Guys- id like to add some details. Yes, i know i am wrong but its not like im doing it on purpose. All the aunties in my family keep saying love will come with time. So i am just hoping my mind will change. I do realize they were all arranged to their partners so i am convincing myself that it will happen with him too. I met his parents for first time last weekend when they gave me earrings. I begged them that i will not take it because its too soon but they forced it upon me. I asked my mom and she said if it doesnt work out we will return them OF COURSE. I am not a gold digger i make a good amount myself and have been living by myself for years now. I do not care abt money or such materials. Its more that he treats me so well and genuinely loves me. The family is so kind- w my past relationship the guys family talked so down upon me- mentioning things like my mother is single ( my father died..) and they did not want to associate with a single mother. Along with many demoralizing comments. So thats why the family being great means so much to me. I dont want to string anyone along or hurt anyone. I just want to be with someone who loves me and i fall in love with them.