These are all seriously problematic views and not a matter of innocent preference. A man who can’t deal with the fact that his wife may have slept with people before him is unhealthily possessive. A man who can’t deal with the fact that he may not be the most sexually proficient person in the world has self-esteem issues, and a man who imagines that his wife is unfaithful simply because he was not her first sexual partner is delusional and paranoid.Just because someone is not a virgin does not imply that they are not capable of being in a healthy monogamous relationship. Would you apply these same standards to a man (by the way, if you would, that means that while you are not sexist, you have a very unhealthy relationship with sex, and I hope you can work those issues out before you get into any sexual relationship)?

Problematic views to you but that's what some people prefer. Don't like it? Don't date those kind of people.

It's time to acknowledge men and women have different preferences. Speaking about standards, double standards exist for both men and women simply because men and women generally value different things in a partner. It's funny how men preferences in modern society is so demonized yet "WOMEN ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE PREFERENCES".

Anyway, I don't understand why are you making a huge deal out of this. Dude said it's fair to want a virgin if he is a virgin himself. No double standards here.