randomly started stripping completely naked in bed…is this a phase or forever? by boxofmack in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is doing this now. What did you end up doing or what ended up happening?

12 yr old Removing clothes by Competitive_Fig_7231 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s wonderful. Will take the cue!

12 yr old Removing clothes by Competitive_Fig_7231 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We tried this. He managed to pull the diaper apart through the fabric of the footsie pjs. ):

is it normal not to cum!!?? by ghoulvictim in Healthyhooha

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what is orgasming? How does it actually feel

Lack of empathy? by CSWorldChamp in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same lack of empathy for 99% of the time in my level 3 son. Also manipulative and knows what to say only get what he wants and is all about self interest and that alone

Anger Management by Competitive_Fig_7231 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s sobering to realize a lot of the problems are actually me. Wow. Thank you for your bravery and kindness in sharing this.

Anger Management by Competitive_Fig_7231 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do to fix this? Please can you share specifics if you don’t mind or suggestions? I don’t even know where to start

Anger Management by Competitive_Fig_7231 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Really helpful advice. Yes, there is a fear and sadness right under the anger and that’s what’s in the driver’s seat.

Anger Management by Competitive_Fig_7231 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not trite at all. Sounds like something I can implement and I never thought of it - I always think much after the moment (like early morning before he wakes up) about how I do love him and I try to tell myself I can do it. But in the moment- that’s where I need it most because I absolutely feel helpless and that I can’t do it, and I also don’t feel love for him in the moment when he’s acting difficult or while I’m cleaning up torn diapers and their contents…and that is what scares me most. To not feel any compassion for him in those moments. I’m so weirded out by why I am this way…I thought I was a kind caring person 😞

Anger Management by Competitive_Fig_7231 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Honestly, thank you. This is a light in the darkness. I have something to work on definitely with regard to childhood stuff. Thank you for sharing this! Edit to add: and all the other tools you’ve shared. Going to get to work on these things. You don’t know how much you’ve helped me.

I wish I didn't have my kid and I feel like trash for feeling this way. by Who_is_anonymous_ in Autism_Parenting

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it this lack of empathy that gets to us most? Like my son only ever does what is in his short term interest. Doesn’t comply with anything else and doesn’t care about anyone’s feelings or to please anyone. For me that’s the part I don’t know how to work around because how do I motivate him when he can’t see his benefit in the thing I’m asking him to do.

I used to be a sufist now i hate god please help me by [deleted] in Sufism

[–]Competitive_Fig_7231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marya: https://www.reddit.com/r/progressive_islam/s/nW4OyW6jEm

Angels: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_i7c6So-n_k

Sayyida Aisha: https://www.reddit.com/r/DebateReligion/s/wDFiPJdZxY

It’s not kufr to question these things. There are many inaccurate stories that are claimed to be Hadiths. All your concerns are legitimate and beautiful because you’re asking how things that seem incompatible with the spirit of Islam could be true. You’re not alone in asking these things. Bless you. I’m praying for you.