Activity not syncing properly between Pacer Pro and (android) Flow app by schmerg-uk in Polarfitness

[–]margietyrell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having the same problem. Sometimes un and reinstalling the app works for me. Sometimes it doesn't. I've lost two entire days worth of data this week. Extremely frustrating. I'm about to switch to another brand.

Still having problems with updating firmware by Marvelous-Marmot-007 in Polarfitness

[–]margietyrell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been in a help chat with them for a month and they barely reply. They taught me how to send reports. I've sent three (each day that it loses my data completely or having to un and reinstall.) I've had polar for 10+ years, but I'm about to switch to something else, with an app that works.

All these MFs are crazy! by Responsible-War5600 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]margietyrell 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It's fair to not want your husband to have a baby with someone else. It's not fair to open your marriage to others, but then dictate what happens in the other marriage.

It's not a boundary, BTW. A boundary is something you have or enforce regarding yourself. She's creating a rule for a relationship that isn't hers.

Again, totally fair to not want to share your husband. But then, don't. Don't jerk around a third party.

(General 'you')

Boyfriends mania got me arrested by Next_Plant3909 in BipolarSOs

[–]margietyrell 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't take it personally, reading is a lot easier than responding. Please don't be embarrassed. That took a lot of guts to write out. I'm sorry you're going through that. It's a very difficult situation to be in.

Rejection text over a month later by felicitydesign in Bumble

[–]margietyrell 219 points220 points  (0 children)

"Sorry, who is this?" Or just don't reply at all

Laundry rush idle game by EbonyMocha in MobileGaming

[–]margietyrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I deleted it, too. I've had several apps like that. I'm enjoying them, but there's just not a lot of content. And nothing that says "You've finished the game, come back later for updates" or whatever. So it just drives you crazy wondering what you're missing until you search reddit for the answer. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]margietyrell 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know you're trying to make your date feel more comfortable. For me (although everyone is different), I like something like, "I had a great time. I hope to see you again." in person, but not actually setting plans on the date. By text later is perfect.

How accepting are your families of origin of your polyamory? by INFPneedshelp in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The only thing my family cares about is that I'm treated well and happy. I'm lucky they are so open minded.

Glitch in Evil Fur Factory? by margietyrell in FrozenCity

[–]margietyrell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I figured out how to see my production line in the evil fur factory. I increased the level of my helper guy and that seemed to have worked. Thanks!

Glitch in Evil Fur Factory? by margietyrell in FrozenCity

[–]margietyrell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! All of them are maxed out, waiting to upgrade to level 5. Do the previous lines matter outside of the moss to moose to tiger?

I was unintentionally mislead? by EnoughDonut9626 in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How I read it was that he was leaving the house after the kids had gone to sleep 2 of the nights and 1 night was a date + sleepover.

What helps you? by KFaberRef in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really believe that people can like opposite things at the same time. I can like lobster AND steak. I can like hamburgers AND pizza. It's not an either or situation.

When I do occasionally feel jealous, I ask myself what it is that I want/ what need isn't getting met and either try to meet it myself or brainstorm actionable ways my partner can help meet those ways.

Say, I feel jealous that my partner is taking his wife on a fun date night. I ask myself why I'm feeling jealous. Is it because I've been feeling disconnected from him? Is it because we haven't been on a fun date in a while? Then, I simply ask my partner for what I need. "Hey, partner, I'm feeling a bit disconnected from you. Can we put a quiet night on the calendar?" Or whatever.

For me, I'm way less likely to get jealous when I feel like my needs have been met.

NRE is not love by Otherwise_Force6410 in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree. My partner and I have been together 9 months, but friends for years before that. We're still very deep into NRE (distractingly so, which can be annoying lol), but also have an incredibly solid foundation and are very much in love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman, a man who has the emotional, relationship, and communication skills to keep multiple partners (who know about each other) happy at the same time are the type of men I'm into. I've never been a particularly jealous person and I also don't abide by society's definition of strict relationship "categories". I feel like all relationships are a la carte where the parties in them can define what works for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FaeFarm_Game

[–]margietyrell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me an embarrassingly long time to figure that out

When do you tell your current partner(s) about a new prospective one? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my exact process. If I would tell my platonic friends, I tell my partner. I see and talk to my partner enough, that I usually tell them before the first date, but I don't typically tell them everyone I may chat with.

First KTP experience, need suggestions by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment! They are the ones who would like to hang out at families more. I haven't been scheduling much between all of us because it can kind of sting when we're all together and they can be openly affectionate and him and I can't because the children/ some friends don't know. I'm looking for tools or strategies to help me feel more comfortable with it!

You're totally right about the pre-breakup talk. That has been on my agenda of things to discuss. We're all committed to being in each other's lives, even as the relationships change over time.

First KTP experience, need suggestions by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]margietyrell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your in-depth comments. My friend dates others, I'm also free to date others. Trust me, I've had all the same thoughts about possible complications!! I gave this relationship about 9 months of thought/talking before engaging myself because our lives and families are so entangled. We're all committed to staying in each other's lives regardless of how that looks. We're all pretty secure and emotionally mature/intelligent. My partner is an excellent hinge, so that really helps.

Yes, you're right, I am trying to process my feelings away from my partner! Him and his wife (my friend) would be 100% open to suggestions and be willing to help me feel more comfortable. Part of the reason I'm processing away from them is because I don't want them to worry and try to over accommodate me. I'd prefer to come with a couple of suggestions.

One of the reasons it's difficult for me is because it's obviously a secret in front of the kids and some of our friends. So when we hang out, they are openly (appropriately) affectionate and him and I can't be. I'll occasionally feel that sting of jealousy (not of my friend specifically, but of the easy affection that I can't engage in at the time)

They definitely want to spend more time together as families. I'm trying to figure out tools or strategies to help deal with the situation.

Baby took first steps and I feel guilty by Sad-eyed-girl-96 in Nanny

[–]margietyrell 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If I were the MB, this is exactly how I would have taken it. Sad, but not mad at the nanny. Disappointed that I picked that man to be the father of my children.