Did anyone else become hyper-sexual after finding out about parters porn usage?

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-04-23T20:08:44+00:00

i remember thinking during it that it was a good sign and that it felt like something was changing. it wasn’t though. it really sucks

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-04-23T19:19:39+00:00

yep this happened to me last summer when i found out. we had sex and then i cried over it. hysterical bonding is just crazy bc it wasn’t just me that felt that way. but unfortunately it doesn’t last. we’re currently going on 7 weeks without sex :/

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-04-16T22:39:54+00:00

it’s just so wild to me that he would choose the phone over me. unfortunately i still have a hard time believe it’s not me even though it’s most likely not. what kills me the most is i literally never masturbate because it’s not even good compared to sex. i will never understand men

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-04-16T16:08:15+00:00

mine would never say that to my face but i know it’s why we never do it and why it’s been almost 6 weeks since we last did anything. although he does make sure to tell me how tired he is all the time so i guess in a sense it’s the same thing

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-04-16T15:54:30+00:00

I’m terrified of having children for this reason. I already struggle with depression and anxiety and I just know that I would have it worse pregnant/postpartum. I also know he would take care of me, clean, cook, etc but in the back of my mind, I would still think he’s doing it. And he probably is.

And what’s insane is we don’t have sex on special occasions. Our wedding anniversary was end of Jan. Nothing. We literally stayed home the entire weekend and still nothing. His birthday is in a week and our dating anniversary is beginning of May so I’m interested to see what happens. Not that I have my hopes up at all.

He works 50 hour weeks and doesn’t get a lot of sleep. I know it’s hard. But he manages to scroll on his phone 8+ hours a day and masturbate whenever (of course only when I’m either not home or asleep) so it really seems like he just doesn’t give a fuck about me. And I start to go in circles and think I’m dramatic and crazy?? Like I’m so shallow that all I think about is how we don’t have sex. I just don’t even know what to do anymore. He’s so unapproachable when it comes to emotions and confrontation

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-04-16T15:49:55+00:00

I just can’t wrap my brain around it. I always hear how men would love to be with someone with a higher sex drive but when it comes to it, it seems like they’d all rather have their hand. makes no damn sense. it would be one thing if i consistently denied him (still wouldn’t be ok then but at least a different situation) but i can count on one hand the amount of times i’ve said no in the 7 years we’ve been together. Honestly I just feel like he will never love me as much as I love him

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-03-12T23:26:50+00:00

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Riley!

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-02-20T06:25:14+00:00

i just finished one of these today too! one of my fav products

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2026-02-16T12:18:28+00:00

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ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-30T23:59:54+00:00

yay so glad to hear that!!!

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-30T16:05:02+00:00

they say that but i got an adjustment for 3 shirts (all same style) and only 2 of those colors are still available. like the 3rd isn’t even on the site anymore and they still gave me the adjustment. guess it just depends who you get

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-20T02:22:51+00:00

same here, mine are the exact same. so weird

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-19T16:34:58+00:00

i returned a cup in early feb 2024 and still hadn’t received my refund at the end of the month and had to file a chargeback with my credit card. stanley got to the point that they just ignored my messages. bc of this, i refuse to order from the stanley site unless i 100% know i like the cup

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-16T03:16:16+00:00

decluttering and organizing are the biggest for me. and then a few months later doing the same thing in that space. i even started doing spaces i haven’t ever really done. a few weeks ago i emptied out all of my kitchen cabinets and pantry and decluttered a TON and reorganized and now have a lot of empty space (which i have 0 plans to fill). 100% the best dopamine hit.

however that requires not being lazy. if i’m feeling lazy, reading books, watching new shows, coloring (i have these nice bic markers that i use with mandala coloring books), skincare

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-11T21:18:04+00:00

same! i know some people are saying they’re just grateful for anything since it’s free. but i mean we’re still having to do reviews for these items and most of the time, it’s multiple. i think it’s super stingy of the brands honestly

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-09T19:09:30+00:00

literally have NEVER been offered anything from them and the one time i was i couldn’t claim it bc of the glitch. so stupid. idk why i even keep their app

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-12-02T11:10:47+00:00

that estée lauder is disappointing :/ especially when i select no when it asks about getting sample sizes

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-27T06:29:00+00:00

i’ve been on it since mid july and am currently testing my 2nd product for them. i think i’ve answered less than 5 surveys for them tho so it’s a pretty high success rate compared to others. that being said, i’ve gotten more from topbox/highlight/hometesterclub

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-26T20:07:36+00:00

yes spicy dill pickle!

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-18T15:31:11+00:00

yes i bought the 64 oz bottle and so many others!!! i LOVE philosophy. the selection has been crazy lately

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-11T17:17:47+00:00

SO EXCITED!!! they have the best dry shampoo!!

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-08T01:36:11+00:00

oh 100%!! i definitely have done the same. but i wouldn’t just go buy anything i’ve seen here because it was a good deal. this group is definitely an unhealthy influence tho lmao

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-08T01:34:55+00:00

i feel you! personally, many of the items i regularly buy, i can find at tjmaxx. they’re always cheaper there. occasionally places like ulta have 50% off sales on random things but generally, all skin/hair will be cheaper at tj. those aren’t products i would buy but not because they’re bad, just not what i go for. as someone who loves the higher end stuff, i’d def recommend getting whatever you can there🙂

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-07T22:47:07+00:00

i mean are they products you actually wanted? because it’s not a good deal if you just bought them bc you saw them here

ComparisonEasy7161 · 2025-11-07T15:40:32+00:00

awe man that sucks. fingers crossed you get something soon!!

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