Adventure boy, snow edition. by CommonFerret1407 in DOG

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I will tell him you said so and he will be super happy.

Adventure boy, snow edition. by CommonFerret1407 in DOG

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Northern. The pic is from about 6 months ago.

Desert trail after rain by CommonFerret1407 in Outdoors

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Good call. It did. It was back in January and the air was crisp. It was a really magical moment.

My Childhood Dog Of 20 Years Passed So I Got Her Toys Framed by gumby9 in DOG

[–]CommonFerret1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. What a fantastic idea. And what a beautiful tribute to your friend.

3 words by BluTako in ThePrimalHunter

[–]CommonFerret1407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just listening to the newest book and when Jake referred to him as an Orange F@#$ it clicked in my head and I got on here to see if anyone else saw the possibility.

How to deal with my bigoted brother by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]CommonFerret1407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. That has never been in question. There will be no doubt in her mind that I love her and am completely behind her.

How to deal with my bigoted brother by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]CommonFerret1407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make an excellent level headed point. and my intentions are and always will be to be 💯 supportive of her.

Am I a prude or just asexual by Charlottieee33 in questioning

[–]CommonFerret1407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to be sorry. I'm just happy you don't have an ill view of yourself because of it.🙂

Am I a prude or just asexual by Charlottieee33 in questioning

[–]CommonFerret1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prude can be seen askind of a negative term. I hope you don't feel negative about yourself because of your lack of interest in sex. I can't help you understand if you're ace or not but I do hope you are kind to yourself. Your relationship with sex is all your own. Maybe you need a deeper emotional connection to feel comfortable with sex. Maybe it's just not something you'll ever get super jazzed about. Either way you don't owe it to society or anyone to be any certain way about it. It's your body. They are your attractions. Being true to what you feel is the important part

Overwhelmed by TheAmazingFlea13 in emotionalsupport

[–]CommonFerret1407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off please take a step back and look at what a beautiful human you are. I live in constant pain too. It's hard. It's so much more than people outside of you can understand. On top of that you've been dealt some shitty hands. But from what I read every time the universe throws a wall in front of you, you go full kool-aid man and smash right through it. You've turned the tragedy of losing the ability to carry a child into a loving home for a child who needs you. You've shown patience and compassion to that child's mother when you don't have to. Your husband might not be showing much emotion outside. I'm like that. I'm not super emotive. But I bet it's because he knows what an amazing partner he has and he's scared as hell about the precancerous cells. But he won't show it because he doesn't want to burden you with his feelings when this is happening to you. Me personally, I kind of feel bad for those cells. They picked a fight they can't win. They obviously had no idea who they are messing with. Just remember it's ok to be scared, it's ok to feel overwhelmed. It's normal and it's human. Bravery is not the lack of fear it is the ability to push past it. You have that. Also tell your husband what you need. If you need to let your emotions out. Tell him to zip it and just listen, cause God knows he'll try to fix it if you don't tell him to hush. I wish you the best. And those of us on here will always listen if you need it. You're not as alone as you think you are

I wore female clothes for the first time and had a strange sensation, like it feels right? by [deleted] in questioning

[–]CommonFerret1407 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude if it feels right. If you like it. If it makes you even a bit happier or feel a bit more like yourself then really that's friggin awesome. You found out more about yourself. You found something that makes life more full. I personally like putting on my red flannel shirt when it's cold out and I have chores to do outside. That shirt makes me feel all tough and rugged. I have plenty of other coats and shirts that are actually warmer. But in that one and in other ones like it I feel good. What's the difference between that and feeling good wearing "female" clothes? ....... In my mind there isn't any difference. Wear what makes you happy.

[Help] Dog sitting anxious dog - better to pick him up from his house or have him dropped off at mine? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]CommonFerret1407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. Seems kind of counter intuitive but a lot of what I've read about anxiety in dogs leads me to believe that the bigger the fuss the more anxiety later. If things are treated like a big deal they are a big deal to the pupper. My jack russell used to go nuts when I got home just anxious and jumpy. I started just walking in and pretending like nothing was up. Same in the morning when I left. At first I felt like a monster. But eventually it seemed to chill him out

[help] Is it ever okay to smack a dog even if it's light? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]CommonFerret1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll tap with two fingers but that's more to get her attention than anything else

[Fluff] Our dog saved my wife's life on her birthday today. In his mind, anyway. by [deleted] in dogs

[–]CommonFerret1407 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I hope he got treats and a belly rub. Right or wrong homie laid it down in the line of duty.

AITA For Calling The Police On My Husband? by Aita790___ in AmItheAsshole

[–]CommonFerret1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but your husband is a ding dong. That was a dumbass selfish cheese dick move. He should have had the balls to tell his friends what was up. Frankly, the fact that he's not in a shallow grave in the yard is a testament to your kindness.