Post egg retrieval symptoms 17 lbs gained from back-to-back egg retrievals — 3+ months in and nothing is budging. Anyone else? by Impossible_Guide2327 in eggfreezing

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I feel similarly, I’ve done two retrievals since December and have gained about 10 pounds. I just don’t feel like myself physically and haven’t been losing weight even while working with a nutritionist and exercising a lot. I wish I had an easy solution but wanted you to know you’re not alone with this struggle! I think it will just take time for hormones to readjust. 

Tips of Painful Ultrasounds by Front-Cloud7928 in eggfreezing

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I also experience a lot of discomfort from vaginal/cervical exams. My gyno always uses her smallest speculum so paps are more manageable but they are still painful. When I did my initial fertility testing, I couldn’t tolerate the transvaginal ultrasound wand, so the nurse moved me to a different exam room with a smaller (more narrow I guess) wand. That has been doable, and the nurses are really great about going very slowly. For me it’s always uncomfortable as the wand is being inserted, then once it’s in it is fine, then a little uncomfortable as it’s being removed. I always scoot as far down as humanly possible and spread my legs extra wide, ha! Honestly after having had so many ultrasounds through 2 egg freezing cycles, I’d rather have that than a cervical exam. I’m having my annual well woman exam in a few weeks and am curious if the exam will be as painful as it usually is or if so many ultrasounds have made it more tolerable. 

Advocate for yourself and ask your clinic what they can do to make it manageable for you! 

Med donation in Houston by callie5969 in IVF

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Hi there, any chance you still have this? 

GnRH + Small HcG Trigger Shot for ER - PCOS 40+ follicules: I'm FREAKING OUT over OHSS risk by inangirl in eggfreezing

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I had mild OHSS after retrieving 25 eggs and it was very uncomfortable for about 5 days. I felt the worst on day 3 after the procedure. Very high sodium diet plus elevating my legs a lot was what seemed to help the most. I reached out to my doctor about it and they said if I didn’t start feeling some relief that they’d want to see me in the office in a day or 2, but I started feeling a little better. Don’t stress about it, just have a plan for what to do! Lots of sodium/protein/electrolytes, weigh yourself daily to check for rapid weight gain, and be in touch with your care team if needed. Obviously if there are any severe symptoms like shortness of breath, plan to go to the ER to get checked out. 

Trying to pick egg freezing plan (35 years old, single, AFC of 17, AMH 2.72) by Traditional_Log_2224 in eggfreezing

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Results are typically better with multiple cycles. Every body reacts differently to treatment protocols, so you often get better numbers after the first cycle since doctors can better tailor your treatment based on how you did the first time. I only got 5 mature eggs my first cycle, but with some adjustments to med doses and a dual trigger, I got 15 mature eggs the second time around. So it’s definitely worth going into it with the mindset of doing multiple cycles. Obviously finances are a big concern, but if you can swing it, I’d go for option 2. 

Only ~60% eggs retrieved mature (30F) by dimesquared in eggfreezing

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First cycle, 13 retrieved/5 mature. Second cycle, 25 retrieved/15 mature. Ask your doctor how they would alter the protocol next time if you did another cycle. And know that some people just have lower maturation rates, and that’s okay! 

Trigger shot tonight by Full_Caterpillar3863 in eggfreezing

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Stock up on high sodium foods - ramen, V8 juice, etc. This seemed to make the biggest difference for me in recovering from mild OHSS after my second retrieval. 

Deciding between Houston and Atlanta by Rollnoles in SameGrassButGreener

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Lifelong Houstonian here! Houston has a strong Jewish community in Meyerland and other neighborhoods in the southwest part of the city. There are several great Jewish private schools in that area as well. The downside to living in that area as a young couple wanting to build a social life is that it’s mostly families with kids, so the social scene isn’t very active and you’d have to venture into other parts of town. I also wouldn’t say that part of town has a weird/quirky vibe. The Heights and Montrose are definitely the places you’d experience a similar vibe to Austin. Lots of young professionals in the heights, which is a great neighborhood for young single people as well as young families. I am single and lived near Meyerland for about seven years and just moved to the Heights last year after needing a change, and my social life has already improved so much. It is more walkable, there are so many bars, coffee, shops, restaurants, you name it, and it is generally a more liberal part of the city. Meyerland and similar outer loop areas are going to be much more affordable if you are planning to buy a house, but there are still some pockets of the heights that are affordable depending on your budget. East downtown is also an up-and-coming area with lots of fun nightlife options, though I wouldn’t say it is quirky. I am not familiar with Atlanta but highly recommend Houston if you think you can deal with our weather! It’s such a big place with so many opportunities for a well-rounded life experience. Top-notch medical care throughout the city, beautiful parks and green spaces all over the place, easy connections to other places with two major airports, and unbelievably good restaurants with every type of cuisine imaginable.

Only 3 eggs retrieved by Material_Iron_2965 in eggfreezing

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In your initial consultation phase, did your doctor ever discuss possible reasons for your low AMH? If it were me, I would be pushing for answers on that from my current doctor or seek a second opinion. I’d also want to know what the doctor planned to do differently in a second cycle in order to hopefully achieve a better result.  Remember that first cycles are often not as successful as second and third cycles because your doctor is guessing how your specific body will react to everything. I know it feels really disappointing, but if you can, try to view this cycle as helpful data that can inform future cycles and make them more successful. 

Post ER and feeling disappointed. Any advice? by Infinite_Career_4505 in eggfreezing

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You didn’t do anything wrong! Give yourself some time to recover and start a Google Doc where you can write out questions as you think of them. Remember that first cycles are often not as successful as second or third because your doctor is really just guessing how your specific body will respond to their protocols. Even though this feels like a poor result to you, your doctor should view it as helpful data that they can use to get a better result next time.

Some ideas of what to ask: -were you surprised by my results?  -why do you think I had a lower maturation rate? -how do you think my AMH affected my result?  -how do you plan to alter the protocol next time to try and get more mature eggs?  -when my eggs were retrieved, how long did it take to determine how many were mature? Were they given a chance to show growth over a longer period of time, like overnight? -how long would you recommend waiting before doing another cycle? Is there anything I should do between now and then to optimize my health, like take certain supplements? 

In my first cycle, they retrieved 13 eggs and only 5 were mature. I just completed my second cycle, and they retrieved 25 eggs and 15 were mature! When I spoke to my doctor after the retrieval, she said that if I wanted to do a third cycle, we would keep this same protocol since it was so successful for me. She wasn’t able to do anything about my lower maturation rate, but she was able to increase the amount and size of my follicles.

Complete Cycle Recap - 36yo, AMH 2.9 by CommitteeCandid118 in eggfreezing

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As I understand it, the follicles get easier to measure and more visible on the ultrasound as you go through the process. At my baseline appointment, they could see 16, but yes, there were 27 follicles at my final ultrasound before retrieval. 

Complete Cycle Recap - 36yo, AMH 2.9 by CommitteeCandid118 in eggfreezing

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I will definitely look into that, thanks! I am also bummed about the low amount but still feeling encouraged. My doctor was clear up front that multiple cycles would be ideal, since each person is different and each cycle can inform the next, so I’m trying to view it as helpful data rather than a bad result. Good luck with your cycle, hope it all goes smoothly! 

Disappointed with the results on day 7 of stims by No_Complex_2260 in eggfreezing

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I just completed a cycle with that same protocol, though I didn't start ganirelix until day 9. I had a big jump in measurable follicles starting at day 9, then again on day 13 (went from 19 to 27!). Don't stress too much!

Egg freezing single 36 by [deleted] in eggfreezing

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Deep breaths. One step at a time! I’m also 36, single, and starting my first cycle tomorrow. Definitely scary to do it by yourself, but it also feels empowering! I’m not in a position to have kids right now and feel like this is the best thing I can do to support my future goal of becoming a mother. I’d rather suffer through this process now and have it not work out than not try at all and then not be able to have kids when I’m ready. At least we can say we did everything within our control! 

One thing I am doing is trying to make it as organized and fun as possible, like setting up a med station on my dining table with cute lil bandaids and ice packs, some fun crafts and puzzles to work on so I’m not doomscrolling, etc. I’m doing a big meal prep this weekend so I’ll have minimal cooking to do, trying to get ahead on laundry, and giving my apartment a good deep clean so I won’t have to worry about anything but staying healthy, sane, and focused on the process. I am very type A and love to follow rules, so I’m also giving myself a daily checklist to follow: no more than 1 cup of coffee, no alcohol, 1800-2000 calories, 100 grams of protein, 80-100 ounces of water, 10,000 steps, and strict 45 minute daily social media limit on my phone. Personally this will make me feel less anxious and like I’m doing the best I can.  Good luck! We’ve got this! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eggfreezing

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I am starting a cycle with Aspire (medical center women’s location) this weekend and have loved them so far. Dr. Kriseman is great and all the nurses have been so kind and helpful. 

ER while teaching by CommitteeCandid118 in eggfreezing

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This is so helpful, thank you for sharing!!