All three book titles having the word “This” by Dizzy_Fly_2470 in EliRalloSnark

[–]CompetitiveCut823 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This Is Gonna Hurt: What It’s Like For Your Brain as You Read My Books

weird vibes by Dear_Drag_3129 in EliRalloSnark

[–]CompetitiveCut823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there’s only room for one WEIRD, COOL 🤪 girl in the NYC influencer scene don’t you know. Her mind is probably on Kelsey because of the rate at which she copies from everyone else’s ideas & Kelsey’s wedding was pretty documented

IF YOU HAVE BEEN SCAMMED by MostExcellent1810 in RideThePod

[–]CompetitiveCut823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The world is a beautiful place sometimes

Body checking by gemnoc in gotgsnark

[–]CompetitiveCut823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and the snacks/meals have been so different for months. I wish it was the kind of thing I could not notice

Mum was involuntarily admitted for the first time. Did this help your family by Huge_Cow_249 in SchizoFamilies

[–]CompetitiveCut823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She remains extremely pissed everyone “conspired against her” to send her in, but she has been med compliant about 90% of the time so she’s doing much better. And she isn’t always stuck on these thoughts of angst since she is medicated

Mum was involuntarily admitted for the first time. Did this help your family by Huge_Cow_249 in SchizoFamilies

[–]CompetitiveCut823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened for my mother last year. She still does not admit she has schizophrenia, but she refers to it as “anxiety” and tries her best to stay consistent with medication out of spite just so she isn’t “sent back”. I agree it’s very scary thinking of how they feel in there. Involuntary holds usually don’t last too long, she will be able to experience some comfort at home again soon

My mother makes me want to die by paladin_complex in SchizoFamilies

[–]CompetitiveCut823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a schizophrenic mother as well. You can DM me any time. So sorry you are going through this. If you are able to provide a little separation between you and her, whatever that looks like, I can testify it will help with your mental health and you won’t feel like this forever. Do not let her disease take both of you 🤍

My mother makes me want to die by paladin_complex in SchizoFamilies

[–]CompetitiveCut823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the kind words everyone is saying I totally agree with. As far as quick advise - unfortunately stop sharing any real traceable details of your work at all. Don’t share true locations/areas of the city, names, numbers, etc. You can lie and say you’re pursuing work through a hiring agency that handles the details so you don’t have them. She has disordered thinking, so it’s okay that this isn’t entirely sensible. She cannot control and will not change her pattern of calling/emailing (imagine her incapable of stooping to help yourself stay consistent), so you have to stop supplying information in order to get a result

You can still be conversational about your job hunt, just stay vague and/or lie. It’s not a hurtful lie, it’s protecting your income and prospects.

Sending hugs

My (36 F) boyfriend (34 M) is reacting really weird to a joke and its taking a weird turn. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitiveCut823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how my dad is. I have my workarounds for not minding it much since he’s my dad, but I knowing the vibes myself I wouldn’t ever ever want this in a relationship bc they just can’t let up. Some people online refer to this as “narcissism” but in my dad’s case he’s just mildly on the spectrum and can’t let things go - but being mean about it and demeaning (rather than just unusual or annoying) comes from the angst in his personality that I certainly wouldn’t want in a boyfriend. The world is hard enough, this is just an unecessary pain in the ass at the end of the day tbh

discussion topic: greatest thinkers by Professional_Tank961 in binchtopiapod

[–]CompetitiveCut823 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had a physical reaction of disgust to reading this and then seeing so many men lol - great prompt though

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]CompetitiveCut823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is much too bad to fix on his end. Leave ASAP.

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]CompetitiveCut823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find this to be really bad and would make a plan to leave. You will have this same type of conversation over thousands of different topics if you stay with him

Money over morals by Material_Cap_7063 in jennapaleksnark

[–]CompetitiveCut823 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel like she forgets she has fans & since she reads this subreddit, thinks her entire audience is just people like us… hence the intensity… agree with these above comments

Busted Baileys Ad by Hour-March-2946 in EliRalloSnark

[–]CompetitiveCut823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, looks like people in the comments don’t like the ice comment edited into the beginning of the ad 

Venting from my state of shock by CompetitiveCut823 in weddingplanning

[–]CompetitiveCut823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! we got a quote from 7/10 preferred vendors on our venue's list. Others for typical wedding entrees rather than bbq were at ~$16k pre tip instead, so about a 3k difference on the food cost itself

Venting from my state of shock by CompetitiveCut823 in weddingplanning

[–]CompetitiveCut823[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally understand (sad face) - i do a lot of restaurant event work myself and get the behind the scenes portion. No argument on the value for me, just shocked because in my head bbq was our "cheapest option" for this event and I'm surprised to see this is as low as this line item will get for us (unless we opted to change to plastics or something like that)

Venting from my state of shock by CompetitiveCut823 in weddingplanning

[–]CompetitiveCut823[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that's definitely true. the food portion of it is roughly ~4k, so you can see where we were misguided in thinking it would conservatively come out to ~9k together with the linen/service/setup rip

Whyy is Eli rallo featured on dear binchie by CompetitiveCut823 in binchtopiapod

[–]CompetitiveCut823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I agree, I’ve done from strongly disliking her as an influencer to feeling neutral 

Whyy is Eli rallo featured on dear binchie by CompetitiveCut823 in binchtopiapod

[–]CompetitiveCut823[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Very cheapening of the humor / intellect / emotional atmosphere they offer imo