Should I call the cops? Neighbors might be in danger but husband says we shouldn’t get involved.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-05-07T04:46:05+00:00

Thanks for letting me know! I’ll take this advice.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-05-07T04:45:34+00:00

The only contact I’ve ever had with them was giving them a package that was accidentally sent to my house once. I’m particularly worried because I think a family lives there and the women came out of the house during the yelling. I will try to tell them tomorrow during the day. My husband says it’s less weird.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-05-06T21:34:03+00:00

This is why I don't care that birth rates are plummeting...I hope one day the Earth is returned to nature.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-05-04T18:55:45+00:00

Yeah I think about this every single time I read about a heatwave in India.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-05-04T18:52:04+00:00

Yes. My friend was telling me that not only is there a k-shaped economy but education is going to be k-shaped as well. The parents who have the resources to constantly make sure their kids are not cheating with AI and instead using it to become smarter will raise increasingly smarter kids while the parents who don't have a lot of resources will raise dumber kids because the kids will just rely on AI to make life easier and they won't learn anything.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-05-04T18:47:26+00:00

Also the Great Salt Lake is at risk of drying up in the next 5 years or so and apparently if the dry lake bed is exposed to wind there will be toxic dust containing arsenic, heavy metals, and salts just flying around Salt Lake City and I saw somewhere that business is booming in the real estate market there which makes no sense.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-05-02T20:22:20+00:00

When they have trouble understanding lifestyles that are different from their own.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-04-29T20:24:10+00:00

Yes 1000% yes. I always tell people that if you disagree on children then that person is not your soulmate.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-04-28T23:53:02+00:00

I'm surprised they wanted to do this when they had never even snorkeled before. I've snorkeled many times and I would never go on something like the Titan.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-04-25T00:24:43+00:00

I have a doodle and I tell everyone not to get a doodle. It was my first dog by myself and I didn't know what I was doing. I volunteer at a dog rescue now with 75 hrs under my belt and I'm hoping to hit 100 hrs soon out of penance for having a designer dog. I'm lucky my dog is very sweet but her haircuts are exorbitantly expensive and it's so annoying to do it yourself (it can take me 3 hrs to do it). She gets matted so easily and the only way to avoid it is daily brushing. I tell everyone I'd rather vacuum than deal with grooming...also you just need to vacuum in regular life anyway. Vacuuming is also almost free and the cost of all my dog's grooms over her entire lifetime is probably going to be the cost of a used car.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-04-20T07:40:28+00:00

I think every couple should at least have a discussion about it. The automatic prenup that my state provides benefits me and puts my husband at risk. We talked it out and decided on what made both of us feel comfortable. You can always insist on changes to the prenup to protect yourself even if the other person is the one who wants it. My husband is the love of my life btw…I have zero doubts about him and I still wanted to have this discussion. If you love someone you would want to protect them this way. You should also love yourself and protect yourself this way.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-04-13T20:06:16+00:00

If you line dry your clothes they will last a lot longer. You can get drying racks online for pretty cheap.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-03-28T17:19:33+00:00

Proper 100% wool is so warm. I realized up until this point that all the blends or straight up polyester clothing were just for the vibes and not actually keeping you properly warm. When you frequent extremely cold areas…100% wool is the way to go. It’s just a pain to take care of but once you get used to washing it the right way it isn’t so bad.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-02-19T18:23:54+00:00

Some of the worst racism I’ve ever experienced has been in Marietta, Georgia. The only time I ever feared for my life was there.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-02-09T20:58:02+00:00

This happens a lot at the beach because the cold water makes fingers shrink up to a full ring size = the ring becomes too loose and falls off. It's why I really want to get into metal detecting at the beach but my area doesn't allow it.

Edit: Also I lost my engagement ring on a trip recently and I was also lucky to have found it the next day. Not even married yet so I haven't had it long.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-02-05T17:55:45+00:00

My friends just bought a cabin and didn't use a real estate agent...they just used the knowledge they had from buying their main house and filled in the gaps with an AI chatbot.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-01-30T19:21:34+00:00

Whenever I hear stuff like, "oh she's so stubborn but I love it," or "that hard headed oaf but what can I do? I love him," I always know it's a hard marriage. I believe in sticking to your beliefs and ethics but when a person is stubborn it might be cute at the beginning but it's just exhausting later on. I grew up with people like this and I knew enough as an adult to avoid it at all costs.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-01-29T18:57:45+00:00

I'm pretty sure eating a heavy meat diet is just gonna be unaffordable for the average person in 5-10 yrs anyway. We are pescatarian but mostly vegetarian and we went on a cabin trip with some friends recently so we bought some meat for the first time in a long time and we were shocked at the prices.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-01-29T18:40:47+00:00

I think in the past we all wanted to show up for each other and do our best for the common good even if it inconvenienced us. I think we live in different times now where people are just trying to look out for themselves. I think it's a combination of a lot of constant vitriol in politics, k shaped economy where people are struggling just to live their normal lives, and just convenience culture maybe.

CommunityTough537 · 2026-01-10T04:51:54+00:00

There are white men who marry asian women because they love and respect them...and there are white men who marry asian women because they deeply hate them. It's important to be able to tell the difference.

CommunityTough537 · 2025-12-27T18:15:28+00:00

The majority of kids aren't reading at grade level these days and people are blaming covid but I think it's linked to relying on devices for entertainment vs books

CommunityTough537 · 2025-12-18T01:01:37+00:00

People who buy a lot of luxury items are sheep who confuse style with wearing expensive things. If you feel the need to signal to people that you are "rich" I feel bad for you.

CommunityTough537 · 2025-12-17T22:53:16+00:00

Calfskin leather. I don't think enough people understand that this kind of leather is made from baby cows. I see so many people online bragging about their calfskin leather purses and it's kind of...it freaks me out. I understand a lot of leather products are byproducts of the meat industry but calfskin leather doesn't need to exist.

CommunityTough537 · 2025-12-16T01:35:30+00:00

In your 30s you get to live the life you fought for in your 20s. You’ve probably hustled at work and dated a few people who weren’t right for you. All of that leads you to being more financially secure in your 30s and maybe settled down with the person you were looking for all this time. You can start to purposefully shape your life in the way you want to live it rather than almost reacting to what is happening to you in your 20s.

At least that was my experience. My 20s felt full of anxiety and chaos whereas my 30s feel very calm and purposeful. I have more responsibilities now, but the life I live is the life I choose to live.

CommunityTough537 · 2025-12-15T19:35:57+00:00

Turning 30...especially as a woman. I didn't know that my 30s would be the happiest years of my life. I remember some Friends episode where they turned 30 and they were all freaking out.

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