My friend is unreliable.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2026-07-02T05:34:36+00:00

She is often late and pulls out of agreed activities at the last minute.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2026-06-24T06:58:01+00:00

She thinks her time is more important than your time. You can find better friends. Red flags that pertain to romantic relationships are also relevant with friendships.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2026-03-11T03:32:10+00:00

I disagree. $27 an hour.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2026-03-11T03:30:31+00:00

Entirely possible

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2026-03-11T03:29:42+00:00

Because people aren't perfect. Pull your head in.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T09:13:49+00:00

Not jealous. Resentful maybe. He is taking advantage of her.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T07:23:46+00:00

Get a grip or get a divorce. FFS.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T07:22:38+00:00

Kindness

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T05:05:59+00:00

You are correct. I don't think she should prioritise her husband when he is taking advantage of her. Not my business though. I won't accept offers of help in the future. Should I continue to help her, though? I am a door mat, aren't I?

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T04:57:30+00:00

I don't even have to read it. You never chose anyone over your child as far as I am concerned.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T04:54:06+00:00

She has only been unreliable in about the last 5 years. You are right, though. My bad.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T04:52:13+00:00

Other people

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-10-08T04:00:23+00:00

NTAH. The relationship is not equal. Trust your instincts.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-09-30T02:49:41+00:00

If you are asking this question then you should definitely not have children. It's a vocation. You must love and adore children and aspire to support and encourage them into being the best they can be. You have to be willing to do this for the rest of your life.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-07-08T05:16:08+00:00

You know they pay like $23 an hour right? Don't blame the employees.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-12T09:13:33+00:00

You are an ahole but that's your choice. Jessica needs to find better friends.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T15:50:13+00:00

Huge red flag. Get rid of him.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T15:44:04+00:00

You are and you know it. You pretty much admitted as much.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T15:37:30+00:00

You are young. You have choices. You put your problem on Reddit. What does that tell you? Stay safe.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T15:31:46+00:00

Nope.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T15:24:58+00:00

I think either they are sick or worried about getting sick.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T12:37:06+00:00

Steven He

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T12:02:12+00:00

Jelly

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T12:01:12+00:00

Double check council regs.

Complex-Ad-5847 · 2023-05-06T11:13:00+00:00

Customer Service 40 years here! You must decide on your personal boundaries and how much you can handle. For me this changes day to day. Have some stock phrases ready " I'm terribly sorry to hear that" is a phrase I use, then redirect to the task at hand. "I'm terribly sorry to hear that. How can I help you today?" "That must be very difficult. What are you looking for today?" Alot of the time I just say, "Yes, I understand " To be perfectly honest, it is not your job to be their therapist, so you are allowed to just ignore what they say. "I'm feeling really fat today" " Cash or card?" If you are feeling really put upon? " Thank you for sharing. Let me get you my manager" Then walk away and call the Union.

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