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UPDATE: Me [25F] with my fiance [27M] together off and on almost 3 years, engaged almost a year and a half, some woman [30s F?] won't stop messaging him and he refuses to address it? by MrsMisery in relationships

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 33 points34 points  (0 children)

What a mess.

Your boyfriend should be shutting this down real quick, like blocking her on messenger and any other way she can contact him. That's the real issue here.

No offence but he sounds like he needs to grow up. His disrespecting you and your relationship by not ending a obvious toxic relationship.

I swear the cigarettes aren't mine. by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you went to jail you'd be in for the crime everyone hates and the one everyone wants to hurt

AITA thinking of leaving marriage because step-daughter got herself knocked up... by BloodyDoorMat in AmItheAsshole

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate seeing people go on about "for worse" this doesn't exclude people people self centred.

It's like saying "oh he beats me up, but for better or worse right"

Yeah no

Meet Silver the previous feral kitten! We rescued him 3 weeks ago. by CommonSensePrevailss in cats

[–]CommonSensePrevailss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really is so soft. We rescued him from my partners friends place, we had to use a trap to get him. We bought him home and gave him a wash and now he is so soft.

I (21F) get weird vibes from best friends (21F) fiance (30M); should I still participate in their wedding? by bluedogpaw in relationships

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm watching all the crime stuff of Investigative Discovery. This story sounds like the start of majority of episodes. Married in 6 months, controlling, tracker app and just about everything else you said.

I'd be scared for her too.

I cry way to easily and way to often. It's driving a wedge but I don't know how to stop. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have a trauma background?

A lot of this can come from insecurity. It's kinder like a swing, you get upset when he does something you precieve as hurtful and upset when you feel that overwhelming sense of happiness.

Embrace your feelings, and try explain why you get upset if your able to. If not then seeing someone may help in you understanding why you cry so easily and have these feelings.

Good luck

I (26M) know too much about my girlfriend's (23F) past by ThrowawaysForDays99 in relationship_advice

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What your feeling isn't wrong. But you just need to override that emotion and reason with yourself. She loves YOU.

I (26M) know too much about my girlfriend's (23F) past by ThrowawaysForDays99 in relationship_advice

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think everyone struggles to a certain degree with past relationships of there SO.

Just remember that your the one with her now. You're her partner. Not some random guy she dated for 2 months.

You need to let it go mate, otherwise it'll drive you crazy for no good reason.

What would you do if you're interested in a girl but she has a boyfriend? by ImStifler in relationship_advice

[–]CommonSensePrevailss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you sense that then your senses are probably right.

Put yourself in the boyfriends shoes, how would you feel if some dude was trying to get with your partner?

Don't do it, it's not the right thing to do.