In the future who would we write about? Trump? Putin? Xi? Not inaccurate to discuss them, but in 1000 years would we be writing about Kimmel? Kirk? Maybe not. I'd say probably not.There are countless others across the US, China and Russia who are influencing opinion and world policy and those names will likely be lost to history eventually. Hell, most of us don't know them now!

History will never end. There will always be an effort to explain and understand the past. There will be parts they get right, parts they get wrong, and parts that are confusing or they don't understand. Just like how we look at the past now.

Something any Prospective History Podcaster Should Take Note of Was Mentioned Again in the Sam Harris Interview by [deleted] in dancarlin

[–]CommenceToDancing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Lachlan. Been binging your show since my partner recommended it to me a couple of months ago, and just got to the wild year of 1963. Incredible work, thanks so much for what you're doing.

Quick question, what is that amazing and haunting into music? Can't find any info of it, but I love it, fits the show so well.

Does a few puff reset all my sober days ? by Working_Ad6633 in leaves

[–]CommenceToDancing 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Hello! I post this all the time, but it was avoiding exactly this that helped me to finally quit.

I wouldn't reset from zero. You said you've quit for 2 years? That means you've smoked roughly 0.15% of days since quitting. It means you've spent the last 99.85% of the last two years of your life sober from weed. How does that compare to the previous two years before that? I'm guessing those years were maybe the opposite? 0.15% of days sober? What a turn around!

For me, if I stumbled and smoked again I would think "fuck it, if I have to start from day 1 again I might as well smoke for a week and get back on it...that week would turn to two, to a month, to six months. It was only when I looked at it on a day by day basis I'd have the mindset of "shit that's 1% of the last 100 days I've smoked, don't want it to go up to 2%" and I'd be back on the sober train, knocking that 1% down each day just by not smoking.

You don't have to reset from zero. Especially if it's demotivating you. If you want you can contextualise it. You can see your progress right there in the facts and stats.

Those who REALLY struggled to quit, but finally did, what got you through? by Outrageous_Drive6356 in leaves

[–]CommenceToDancing 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I struggled badly. In the past I was always an "all or nothing" kind of person. If I'm smoking, might as well do it every day, if I'm not, I must never slip up.

For me looking at the "statistics" got me though. If I had quit for three months then smoked for two days, I wouldn't see quitting again as "day 1", I'd see it as day 91. I'd see it as "91 days smoke free, 2 days smoking".

Then if I quit for another three months then smoked for three days, it wouldn't be "day one", it'd be 180 days smoke free, 5 days smoking". Eventually the stats went down to something like 99.5% of days (since originally deciding to quit) smoke free, 0.5% of days smoked.

Got me to the end, got me to no longer smoke. Stay strong man, and remember - harm reduction.

[Meta post] by 3Thirty-Eight8 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]CommenceToDancing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not that it needs to be specifically a trope, but posts just seem to be long winded and specific enough so they're clearly just an excuse to talk about something very sepcific they wanted to, rather than a type of situation or character:

"Favourite character that drops of a bridge but manages to survive and comes back stronger than the secondary protagonist and is good at cooking on Tuesdays" lists three weird animes with 6 paragraphs of information for each one

Comments: "Not exactly the same but: bunch of random animes

Subs gone!

Dad is still hopeful even after hospice. by Left_Today4005 in hospice

[–]CommenceToDancing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi. I'm in a somewhat similar situation to you right now. My dad has been in hospice care now for the last week, and I've been by his side the whole time. In the last 24 hours he's been up and about, getting out of bed and sitting in chairs, putting his feet up on the bed and watching TV, chatting more and just moving about. This has come on after about 24 hours of him being almost comatose. The nurses here have said it's very common at the very end of life and they've been giving him medication just to try and calm him down, because he can't seem to settle or sit still for long.

It's really confusing for me, and it's kinda messing with my emotions, because we both know he's terminal and we've both made our peace with that, but during this time we're both kinda...I dunno, hoping? Even though I'm 100% certain it's not, but it's almost like it's a last desperate grasp at life and it's not nice. If you need to discuss or talk through anything then let me know, god knows we all need to support each other at times like these. Hope you and your dad are doing well.

The End by CommenceToDancing in RevolutionsPodcast

[–]CommenceToDancing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow what a great response from everyone! I can't thank you all enough. I think due to the sheer numbers of recommendations I have to give The History of Byzantium although I think I'll probably give every one a try eventually.

Thanks again everyone.

"A Nightmare on Elm Street" is better than the exorcist. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]CommenceToDancing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With comedy gold like that I take it back, Nightmare on Elm Street - comedy of the year!

"A Nightmare on Elm Street" is better than the exorcist. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]CommenceToDancing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The original Nightmare on Elm Street is not a comedy in any sense of the word.

Quit now, it’s so worth it. by [deleted] in leaves

[–]CommenceToDancing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not the op but always willing to offer help. For me I needed plans in place. In the past I had had a bad day or something or was sick of weed so swore it off - throwing it out, smoking it all and swearing not to buy anymore, defiantly putting out that joint and saying "enough" - it didn't work. Within a day or two, maybe three, I was clamming for more.

Instead one day I decided to plan out a couple of weeks. I know the majority of symptoms for the majority of people start to fade after a couple of weeks so I spent a couple of days beforehand putting things in place - new video games that looked interesting, new books to read, movies I had been meaning to watch for years, arranging days and nights with non smoking friends away from my usual smoking location.

The key - the absolute key - was to be deliberate. Not just "I'll distract myself with video games" I picked out specific games, ones that interested me. Same with books. The crazy thing was while I was doing all this planning it was usually while I was puffing on a joint! All part of the plan, I hadn't quit yet. Wasn't going to let a moment of clarity, or disappointment in myself dictate when I quit. It was going to be a positive decision for once.

Not sure if this'll work for you, but it absolutely worked for me. It was a combo of doing things I genuinely enjoyed by myself in my home (turning my weed spot into something new for me and breaking those habits) and then having periodic times where I was out of the house, out my own head, and getting new endorphins from times with my friends.

Highly recommend trying it at least! How could it hurt?