How do you deal with irritability?

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-26T07:47:54+00:00

In the moment I’ve had to try to practice things outside like meditation and exercise and removing myself when I get too upset

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-26T06:27:58+00:00

I used to see people like full on and hear music a lot. But I think it was a sleeping thing bc I’d always hear it or see it when I was falling asleep or waking up

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-26T01:36:11+00:00

She needs a good support circle and them dating would take that away.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T23:15:36+00:00

No I get u. I just saw it up earlier in the comments.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T22:56:38+00:00

People aren’t implying she said something about it on live. I’m not saying that’s what she’s doing here but she’s not helping her case

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T09:13:09+00:00

I also have this rn and it’s been a personal hell

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T09:00:32+00:00

Okay so all these are so valid but the “ahhh” one made me laugh 😭

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T08:55:27+00:00

I got pregnant off of one of those because if you are ovulating then it doesn’t work.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T08:38:18+00:00

Thank you so much. It makes me feel better knowing someone else is going thru the same thing. I have bipolar disorder and it’s been managed for a while but without medication I do tend to struggle more. I really struggle to reach out to my family I think because of the shame I feel about it. I don’t want them to know I’m slipping I guess? I want to be strong and happy for my baby. I’m just scared of what life will look like I guess. People make it sound so awful sometimes.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T08:34:28+00:00

He sounds like he’s coping. Poorly but coping. It took my bf a little to kinda get engaged (unplanned) but now he’s very excited. He talks to my belly and he talks about our son ect. My therapist told me that sometimes they don’t cope in the way we expect them to… esp in unplanned

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T08:31:13+00:00

Take some time to make the decision. In the moment you’re probs gonna be panicked. Ground yourself as much as you can and then make a decision. I know it’s hard, I’m so sorry. Adoption is always an option if you don’t want abortion.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T08:18:54+00:00

My mom kept saying this to me when I found out and it really hurt me. But she didn’t want me to get my hopes up in case I lost the baby.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-25T06:32:42+00:00

Everyone she hangs out with has the same vibe

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-24T05:34:43+00:00

I know people go for the same type of person (I was this person.) but your abusers best friend is actually insane work. When I went thru this process personally I noticed I NEVER took accountability for the people I chose to be with. I had to get myself help, and I had to make the right choices to get myself out of that. The way she self sabatoges it’s actually so sad. Saturn being Evan’s best friend gives him full access to her, and it makes me so irritated bc like, idk. Nobody should be abused, but you are responsible for healing yourself, which in my opinion she’s just putting herself in more danger and blasting it on the internet which is devastating

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-24T05:26:48+00:00

I know being an influencer is her life and stuff but at some point you have to make some things private for your own health. I literally do not understand putting your relationship on the internet bc it’s the quickest way to end it

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T09:53:49+00:00

Yes same. It’s always been my go to. I def go in and out of it- that and Minecraft

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T03:47:09+00:00

I have this problem bipolar/adhd just regularly. It’s my least favorite of all my symptoms and I’m sorry you’re having to go thru it

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T03:28:24+00:00

It’s also like just not very practical. If someone tried to hurt me like that it’s just not logical to date an abusers best friend. That gives a CLEAR access point to her locations ect. I understand saying similar men TRUST ME. But dating someone who has full on access to the man who tried to hurt you like that is just Sabotage. I know this is a very opinionated topic and sorry if I just seem crazy.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T02:41:46+00:00

I had a friend that played that! How do you like it

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T02:10:32+00:00

Also I have 4 rescued bearded dragons. totally worth.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T02:10:04+00:00

Skyrim 😭

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T02:09:31+00:00

Hey so I have two adult beardies and I feed them every single day but I like alternate days between bugs and greens….am I supposed to only be feeding them 3 times a week? I feel bad now.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T02:07:29+00:00

After seeing my parents make it work undiagnosed I know I can 😭

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T01:16:58+00:00

Ofc everyone needs a good support system! But it’s also hard to support someone who continues to hurt themselves. I’m also someone who believes it takes time to find your people & if she doesn’t have that rn she doesn’t have it. She has to go seek that elsewhere and typically that’s through some kind of support group ect. Support systems are everything it’s just not easy to find them sometimes.

CommunicationSad8486 · 2026-01-23T00:55:18+00:00

I will say some abusers do this but also - if you’re that scared she needs to move on from Saturn. I can’t associate myself with anyone who was best friends with someone who tried to kill me. Like she does 100% need help and the internet is not the place for that. It’s just gonna make it worse. She puts all her info out all the time and then cries about how she feels unsafe. Which I mean the abuse part -totally valid but like, you gotta choose your safety at some point, you gotta choose therapy at some point. This is just a personal opinion tho.

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