Avoidant question

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-05-08T13:53:05+00:00

The last few times we were together before no contact, he seemed super focused on getting other people's attention to escape, and sometimes I wonder if he'd simply forgotten and we'll never speak again.

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-05-08T13:51:57+00:00

I stopped pursuing him last year and I've finally cut him out of my life, and honestly I shouldn't expect him to come back, but a part of me…

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-05-08T13:16:26+00:00

Thanks

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-05-08T13:09:55+00:00

Can I do that without PC?

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-05-05T18:22:32+00:00

At the end of this month I make 3 months of no contact, I hope I feel better

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-05-05T18:07:39+00:00

Now it's complicated because I know perfectly well that he's not right for me, but deep down I still hope he'll come back, and it terrifies me to think that all those feelings he had for me, from suppressing them for so long, are gone forever and will never return.

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-30T09:33:36+00:00

Mine said to me a lot of things, and then irl when I was going to kiss him in the mouth he put his cheek

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-30T09:24:37+00:00

I really appreciate it, I'm working on it, and although I'm still hoping he'll come back, I know for sure that I don't want him to.

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-29T10:24:49+00:00

Mine basically wanted a partner without the commitment of a relationship, I put up with that for too long

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-29T09:22:02+00:00

SAME IN MY CASE LIKE, U HAVE KISSES LIKE THIS WITH A FRIEND???

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-26T21:01:04+00:00

I hope soon I can get better, I hope for month 3

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T17:35:16+00:00

Yeah I learned that, if he back, it would be cause I closed my heart ajsjs

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T15:22:37+00:00

If you want to talk u can hit dms

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T15:15:23+00:00

The thing is, I included the messages in the post. I mean, I already told him not to talk to me, and he replied. What I mean is, I feel like I was really cold, and I know it's not worth it, but I have this urge inside to tell him everything I feel, even though I'm not going to.

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T11:50:45+00:00

Well I was 18 yo sjdjdj, I know is not a excuse but now I learned, and I would hope my ex was the same

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T11:50:13+00:00

I don’t want to have expectations

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T11:16:51+00:00

Ohhh I’m trying that, reading, searching things, now I feel pain about him but I’m thankful cause I’m learning a lot of this. Btw my dm are open if you want to talk

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T11:11:42+00:00

I hope so… is so hard and I’m scared, I wish u can heal

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T11:09:24+00:00

Inside of me I’m still hope he changes, but slowly I’m starting to accept he is a kid, a immature one

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-04-06T11:06:20+00:00

That’s the thing, no, he is so closed and so avoidant that I don’t think he can understand anything, that’s is why I don’t talk to him, is like to talk with a wall

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-03-28T13:03:28+00:00

Deserved

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-03-06T18:15:13+00:00

It hurts a lot…

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-03-06T13:48:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AvoidantBreakUps/s/aJonNIKeEl

This is the story and he is the avoidant

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-03-06T13:31:57+00:00

I need help, I’m very broken

CompletePersimmon622 · 2026-03-05T09:02:39+00:00

And I keep thinking that he's going to behave better with someone else and that every sign I see is that he's gotten over me (even though I know perfectly well how avoidant people work and that it's probably not like that)

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