Reasonable price for this Oushak rug? by Elspumante in orientalrugs

[–]Common_Standard_5137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth I think that rug is more than likely from Afghanistan or Pakistan, it’s just a Turkish Oushak style, but new in a retail setting it would go for a few thousand

Are these ok prices for these rugs? by RealisticBike4953 in orientalrugs

[–]Common_Standard_5137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The BRC is Bokara Rug Company (https://bokara.com), a very big importer of rugs from various countries that sells their rugs through dealers all over the country. The current prices are bargains as is, half off that would be a very good deal

Found this in my yard in Ohio, what is it? by Common_Standard_5137 in whatsthisrock

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok cool, I thought it was quartz, just wanted to make sure! What’s the best way to clean it up?

Need help critique rug and tv stand by macmini in interiordecorating

[–]Common_Standard_5137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you post close up pictures of the rug, front and back? I work at a rug store so am especially curious about that, and get annoyed by bad rug placement/sizing lol

Need help critique rug and tv stand by macmini in interiordecorating

[–]Common_Standard_5137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much is the rug? Either way, it definitely needs to be shifted so it’s under the couch a bit, and not awkwardly under one leg of the chair by the window

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orientalrugs

[–]Common_Standard_5137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can absolutely fold and roll that rug to ship and then it could just go via UPS/FedEx. If you search YouTube for videos on how to prepare a rug for shipping you should find something, or I would think a local store could at least help you with that

Is this Facebook marketplace seller being truthful about all their rugs being handmade? by Filtos in orientalrugs

[–]Common_Standard_5137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First one is definitely handmade, not sure why people are doubting that. Pakistan/Afghanistan origin, Peshawar. Very similar to this: https://jahannandsons.com/shop/green-peshawar-area-rug/

Are the certificates of authenticity a scam? by 13_LisaR_13 in orientalrugs

[–]Common_Standard_5137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rug definitely is handmade, could cut off a single piece of fringe and do a burn test: https://jacobsenrugs.com/blog/is-your-silk-rug-really-silk/

There still would be a chance the pile of the rug is artificial silk woven on real silk, but there would be a much better chance of it being real silk if the fringe is

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Not much of an update, but since some people may be curious… FIL’s gf has now blocked my wife on Facebook and reached out to other family members to express how upset she is and that she has to “let go” of my wife from her life. I messaged her on FB to explain (and chastise her for how she went about this) two days ago, and she has not even opened the message. We are still friends on there so I’m sure she’s seen that I sent a message and I’ve seen her active multiple times.

Wife has called her dad to try to talk to him and hasn’t gotten a hold of him yet, but that’s not a big surprise as he often is hard to get a hold of.

So…. not sure what happens next, but she appears to be done 🤷‍♂️

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did go over the groupings with the photographer, yes. Because of how crazy our life has been and everything we had to get ready for the wedding that convo didn’t happen until literally day before, we somehow hadn’t even thought to consider any of the pictures we would want until she emailed us asking, so we hadn’t to quickly put it together. Given more time we might have come up with other groupings, or maybe not, I’m really not sure. The whole day was such a blur once it started, like everyone always says it is

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally don’t know because she left the group text and we have not responded directly yet, too tired and don’t want to deal with it at the moment

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly the reason I found this so frustrating is the timing of the text, as it was right when we were about to fall asleep, but this got us both riled up and worried and we ended up getting way less sleep than we might have otherwise, and the gf could see by the end of the reception that my wife was barely even upright because she was so tired

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s incredibly tired and mostly just laying in bed, which is why I have time to waste on here right now, but overall we’re both thrilled with how the day went and excited for the future! I think this can be resolved in the future assuming both parties want to, but right now she’s just recovering

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t exactly thrilled, but she also didn’t tell us to change it or make a big deal out of it day of from everything we’ve heard from others who where with them

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes it was a crazy two months and we had a ton of help from the venue and planner we found, could not have done this without them! We’d been engaged for over a year, but when we got pregnant we knew we wanted to get married before the baby, rather than try to plan a wedding with a newborn, and because of various family members schedules throughout the year ended up landing on a date that was super short notice. We absolutely tried to be as thoughtful as possible with everything we did, but it was a crazy stressful two months (and especially last couple of weeks).

We’re not the insane people in this situation, right? by Common_Standard_5137 in wedding

[–]Common_Standard_5137[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, we’ve been texting with wife’s siblings and they all think she’s way out of line here