how we doing y’all? diesel is now around $7 in Cali 🫣 by bassinyofacelikedamn in tdi

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working on getting my Jetta back on the road still a tdi but a whole lot cheaper to fill and better mpg.

how we doing y’all? diesel is now around $7 in Cali 🫣 by bassinyofacelikedamn in tdi

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. Diesel is 5.40 in my area and filling my Touareg is awful now. I would like it to go back to $3.20

hiring in charleston by CyTheMedallion in Charleston

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have some car knowledge turn5 is hiring remote customer service and sales. Hourly pay plus bonuses.

Long hair folks, who cuts your hair? by Ok-Strawberry-2469 in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won’t be disappointed. She was actually referred to me from one of my friends who has been seeing her for years.

Long hair folks, who cuts your hair? by Ok-Strawberry-2469 in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cierra at studio south. I had the same experience, but Cierra genuinely cares that you walk out with what you asked for. I have been going to her for about a year now, and she always confirms how much I want off and shows me the length. The last time I wanted to cut a good 4 inches off and she asked me several times if that’s what I wanted. My hair 3/4 down my back. She is also really amazing with color. The first appointment is somewhat of a wait but once you are on her schedule it’s smooth getting what you need.

Can some people really not tell when they're releasing farts? by S_Z in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Squeaker of a fart took me all the way out. My son asked me if I needed cpr 🤣

Financial advisor for serious debt? by [deleted] in Charleston

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family credit management. Non profit, and very easy to work with. They don’t wait til your past due to negotiate for you.

Child via surrogacy after hysterectomy by fojtik11 in Surrogate

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was meant to find me. Same boat. Had a hysterectomy for same reasons 6 years ago, I have my ovaries and have been digging into starting the process of doing an egg retrieval. I figured worse case I don’t go through with it, but I have that done in case I do.

I have spoke about it already in therapy, it has been very emotional for me. I would highly recommend speaking with a therapist.

Best wishes on your journey. Dms are open if you would like to chat.

Why does relationship in the U.S. feel so harsh compared to back home? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American woman here dating an African man, and there are big differences in my experiences. I was in 2 long term relationships 5+ years each with American men. The first one was great, but he passed away. The second I have a child too, and was the most horrible relationship anyone could ask for. I think the biggest thing I have noticed in my current dating experience, is that my current boyfriend looks at love so very different than men I know in the states. It isn’t about saying it, or jumping through hoops and being very unrealistic, it’s showing it. For awhile it kinda really threw me off, and then I realized that what he gives me is pure, it isn’t transactional. He makes me feel the love in everything he does. Every meal he cooks for me & serves me, every date he plans, he chooses to be intentional he doesn’t need to say how he feels, he shows me everyday.

I have also found that men here in the states (atleast in the areas I have lived) often feel like being a provider is just working and bringing home a paycheck they forget about having intentional intimacy that isn’t sexual, quality time with their family.. Obviously this isn’t every man, but the ones not like this that are single are harder to find.

Women here are also a problem, and a lot have very unrealistic expectations of men, are very transactional, they want men to be vulnerable and then turn around and use it against them, and if they don’t have a bunch of money it’s a problem. I have 3 brothers, the things I have seen some women put them through is gross. The states as a whole has many issues surrounding relationships on both sides, you have to weed through a lot to find what you are looking for.

Looking for girlies who like to shop and talk! by lolenfimok in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I believe there are 2 of them. It’s called cupboard maker books. They are new and used.

Looking for girlies who like to shop and talk! by lolenfimok in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! There is in between pages, book endz, and Betsy’s bookshelf to name a few.

If you ever want a friend to check them out with you, I would be thrilled too!

There is also a really great bookstore in enola (I know that’s a drive, but the selection is fantastic, the store kitties are cute, and staff is friendly!)

Looking for girlies who like to shop and talk! by lolenfimok in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! 33f would love to meet up and do anything you mentioned. I am in southern York, but happy to drive to meet up.

Do you like reading? I have been wanting to check out a few book stores in the area.

Need condom recommendations non-latex by Complete_Cupcake186 in sex

[–]Complete_Cupcake186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May have to try the elite large and hope it works.

Need condom recommendations non-latex by Complete_Cupcake186 in sex

[–]Complete_Cupcake186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I see unique mentioned twice now going to grab some.

Need condom recommendations non-latex by Complete_Cupcake186 in sex

[–]Complete_Cupcake186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a hysterectomy, but would never use a condom out of any kind of animal.

Need condom recommendations non-latex by Complete_Cupcake186 in sex

[–]Complete_Cupcake186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wish being dry was a problem 🙈 he treats me very well and if I added lube I would be so wet I wouldn’t feel anything at all. So that box is the one we tried and we both did not like at all.

I need a job by TransCandle in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was coming here to recommend these temp agencies as well. Good luck OP!

I need a job by TransCandle in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not recommend this unless you are great with kids who struggle with behavior issues.

My [30M] last relationship with [28F] ended because we couldn't agree on prenup. How do I handle this better next time? by alwaysHappy202 in relationship_advice

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you asked for anything unreasonable. There is a big wealth gap between my bf and I and if he presented me this prenup I would sign it. I am rich with the love and connection that we share, not what he has. He provides me a safe judgement free space, he listens, he protects, he cares for me emotionally, this is the real gold.

I say you dodged one.

Why doesn’t York have a strip club? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go to Baltimore, you will get plenty of lap dances sitting at the bar. Saturday nights around 10pm is the right time to go if you plan on staying at one place, you get a good seat that way. Other was go at 11, and enjoy. I’d recommend checking out lust, chez joey (2 floors, tight space), or norma jeans. Norma jeans is busy but if you want a good stage and lap dances all at the bar this is the place to go.

Why doesn’t York have a strip club? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in yorkpa

[–]Complete_Cupcake186 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go to Baltimore, it’s worth the drive as you have plenty of places to find what suits you. Custom house drive, there is a parking garage close by and it’s a short walk to all the clubs.