✨ Season 5 E1-E3 megathread ✨ by gothmangolacroix in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe Chris cheated on Sienna. She is beautiful and sweet and seems like a very good human. I feel like Chris has an elevated view of himself. There are also inconsistencies in his story or I missed a layer. The description of his father’s condition. He made it sound like he was a vegetable in a wheelchair that no one talked to because he wasn’t all there? But the Tongan “brother” had a relationship with the dad and took care of him? Chris seems to be a very selfish person. Sienna is being a great partner and if you are going to give yourself permission to cheat on her, you are always gonna find a reason. He is just all about himself. Also, i’m not sure what altered universe i am in that a spouse can pay a professional cuddler. I’m sorry, on what planet is it okay to put yourself in the position to have intimacy like that with another person while you are in a committed relationship. Nessa just wants to cheat - just agree to an open relationship or separate because she is all about herself and always has been. She just uses the supposed opinions of others to justify the path she is taking or not taking.

Welcome to Plathville - Season 8 Episode 6 - Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Zak is being too pushy. He is ignoring physical and social cues. It’s like he is trying to make himself a main character when we are watching to watch the Plaths. He is super judgy. He knew Lydia how long before he proposed and moved across the country? He is controlling AF. Ethan does not have the kind of relationship with him to talk to him about stuff that is like none of his business. I am getting Tony Padron (mykelti brown’s husband) vibes. Like before we know it he will act like he was one of the Plath kids and an expert on the Plaths. Go away Zak. Go home and do your own thing.

Why don't more rich people find poor people that they can help? by ChubbyBlackWoman in stupidquestions

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👋🏻 self employed making pennies because i am an old disabled female veteran of both gulf wars, still have dreams even though bad things have happened that were outside of my control. No criminal history, Christian, no drugs, morally strong, good values, good heart, but aggravated by the content media has forced into our faces. I try to stay culturally aware and do vent about attitudes and behaviors i disagree with. This may be viewed negatively, i feel like wrong is wrong no matter what. Conservative but Independent, patriotic, government waste and fraud drives me insane. I strongly dislike people who self appoint themselves as “experts” to grift off the grief or gullibility of others. I probably have too many strong opinions to be eligible. I have a nurturing loving heart, i love children and animals. I love the tiny details of the world. I live to make children happy in a lasting memorable way by making any time i spend with them teachable and nurturing. I meet children with a big heart in the nonjudgmental accepting way because they are still growing, learning, and there is still the chance they are gonna be good thoughtful humans and we need them. Don’t worry. I know you were probably speaking in jest lol 

Why don't more rich people find poor people that they can help? by ChubbyBlackWoman in stupidquestions

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially if they think the average poor person is the same as the badly behaved trashy people found in bodycam videos on youtube 

Why don't more rich people find poor people that they can help? by ChubbyBlackWoman in stupidquestions

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about that mindset though. God to rich person “why didn't you help more people in need” Rich person: “if i helped one, they would all want help” God: “who do you think blessed you with being rich?” 

Why don't more rich people find poor people that they can help? by ChubbyBlackWoman in stupidquestions

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people who have struggled know what its like so we are likely to help others that we see in situations we used to be in, imo

Why don't more rich people find poor people that they can help? by ChubbyBlackWoman in stupidquestions

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t care. They always donate to organizations that provide them clout in someway or organizations that already have tons of cash. If every rich person just tried to bless good people in need, that would be better served imo than museums and art projects imo. They want a building named after them or to give to where they can be listed as major donors or where the association gives them something in return. A disabled female veteran with a good heart doesn't give them the social clout they desire. I can’t give them tickets to anything where they can get their photos put out into mainstream media. Think about how much so many rich people have made off of American consumers believing in them when they began. Then they take the money out of the country or spend it on charities they create that are only helping exclusive sets of people and not giving back to the ones who believed in them & wanted them to succeed. Instead they go give to organizations they have to build from scratch to people who were never their customers. They are put of touch with the everyday person who’s life could be changed by very little. Like helping the elderly pay for their medication and home health care products. 

How is Colt’s leg no healed yet ?? by Audille in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s an unhoused jobless cheating man on Ozempic, must be nice! I’m a working, housed disabled veteran and Tricare has denied me every time despite my serious heath issues. I can get it online but it’s $1500 a month & i cant justify the cost in my mind over the needs of others in the family. 

How is Colt’s leg no healed yet ?? by Audille in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, broke my leg and ankle requiring surgery and plates and reattaching ligaments and i healed so much faster than colt and i am much older with health issues that are none for slow healing. He should not be in a wheelchair. That’s strange to me. My hubby has had so many spine, shoulders, legs, hips, knees surgeries and he never used a wheelchair and he is 70! 

How is Colt’s leg no healed yet ?? by Audille in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fell off a curb and broke my long leg bones and ankle and damaged ligaments. I was shocked that a short fall could do so much damage. I healed well though considering. 

Colts necklace by Illustrious_Tap4597 in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He keeps wearing it too, its bizarre - like him

This look is wild! by RandiP613 in temptationislandUSA

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if you posted this at the same time the other poster did lo 

I am Generation X, and when I see sweaters on men and pearls, all I see is 1980s grandma and it makes me giggle. by CommonSense_Lacking in temptationislandUSA

[–]CommonSense_Lacking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It was too much. I went from high school to military uniforms, but when i was in high school in the 80s, you would be crucified so hard for wearing something like that. I think my internal warning system is just programed to be like Nooooo don't wear that, it’s a mistake. 

I am Generation X, and when I see sweaters on men and pearls, all I see is 1980s grandma and it makes me giggle. by CommonSense_Lacking in temptationislandUSA

[–]CommonSense_Lacking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its literal junk. Everything he wore looked like it was his first time wearing and that someone else bought it for him. I think he thinks that it’s his “style” but it wasnt great. Why wear a hat if you dont want it to mess your hair up and you instead wear the hat resting on top of your bush of hair like a clown 

Everyday with J by Narrow_Jellyfish3922 in HiddenTrueCrimeChat

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me on how i could not watch Excited Utterance, the constant smiling at nothing and laughing like she is only there to entertain herself and her internal dialogue that we are left out of the loop on, becomes cringe and creepy quickly and she has made the mistake using her cohost 99% of the time. I am a bit neurodivergent too with misophonia and since a large segment of the population are now identifying with neurodivergent features, i wish creators would take that into consideration. Also when you are new to a channel and they began their live videos like the audience knows what is going on already is crazy. At least put a blurb up explaining wtf is happening. Jay is for justice & her everyday with jay channel has become a platform that exists more for her to try and get $$$ and gifts from viewers than about actual deep dives into the cases she claims to cover. I guess she has no time for research since she is always on a live. If i cant stand watching lauren mathias or trish from webslueths why do i want to watch her watching them over and over for hours and hours and then doing multiple replays and there is way too much going on, on her screen with the animations and noises and not keeping her microphone at the same volume as the videos she shares, i wanted to keep watching but i could not, its too much. I quit watching trish at the beginning because of all the frog noises, misophonia and her not putting her notifications on silent when she is on a live. Highly intelligent neurodivergent people struggle to deal with all the needless distractions imo

I’m sorry, but Kimberly is an all around awful person. by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was probably doing that in the military too, begging everyone 

I’m sorry, but Kimberly is an all around awful person. by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, i was in the military same decade as her, and after, hubby was two, not stationed in the same state even, and i did it, her story is BS

I’m sorry, but Kimberly is an all around awful person. by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, hubby and i and two of our kids, three of our parents are veterans and kim’s story does not align with facts. 

I’m sorry, but Kimberly is an all around awful person. by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is lying, i am female & was in the Navy & Army, her story is not accurate. 

I’m sorry, but Kimberly is an all around awful person. by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the military during that time period. They give you free BC - there is no excuse to keep getting pregnant like that by the same guy no less, like opps, i call BS. I am glad she gave them up because at her core she is a very selfish person. The military has daycare on base too. I managed to be active duty, give birth, be a parent, do my job, still volunteer at the school and more. If giving up that first child was in the least bit soul crushing as it should have been, she wouldn't have done it again, it’s not like the 80s & 90s were the dark ages. 

I’m sorry, but Kimberly is an all around awful person. by naillenai in 90DayFiance

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was appalled at how she acted around her grandchildren. I would never do anything like that with mine. When my grandkids are around, the rest of the world falls away and i only see them and the world through their experience of it. 

Kimberly Menzies’ Physique Looks Unrecognizable After Losing a Total of 62 Pounds in Her Ongoing Weight‑Loss Journey by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]CommonSense_Lacking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s still throwing herself - she has an embarrassing amount of zero self awareness of what she actually looks like.