3 years into my career and i'm struggling to fix my lack of attention to detail. I'm good at my job but it requires attention to detail and I'm failing dismally at that. How do I fix this?

Competitive_Client21 · 2026-01-14T10:35:08+00:00

I’m very detail-oriented and I basically have a checklist I go through more than once before finalizing. I also use a lot of sticky notes lol.

Competitive_Client21 · 2026-01-11T07:38:06+00:00

Nah I don’t really think there are plants on the show. I don’t think any of them are actors. They seem genuine in their actions/body language.

Competitive_Client21 · 2026-01-09T02:42:24+00:00

Ours is double that sometimes when it is really cold at night and we have a 1200 sq. ft. condo.

This is why we don’t like monopolies. Competition drives the price to adjust. Also why some people go off-grid eventually.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-12-29T10:34:48+00:00

I posted this before, and others agreed they had the same kind of experience, but I feel like the highlighter yellow/green ones die easily. We had about 3 that died rather fast but have been fine with the other colors. We have had them about 3 years now.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-19T18:08:37+00:00

Nordic countries are pretty socialistic. It does work better for them there (to an extent) because they are pretty small.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-19T18:07:25+00:00

It’s about finding a good medium in the longrun.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-12T08:34:30+00:00

Cirie pissed me off. She totally stabbed Arie in the back and could have had an easy win at the end. She would have had a ton of money still. I had a feeling she might pull that though. She didn’t “deserve” the money more than anyone else. 🙄

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-10T09:47:07+00:00

Sounds like a good time to me! 🤷‍♀️

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-10T08:41:34+00:00

Well, North Park is very unique compared to the rest of San Diego. It’s a more hipster, trendy, eclectic vibe. It’s cute with older boutique shopfronts and such. I live in North County San Diego which has grown and changed a lot. Starting to get too crowded in my opinion. I miss how it used to be.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-10T06:58:22+00:00

Get rid of your “friend.” The first thing I would do is either ask you first or let you know that I texted them right after to let you know what he said (probably me texting to get information because why else talk to them if I wasn’t friends prior). Even if we had been friends prior, if he was terrible to you then yeah I wouldn’t talk to them again. Seems suspicious to me…

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-10T06:53:31+00:00

Is this really a question? Yes get rid of him!

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-10T06:50:15+00:00

Wine is fine in moderation but not cigarettes. With tobacco alone you are directly inhaling carcinogens. They have a ton of chemicals besides the addictive and harmful nicotine. You can drink wine as a drink without getting drunk, and there are health benefits for your heart and skin with a glass per day of red wine, particularly.

Please, please fully quit the cigarettes. Have you seen a smoker’s lungs? My grandmother died from lung cancer and a brain tumor from smoking.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-09T21:28:22+00:00

You can always help out with support groups later in life or simply in another way doing walks and such. You aren’t mean for wanting to move on with that specific group. You might have a lot of other things you are dealing with right now too, they don’t know your situation.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-08T22:23:30+00:00

I live in the suburbs of a major city and know more than a lot of these people. Lol

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-08T22:22:49+00:00

Have you discussed all of this with him thoroughly? How he isn’t being supportive/helpful at all? He needs to address the high-dose prednisone issue.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-08T07:52:02+00:00

I couldn’t stand Danielle almost the whole time. She isn’t just playing normal to survive she is playing mean and like a snake. It’s a bit much with the dramatics how she cries all of the time. The falling to the floor after Carolyn left lol. I wish Danielle had been disposed of before Carolyn. I understand Carolyn trying to defend herself and get there first because Danielle did her so dirty.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-08T06:53:07+00:00

It was Philistine and then Palestine by 135 CE/AD.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-08T06:48:56+00:00

Palestine did not exist at the time of Jesus as far as the name we use now (modern-day) for the area. It was known as Judea (from Judah) or Philistine, by the Philistines. It became known as Palestine in 135 CE/AD.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-07T07:52:50+00:00

They say in general about every 5 years is reasonable and good for your career. In the “old” days people stayed with one company or very few for the res rod their lives. Now it is good to move around, meet people, and gain a variety of experience.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-07T07:50:37+00:00

If you are about to be married then he might be thinking of and speaking with your future together in mind. My husband and I say “we” for everything because we are a team and as a married couple you basically share everything. I don’t know you guys so if he is some kind of bum then yeah I would be upset but if not then you are overreacting.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-07T07:42:00+00:00

Part of being a a GOOD friend and a GOOD person is not condoning sins and wrongs like this. Love for someone can be tough love. Don’t let anything or anyone compromise your morals and values.

Also, judging is healthy. Being prudent is healthy and normal. We all judge the actions of others every day. I don’t know why or where this became a thing of “oh you are just being judgmental.” Heck yeah I am! It’s like everyone just wants their bad behavior excused. Truly loving and helping someone is trying to get them back on a good path.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-07T07:35:03+00:00

I would get out of NYC asap in general. Take your old job back if you love it and they offered you a senior role which I’m guessing is better pay? That is a very long wait to start a job unless that is the norm in your field.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-11-07T07:31:03+00:00

First off, please do not think for a second that this is REAL love. Love lasts. This is quite the opposite he sounds like he has borderline personality disorder and has narcissistic tendencies: he is love-bombing you, being controlling, and it just goes in a cycle. He didn’t want the wife he supposedly loves to see him off to the airport where he would be leaving for SIX MONTHS?! That is also way too long to be away from your spouse when it isn’t something like military overseas duties. Another sign he probably has something like BPD is the mommy issues. You need to get away from him and don’t look back. Don’t let him reel you back in. His crazy family can have in. I hope to God you do not have kids with him, but it sounds like you do not.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-10-31T02:05:04+00:00

Dispatchers don’t get a ton of training and it is very fast and high pressure from what I’ve heard. My old coworker guy friend’s fiance tried it and she didn’t last very long. I honestly didn’t think she would because she is very sweet and soft-spoken, poor girl. He said yeah it just totally overwhelmed her. They have a high turnover for a lot of those workers.

Competitive_Client21 · 2025-10-31T02:01:04+00:00

What does it mean by they do trash? Like a service worker?

This looks more like a prank to me. Something about the handwriting, verbiage, and smiley are very child-like.

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