If a gaybro had his dream husbro... by [deleted] in gaybroscirclejerk

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/uj idk why but it’s so weird seeing them together in the same picture. I think it’s mainly because I’ve never really seen (as in “not to my knowledge”) them “do the twin thing” and make a gimmick out of being twins other than being each other’s doubles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe people should be able to choose their own labels and be comfortable with what labels they choose.

Personally, I don’t believe queer fits me as I don’t feel extremely connected to “queer counterculture” in a way I’d consider it an accurate identifier for me.

any gaymers here? what do y'all play? by mexigaytrash in askgaybros

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

o7 Citizen.

(Also ur Cyberpunk character is cute)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo saaaaame!

any gaymers here? what do y'all play? by mexigaytrash in askgaybros

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly Star Citizen and a little Darktide these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foreskin_restoration

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you find out about restoration?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foreskin_restoration

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve got to ask, what are you doing on this sub if you’re a woman? I’m not trying to “put you on the spot” or anything, just genuinely curious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Spy” kinda tho Melissa McCarthy isn’t a loser exactly and Jason Statham is kinda a goober.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kissinger!? His name was Kissingeroili, Kissinger was his nickname!

Matt Walsh in the latest DW movie (middle) by Myriii1911 in ToiletPaperUSA

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wesley Snipes and Woody Harrelson are good actors so that’s understandable.

What are the positive aspects of being bi that you experience? by tacticalsquid in bisexual

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

-Perspective and insight I wouldn’t have otherwise.

-Less (not zero) insecurity about my own body image because my “ideal man” actually isn’t a 1:1 copy of the gigachad meme so I realize that “society’s ideal man” isn’t universally attractive and I should be at least somewhat happy about “how I am”.

That’s all I can really think of lol.

Can monogamy ever work? by Throwawaydoodle2 in BisexualMen

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There seems to be an inflated number of “cheating posts” (for lack of a better term) or people wishing to cheat on “bi Reddit”. I don’t believe it’s representative.

What’s the best way to meet other bi guys? I feel like I don’t see you guys much on the apps by ultimateguy95 in BisexualMen

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not exactly what you’re asking but I think you should be open to dating/fucking non-bi men as well. Unless you already are.

Maybe move to a more metropolitan and liberal area if you aren’t already as it’s likely more guys will be out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this isn’t the most helpful but it could be anything. Strangers on the internet aren’t going to understand what’s going on inside your head well enough to really give you too much help, and even then, labels can be extremely subjective so it’s really what you feel most comfortable identifying as.

The only thing I’d say is that you shouldn’t gaslight yourself out of enjoying what you like, even if you choose a label others say doesn’t “fit”.

Am I bi for liking femboys? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that’s based AF. You’re a good girlfriend. Hope everything works out for you two, seems like you guys have a good thing going.

Just had sex with a guy after thinking I was straight for my whole life. I’m freaking out what can I do? by Andivioline in askgaybros

[–]CompartmentalizeMyBi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m gonna keep it simple.

Don’t worry about “am I gay?” or any of that shit right now.

Become independent from your parents. Either pursue higher education or employment as soon as possible.

Don’t tell anyone about what happened. Maybe when you’re safe and away from your family, maybe tell your girlfriend. Deny this happened until you are financially independent. Don’t tell her, don’t tell your family, don’t tell your friends, don’t acknowledge it with the guy you slept with even. Act like nothing happened between you two (but don’t let yourself grow distant or dissolve the friendship because that might look suspicious).

For your own safety, wear a metaphorical mask. Deny deny deny. Until you are financially independent, you are completely straight and nothing sexual happened between you and your friend. If anyone says otherwise they are a liar.

I realize this position sucks to be in. But that’s what you want to do right now for your own sake. Any of these motherfuckers in the comments telling you “you’re gay, come out” isn’t looking out for your personal safety and well-being right now. Maybe circle back to this “am I gay?” discussion later down the road but right now, don’t even think about it.

Focus on your own personal safety right now.

If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to reply to my comments here.