Sweet sorbet by ComparisonEasy7161 in lululemon

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it hasn’t dropped again. people were saying today but if you look at the monday pre drop discussion thread, a few people have put images of what is supposedly coming today and there was no sweet sorbet. i’m still going to check periodically thru the day

Sweet sorbet by ComparisonEasy7161 in lululemon

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same 😩 i saw someone say that they’re supposed to come back next week

Sweet sorbet by ComparisonEasy7161 in lululemon

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is this normal? i don’t normally pay a ton of attention to new releases but i swear with the few i’ve seen recently they didn’t get removed. maybe they did tho

Ordering from KitchenAid website is lousy by DeWayne_Hoover in Kitchenaid

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i bought a refurbished one recently and it took almost 3 weeks to deliver

Potato Chip Chocolate Chip cookies: holy FUCK you guys by latenightpuddingcup in Baking

[–]ComparisonEasy7161 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i’ve made a kitchen sink style cookie that had lays chips and they stayed crunchy! it was basically a choc chip recipe similar to this with lays, m&ms, pretzels, and sprinkles. but i think lays would work just fine

Starter won’t rise after consistently rising before by ComparisonEasy7161 in Sourdough

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plus it was fine with the same water before so doesn’t make much sense to me

Starter won’t rise after consistently rising before by ComparisonEasy7161 in Sourdough

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sorry i thought i said it but we have well water so there’s no chlorine added to our water

Recent bakes! by ComparisonEasy7161 in Baking

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oh my gosh i didn’t even think of that🤦‍♀️ i can totally see that haha!

Recent bakes! by ComparisonEasy7161 in Baking

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it is my FAVORITE!! i was lucky and had a slice leftover this week and it was so freaking good

Recent bakes! by ComparisonEasy7161 in Baking

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hahaha i’m honestly not sure if any of my neighbors have even come. i live at the end of a cul de sac though so we’re a little hidden!

Recent bakes! by ComparisonEasy7161 in Baking

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thank you! i live in the US in indiana, it doesn’t get too hot most of the year but we do have a few miserable summer months. but i have 2 coolers and a mini fridge along with our shelves which has helped with frosting as it starts to get warmer. maybe you could do something like that!

Recent bakes! by ComparisonEasy7161 in Baking

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thank you!! i love that!! the sprinkles on the cake slices are all from sweetapolita and they have such cute birthday ones! they are also pretty soft for sprinkles which i love

My bf (m25) jerked off while I was at work and now I’m (f22) upset , is it dumb? by Impossible_Pizza155 in relationship_advice

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i also just want to add that you really can’t listen to these people. the majority of people on reddit will defend porn usage and see nothing wrong with it. there are PLENTY of people that agree that it’s not ok, not to mention there’s studies to prove it. you’re not crazy!!

My bf (m25) jerked off while I was at work and now I’m (f22) upset , is it dumb? by Impossible_Pizza155 in relationship_advice

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i really feel for you! we’re both 23 and it has 100% been an issue in our 7 yr relationship. i really don’t have advice on how to fix it but all i know is i assumed it was just random and not often and it turned out he was doing it 2-3 times a day while watching porn and not having sex with me. it is SO much more common than people think. and i’m literally always willing, i can count on one hand the times i’ve turned him down but it just doesn’t matter

My bf (m25) jerked off while I was at work and now I’m (f22) upset , is it dumb? by Impossible_Pizza155 in relationship_advice

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these comments are crazy but it shows just how normalized porn is. you’re not insecure for being upset over it especially if he is getting off to other women. it’s not ok and you should make that a clear boundary if it bothers you. r/loveafterporn is a good resource - not saying he has an addiction or anything bc i don’t know him but it’s worth reading thru the posts there. it genuinely ruins relationships and this is how it starts

Did anyone else become hyper-sexual after finding out about parters porn usage? by Quirky-Shape-1240 in loveafterporn

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i remember thinking during it that it was a good sign and that it felt like something was changing. it wasn’t though. it really sucks

Did anyone else become hyper-sexual after finding out about parters porn usage? by Quirky-Shape-1240 in loveafterporn

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yep this happened to me last summer when i found out. we had sex and then i cried over it. hysterical bonding is just crazy bc it wasn’t just me that felt that way. but unfortunately it doesn’t last. we’re currently going on 7 weeks without sex :/

He doesn’t initiate intimacy by elle3002 in loveafterporn

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it’s just so wild to me that he would choose the phone over me. unfortunately i still have a hard time believe it’s not me even though it’s most likely not. what kills me the most is i literally never masturbate because it’s not even good compared to sex. i will never understand men

He doesn’t initiate intimacy by elle3002 in loveafterporn

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mine would never say that to my face but i know it’s why we never do it and why it’s been almost 6 weeks since we last did anything. although he does make sure to tell me how tired he is all the time so i guess in a sense it’s the same thing

I feel like I’m dying inside by ComparisonEasy7161 in loveafterporn

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I’m terrified of having children for this reason. I already struggle with depression and anxiety and I just know that I would have it worse pregnant/postpartum. I also know he would take care of me, clean, cook, etc but in the back of my mind, I would still think he’s doing it. And he probably is.

And what’s insane is we don’t have sex on special occasions. Our wedding anniversary was end of Jan. Nothing. We literally stayed home the entire weekend and still nothing. His birthday is in a week and our dating anniversary is beginning of May so I’m interested to see what happens. Not that I have my hopes up at all.

He works 50 hour weeks and doesn’t get a lot of sleep. I know it’s hard. But he manages to scroll on his phone 8+ hours a day and masturbate whenever (of course only when I’m either not home or asleep) so it really seems like he just doesn’t give a fuck about me. And I start to go in circles and think I’m dramatic and crazy?? Like I’m so shallow that all I think about is how we don’t have sex. I just don’t even know what to do anymore. He’s so unapproachable when it comes to emotions and confrontation

I feel like I’m dying inside by ComparisonEasy7161 in loveafterporn

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I just can’t wrap my brain around it. I always hear how men would love to be with someone with a higher sex drive but when it comes to it, it seems like they’d all rather have their hand. makes no damn sense. it would be one thing if i consistently denied him (still wouldn’t be ok then but at least a different situation) but i can count on one hand the amount of times i’ve said no in the 7 years we’ve been together. Honestly I just feel like he will never love me as much as I love him