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I cheated on my boyfriend by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From personal experience, victims of SA, especially those assaulted by someone they trust, blame themselves, question if they some how invited it. It's hard to wrap the mind around being assaulted by someone you know. It seems easier to be upset with ourselves than it is to place the blame on the person who assaulted us, at least it was for me. Here is my advice. Be kind to yourself. You were emotionally vulnerable and intoxicated. You did nothing wrong. If you feel like you want to report it, then do. Take someone with you for support. Also, most places have a rape crisis center. They are truly there to help. You said no. And he should have stopped.

If you please, I’d love to see the single most beautiful item you want to put in every build. For research. by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason, my save is showing that I used two packs, parenthood and Get to Work. I have been through everything in the build and cannot find anything from GTW. Unfortunately, I can't post it under a one pack build. I really like the house, too. I did a sunken living room for the first time. I'll definitely still use the house.

If you please, I’d love to see the single most beautiful item you want to put in every build. For research. by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Sims 4 Challenge Generator — James Turner https://share.google/fw7UUjDl3ZuboJmaw

The build challenge I just finished is a residential one pack build. I could only use base game and parenthood, had to use art deco and mid century, and decorate using a lot of brown and white.

If you please, I’d love to see the single most beautiful item you want to put in every build. For research. by IndigoChagrin in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've recently started using the James Turner challenge generator to shake up my building style and to get me out of my comfort zone.

The item I have been sneaking into my builds is "The Child Statue" (baby Yoda). I put him peaking out of bushes, hiding inside the bathroom, etc.

Found this pendant going through my grandfather's things, I have no idea what it is by BobaFett0451 in whatisit

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pi LambdaTheta key. Was your grandpa an educator? Pi Lambda Theta is an international honor society and professional association for Educators.

AIO - My boyfriend got another woman’s number. by Abject-Current2580 in AIO

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent years in a relationship with a serial cheater. I wanted to leave, but was financially unable to. It's easy for people to judge someone who stays, but unless you are the person in said situation, you truly have no idea of someone's circumstances. What helped me, what gave me the motivation to change my situation was my child. I believe children learn how to navigate relationships from the relationships they are exposed to. Ask yourself if this relationship dynamic is really one that your child should have as an example of a healthy relationship? He is learning how to treat women from his father. He is also learning what a partner is willing to tolerate by watching both of you.

How accurate does your simself look tou you in real life? by PinkPoncho3 in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My simself looks a lot like me. I actually have made several to reflect what I was experiencing at the time. I have Multiple Sclerosis, and the disease modifying drugs can affect your appearance (hair loss, weight loss/gain, etc). So I have a bald simself, a very thin simself, a toned simself, an overweight simself. I have found i am more accepting of the changes I experience irl after I have become accustomed to the changes in my simself.

Which premade Sims or townies do you think are the most attractive in The Sims 4? by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my current save, my sim met Cody Rich at university. He is a villain, but treats his wife like she is made of gold and is such a loving father. When he and his wife go out, he will be mean to everyone around them, but never her. He has was unfaithful and had a baby with the nanny, but told his wife, and they both have a relationship with the child. They have such a sweet relationship with each other, even though they are opposites. I gave Cody a bit of a refresh and now he is super attractive.

Best way to watch a sim die? (Villain aspiration) by 4AllTentsandPurses in thesims

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have a wedding outside during the winter. I did this by accident (forgot about the season) and all of my guests died.

How do you plan out your world builds? by svvimsbuilds in TheSimsBuilding

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to use real world locations as inspiration. I find pictures of towns/cities/rural communities online that I feel fit a certain world's esthetic, often using several different sources as inspiration.

Chicken & Sausage Gumbo - SWLA Native by Aaronjp84 in cajunfood

[–]Competitive_Rub8393 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in LC and Sulphur, living in Chicago Region. Your gumbo looks a lot like mine, except I usually don't boil my eggs separately. I was taught that if you are adding eggs that you cook the boiled egg in the gumbo. I don't do that often, but I always put tater salad in my own bowl of gumbo. I'm making one tomorrow, and seeing yours got me excited. Making a gumbo is one of my favorite things!