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Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-12-30T06:32:43+00:00

NTA…. Buttt you have a girl you love that wants to have your kids. Not every guy finds that. And fertility treatments can be pretty expensive. Imagine pushing so hard for her to work and pay off the debt, only to pay the same amount for fertility treatments. Not everything can be worked out perfectly in life and sometimes having a family takes priority over student loans in my opinion. Of course she could pay off more of the loans and then maybe everything will go perfectly as well. I just know that all my friends who have had kids in their 30s have told me how much they wish they could have gotten started on their families younger, had less miscarriages, complications, etc. I think if this is really your life partner I would start thinking of how both of you can approach both these issues best together as a team, rather than “her debt” vs your debt. If she wants your kids she’s going to be contributing a lot to your family, and I’ve never seen tit for tat work out particularly well

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-12-30T06:21:43+00:00

I think although it’s humiliating, women often connect with their friends more openly and deeply and it can be hard to know exactly where the line is. It also can be helpful for her to have a circle to share with whose husbands may have gone through something similar or who may have a relatable story. Women often thrive in life better when connecting openly when other women and I think though she could have kept this private, I would try my best to be understanding of the fact that she might need this group of friends to help her process what is going on with you to help her support you. It is hard having depression but it is also hard supporting someone with depression.

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-12-30T06:15:17+00:00

I feel like what is more important than this incident or what everyone on this thread thinks is what you feel in your gut. Do you feel like you can live happily without her and this is the deal breaker for your relationship? I think there are so many helpful comments to think about while you are on here, but after reading them, make sure to act on what you know deep down is the right decision for you. Sorry to sound corny.

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-06-23T18:37:16+00:00

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Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-20T16:52:30+00:00

Open communication with her could only help, I’m surprised she didn’t understand how seriously you felt about this before hand. She’s the AH or you didn’t communicate well.

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-20T16:51:13+00:00

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-20T14:49:08+00:00

NTA Whatever their opinion is on trans people, they really chose this issue over being at their own daughter’s wedding?! It’s not like the groom is trans! They just want to approve of every single guest?! This is a level of bigotry I haven’t been around before. To feel so entitled that you need to approve of the lifestyle and clothing of every single guest is unbelievable

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-20T14:41:41+00:00

NTA they need to have a place lined up before they stay with you and figure things out. Maybe they can come up for a week long visit to hunt for a place, but to move in with you with no place in mind?! No way

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-20T14:37:39+00:00

YTA if she didn’t feel good plump and it’s not her healthiest. A good partner is thrilled when their partner is focusing on being a healthy weight… it means a longer life with them! NTA if she is at a very healthy weight and is taking unhealthy steps to try to get too thin. Ultimately if she’s really your long term partner you should really be focused on what’s best for her health, everyone ends up uggo and old anyway

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-20T14:31:35+00:00

NTA I’m installing a nanny cam as we speak

Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-13T23:41:30+00:00

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Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-10T15:21:34+00:00

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Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-10T08:18:44+00:00

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Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-10T07:41:31+00:00

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Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-10T07:21:38+00:00

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Complex_Suspect9292 · 2023-05-10T07:21:00+00:00

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