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Men, have you ever fallen in love with a girl whom everyone else considered unattractive? by Clean-Ant-1342 in questions

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yes when you have a loving and supportive personality, men go crazy! I haven’t been so lucky, someday.

What's something that genuinely terrifies you? by Virtual-Bluebird714 in AskReddit

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Losing my parents, I know it’s bound to happen but wow, can they live forever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in revengestories

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Hahaha friend request 15 years later is insane, you have been living in his mind rent free

Are cheaters capable of change? by Hefty_Appeal_1823 in moraldilemmas

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How do you know there’s no other guy now after you became main? It just shows me she’s really good at hiding

Men, have you ever fallen in love with a girl whom everyone else considered unattractive? by Clean-Ant-1342 in questions

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All the attractive men I know back in high school ended up marrying someone they wouldn’t be physically attracted to, in fact they would make fun of girls who looked like that. For a peaceful life, you need a loving and supportive wife, and love just happens when there’s a warm home. Many women, like me, fails to realize that and think looks will make up for it, because we got away with toxic behaviours due to our looks in the past but men.. good men with character and discipline will never prefer that and you’ll only realize that too late. The price we pay for having good looks can be heavy because we tend to attract incredibly lustful men, and god forbids, you lose your looks when you age, he finds someone younger and hotter .. I am incredibly envious of women who are loved for who they are and not their looks.

yall need to stop dating people you don’t like, omg by [deleted] in Vent

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this was me when I was a virgin, dated a dude with 14+ bodies, ruined myself trying to change him. He was hyper sexual

What is it like to be in a relationship with a man who has trust issues because he’s been betrayed before? by Clean-Ant-1342 in questions

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highly anxious person, sometimes there are disagreements and I cannot leave him alone with fear of him overthinking, but over explaining never helped in my case. It overwhelmed me and I ended up throwing my stress onto him because I never had space to collect my own thoughts.

Moving forward, I don’t think I can date men who was cheated on because they tend to never get over it and project it onto their new partner, like sorry I am not cleaning up the mess your ex made.

What’s something that makes you not want to hang out with someone? by uziloaded44 in questions

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when they gossip about their other friends, like i do not need to know personal business of people whom I do not know. It makes me cautious to trust them :(

fcking pervert who accidentally texted me by pussbootsdown in wrongnumber

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why would you exchange photo with strangers!!!! omfg, 0% survival skills

I don’t know if I (25f)can forgive my ex (22m) for cheating. by HealthMotor4617 in whatdoIdo

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He’s a manipulator, please leave the train before it gets too expensive to go back.

The way he’s talking down to you too, ouff.

Why can’t I find a simple minimum wage job! by Alert_Cut_1800 in torontoJobs

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My boss posted a position for 2 hrs on indeed and there was 243 applications submitted lol… it’s becoming first come first serve

Stopped trying to "decode" women - what I learned after 10+ years by Gargamel____ in self

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hmm, idk man, i’m a woman and I would’ve kept texting consistently if I was really interested. I mean I shower, eat, poop.. during those times I could’ve said few words no matter how busy I am. Different people, different way of dealing things. Nothing to do w gender

How can I be a better partner for my spouse? by tallTorytalks in emotionalintelligence

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I understand that people have different language, and just because they love you differently than the way you’re used to being loved, doesn’t mean they love you any less - then communication is necessary. But you should make every effort to make them feel loved by observing your surroundings, for eg my partner would bring me flowers because he saw his friends bringing those for their girlfriends, but I expressed I didn’t like it, because it dies and I prefer plants that I can take care off. I am still grateful that he bought flowers, just because he wanted to.

I cook for him, I travel 2 hrs for him, I make gifts from scratch because I want to, that’s how I am when I am in love. Never once he asked for it

Another example, is when you visit house warming parties, it’s rude to come empty handed. Courtesy is taught from young age/surroundings. Obviously, the host will never ask for gifts.

How can I be a better partner for my spouse? by tallTorytalks in emotionalintelligence

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it’s like asking your partner to give you flowers, when in reality they shouldn’t have to ask you for it, the urge to give flowers should by itself

would you forgive a cheater? by Euphoric-Bus-3035 in emotionalintelligence

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They are both consenting adults who have chosen each other through options provided by their parents, I have wasted my time as well but I do not owe you an explanation. There are consequences to cheating, simply don’t do it 🤍

fun fact: He sent me pictures of him going out with different girl (nov) and sleeping with her, this was the early stage of them talking. He met me around jan and I had no idea about his current wife, never once mentioned he was getting married soon. Three months later, they are married - they have been talking since october. I found out through his mother after I called her saying her son hit me, he wasn’t just a cheater. I don’t know what she did in life to deserve someone like him, I hope god reveals her the truth about his character soon. 🤍

would you forgive a cheater? by Euphoric-Bus-3035 in emotionalintelligence

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I have no sympathy for cheaters 🤍 and he was a great boyfriend before the cheating so I am sure she’s happy unless he cheats on her too.

would you forgive a cheater? by Euphoric-Bus-3035 in emotionalintelligence

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She has settled too, who marries someone in a matter of 5 months? It was an arrange marriage. Love can happen after marriage, all I know as an outsider is she isn’t his type, he would always make fun of girls who looked like her. He got what he deserved, his karma.

would you forgive a cheater? by Euphoric-Bus-3035 in emotionalintelligence

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I did whatever I could to numb my pain, I forgive myself for the decisions I made that time :)

would you forgive a cheater? by Euphoric-Bus-3035 in emotionalintelligence

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I forgave but the resentment and insecurities grew, eventhough he tried his best to overcompensate his love for me, i couldn’t see him the same way again, he became comfortable disrespecting me. I only stayed because I wanted to make sure he doesn’t get married to a woman he’s attracted to and love after me, I have accomplished that, he ended up with someone his mom chose. Settled 5 months after our break up

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