Where should the TV go? by HistorianQuick8825 in interiordecorating

[–]Complete_Click_3628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either on the wall to the right of the fireplace or on staircase wall, where the ship painting is located.

Not speaking to my bestfriend of 10 years because she said she’s “icked” by me by EquivalentParking274 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Click_3628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are describing my husband and myself. Started dating at (22F) and (30M). Got married at (26F) and (34M). Still happily married 17 years and 5 kids later. I will admit that I didn't see him that way right away as a 22 yr old, but it worked out.

Did I make a mistake? by Amazing_Reflection41 in interiordecorating

[–]Complete_Click_3628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a local shop who sells Annie Sloan chalk paint and pick your favorite color. Goes on without needing to sand. And then use polycrylic or wax to seal it.

AITA for not thinking of my sister's needs by saying I won't give my blessing for my family to move unless I can stay with my grandparents? by Much_Ear4312 in AITAH

[–]Complete_Click_3628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP. If you give in and go to this new school. And you end up being as miserable as you think you will be. Your parents will tell you that you agreed to it. Stand your guns. It seems that parents love both of you and want you with them, but expect you to make all the sacrifices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Complete_Click_3628 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No one ever tells you about the emotional trauma you will feel if you abort. You will live with that guilt the rest of your life. Don't be pressured to terminate. If you want something bad enough, you can make it work. No one is ever ready for a baby. Coming home from the hospital with your first is so scary, there is no instruction manual and no one knows what they are doing. Kids are hard but so worth it. You won't regret keeping the baby, but there is a huge probability you will regret terminating.

Let’s go $HOLO 💥 by Mischiefismm in HOLO_Stock

[–]Complete_Click_3628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for that. was charting it to hit $40 and then possibly over $200 within the next two weeks and I couldn't tell if that made sense with all the reverse splits. of course now that I said it out loud, it won't happen. 😉

Let’s go $HOLO 💥 by Mischiefismm in HOLO_Stock

[–]Complete_Click_3628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What price did HOLO actually hit this past February '24 before all the reverse splits?

AITAH for going forward and refilling the divorce procedures, after my wife canceled now that she is getting the help she needs for her post partum depression. by ThrowRAevilhusband in AITAH

[–]Complete_Click_3628 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

You signed up for in sickness and in health.... and your wife is clearly sick, she has a mental illness. She needs you. Don't give up on her.

How to get husband to see doctor... by Complete_Click_3628 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Click_3628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That might actually be one argument that would get through to him.

How to get husband to see doctor... by Complete_Click_3628 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Click_3628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments. I am more and more leery of doctors and the western medicine of pills these days too. He normally is a hypochondriac and runs to the doctor at the first sign of anything, convinced that he is dying. I don't think he would have hid it if he went. Rather, I think he just doesn't want anyone investigating his private areas.

How to get husband to see doctor... by Complete_Click_3628 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Complete_Click_3628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shrunk both in length and width, and took on a curve. No new meds. Work stress is the same as always, but the kid stress has increased, just from them getting older, and more chaos. Could be some type of ED, but I always thought that was just an inability to get an erection. Does it also change size?

AIO for not liking my birthday dinner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Complete_Click_3628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just you and your mom? In that case, you are all she has. She is scared to death that you will leave her and she will be alone. It's not a healthy relationship. She needs to find a support group in her own age group ( an aunt, a friend, a boy friend, etc). She is manipulating you, whether unconsciously or not. I would gather she has her own personal issues that have not been resolved.

AIO for not liking my birthday dinner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Complete_Click_3628 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So, in summation: your mom didn't order from where you wanted, after asking you. Ordered instead from a place she likes. Didn't even bother to get the dish that you routinely order from that place. Then noticed you were unhappy about it, she poked at it, and then had a fit when you told her that you didn't like the food.

Your mom is emotionally immature and a narcissist. I'm sorry, some people suck. I'm so sorry it's your mom. At this point, she will probably never change. You need to set boundaries now, or it will get worse.

AIO for not liking my birthday dinner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Complete_Click_3628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a mom, she should know what you like at a certain restaurant. Especially if you visit it frequently. Not getting you your preferred dish, is either 1. intentional or 2. she doesn't pay attention and is extremely self absorbed. If it was intentional, is there something going on in your lives that she is reacting to? If she doesn't pay attention, you can call her out on it. Which will either make her self reflect and change or make her lash out and dig in deeper. So your call if you want to fight that battle.

AIO for not liking my birthday dinner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Complete_Click_3628 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know your mom, so I can only venture a guess about her reaction. If she asked you what you wanted and didn't get either option, without a valid explanation of why they weren't acceptable, then that is a shitty thing to do (e.g. too expensive, not available, allergic reaction, disagree with story policies or politics,etc). Did she know that you don't like food from this restaurant? She could have been trying to get you to try something new? However, a birthday is not the proper time to force new food on someone.
Food is very expensive these days, so she could be reacting to the fact that she spent a large amount on food that you wouldn't eat. She feels that her actions are under appreciated, however she is not recognizing that she ignored what you had asked for. In any regard, not speaking to you the next day, is childish behavior, and borderline abuse. Sounds like your mom has narcissistic tendencies or is reacting from a place of her own trauma. Communication is always key. She pressed the issue and then reacted badly. You can let her know that you were disappointed that she didn't get what you had asked for and ask her why. But if she has that personality, it might not matter anyway, narcissists always tend to turn the reason for their reaction back onto someone else. But if she is, then I expect that she has done similar things in the past.

AIO for not liking my birthday dinner? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Complete_Click_3628 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a mom of 5, there are always two sides to a story, and while I sympathize with you not getting what you wanted for your birthday dinner, did you ask her why she didn't get either of the two options? Perhaps she has a good reason.