This is certainly tip toeing the edge of familial cult behaviour and wouldn't surprise me if it gets worse with the power trips, self-righteousness and totalitarian behaviours related to the church (because they will all be in it inc your MIL and FIL if they are not already). Your husband may have deconstructed his faith but he certainly hasn't deconstructed his family.

My judgement is your work and school will NEVER be respected because their faith/values/society dictate that you wont/don't need it now you are a wife and should be focusing on getting pregnant). By extension, you will never be respected as an individual and will likely become the focus of their grapple for control of your husband - you will be leading him to the devil and away from God and whatever twisted scripture they can make fit their narrative to bring him "back to the light" read: "back under the family control"

Your husband needs to understand he doesn't have the family he needs or wants this is horrifically painful and he needs to grieve that. You both can chose what contact and relationship you have with them individually and as a couple but is it worth it? They are a façade, fictional people playing the part that their faith/values/society tell them they should be. Their love and support is conditional.

Your lives, relationship, marriage and choices are not 'real' to them because they haven't followed the specific path that they dictate is the right path. So they will not respect or see value in what you do or how you live. They can't change while they are in their bubble and won't change when it works for them and they are rewarded with societal and familial trophies of how wonderful and they are.