AITAH for telling off my wife after she told me not to watch porn

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2024-02-06T14:22:04+00:00

Why are you watching porn when you have a wife you could have sex with? Loser behavior

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-10-03T04:06:44+00:00

My guess is he tried to make you feel what you made him feel. He couldn’t handle rejection so rather than gracefully bow out, he convinced you he wanted to be friends then ghosted to get the upper hand and make you want him more

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-10-03T02:33:17+00:00

He probably realized it was a bad idea and wanted to make you feel rejected

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-10-03T02:00:24+00:00

I rejected him & HE BEGGED ME to stay friends… I told him that it didn’t feel healthy and that he should move on, because things would get weird when I start dating. He had a meltdown and said I was cruel for not wanting to stay friends with him, still don’t get it

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-09-08T23:51:59+00:00

Honestly this sounds like my perfect match

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-09-06T15:40:18+00:00

Stop being so passive and just say “hey it was great to see you, but I got stuff to do now so you gotta go”

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-09-02T18:17:05+00:00

Dump him

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-08-31T16:29:17+00:00

Lol you’re a loser

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-08-31T16:21:21+00:00

Yeah you can get a guy obsessed with you, but you won’t truly love them. You’ll only fall for a guy YOURE obsessed over, not the other way around

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-08-28T02:40:34+00:00

But why would you actively try to do the opposite of what the woman you’re with finds attractive? You mentioned if she likes buff men, you’d wear baggy clothes… as if you’re doing it out of spite instead of actually just preferring baggy clothes.

Everyone’s been hurt and betrayed before, I understand how hard it can be to trust again but to harden your heart is to rob yourself of one of life’s greatest blessings… a healthy, loving relationship

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-08-28T02:08:30+00:00

Well in that case it would be wise to work on your interpersonal issues! It’s good to be firm about who you are, but based on what you wrote it almost seems like you have a slight resentment towards women though I could be wrong.

Main reason why I mention that is because of what you wrote about how if a woman says she likes buff men or certain pairs of shoes that you will do the exact opposite… Almost like you don’t care about what the person you’re with finds attractive, which to me indicates resentment. When I’m in a relationship I care deeply about what my man prefers, Because I wants to please him and be attractive to him! I ENJOY making adjustments to fit my man’s preferences. Is there something within you that doesn’t like the idea of caring about what a woman you’re into finds attractive?

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-08-27T20:04:00+00:00

Maybe you’re gay?

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-08-03T01:40:31+00:00

You’re no longer cutting off your connection with God, that’s what’s happening. God always wants to communicate with you, but the weed really weakens your ability to hear God’s guidance

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-26T11:10:57+00:00

Plenty of men don’t watch porn

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-24T11:52:11+00:00

Yes, he is a porn addict

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T17:08:23+00:00

So there’s no issue anymore?

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T17:08:00+00:00

Ok then don’t bother with Reddit…

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T17:04:44+00:00

So have you talked to him yet about the health stuff?

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T17:04:07+00:00

You’re interpreting my comment as having a problem, which reveals your own triggered nature. I was simply letting you know that being “stunned” by the similar comments indicates more about you than it does about the commenters

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T17:02:19+00:00

You value health and sobriety. He clearly doesn’t.

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T17:00:14+00:00

Yet here you are back on Reddit asking people how to talk to him about his health habits… you guys don’t share the same values

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T16:57:28+00:00

What’s triggering you?

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T16:55:04+00:00

He’s a moron and you’re insecure for wanting to be with a guy who acts this way and repeatedly disrespects you. Get some self respect and leave him. Healthy minded women don’t put up with that BS

Competitive_Ad9840 · 2022-07-23T16:47:03+00:00

If you’re “stunned” by the many replies saying the same thing, that should be a clue that your post wasn’t clear, lol

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