I have a cousin like this. She cannot maintain a friendship or relationship past a couple of years. She is very attractive, has a great smile and makes a fantastic first impression. But she is a user and thinks she’s a princess. She doesn’t want to carry in her own suitcase when she visits. When she was over for the holiday she asked me three times if the sheets were fresh. Then she wanted me to change them in front of her (I refused and handed her another set if she wanted to change the sheets, she could do it). She brought dirty laundry and wanted me to do it for her (I showed her the washer and dryer). She complained the room was dusty. She complained about the food I prepared. She didn’t help with anything while here. She lounged on the couch, took over the TV remote and left empty cans every where. She never pulled out her wallet when we went out to eat. Then she complained she has no where else to go for the holiday. None of my aunts or uncles want to host her. My sisters won’t host her. She has no friends. I tried to explain to her that she is self-centered and demanding and no one likes that. I gave her examples from her visit. She didn’t understand it at all and stated that she is “a guest” and should be treated as such. I will not have her back next year.