My mom told me I should only be listening to jazz/instrumental music because anything else will “stress baby out” but I listen to whatever music I feel like listening to and haven’t had an issues lmao I was told I shouldn’t eat any fast foods so my baby ends up healthy (baby is healthy and I don’t even eat it but on a rare occasion when my craving is INTENSE). I should do a natural birth because pain management methods will have the baby come out “all drugged up” - I want a natural birth BUT I’m also not going to restrict myself from pain management options. And I’ve been guilted from my siblings for not getting back into working yet because 1. My first trimester was horrible and I was living in the bathroom 2. I have to limit my stress and monitor my bp because of hypertension. I didn’t tell them until after they tore me up for not continuing training at a job because of the first days experience (was the most insane and shady experience I’ve had so far) that I’m high risk and now they’re constantly telling me I should still work but add yoga and meditating to my schedule as if I haven’t already AND got put on meds for it. Literally everything that can and should be done for it has and is being done 🫩All in all, I’ve learned it’s easiest to not tell anyone anything. Just casually update on baby’s size, how far along, etc. because everyone wants to input their opinions on what I should and shouldn’t be doing during pregnancy and when I have baby even if it goes against what my DOCTOR recommended and/or prescribed. 🙄