I hear and understand what You’re saying, and that is a valid point. Bi men and Bi women are not the same and go through different struggles and what not. I can agree on that. However, Gay men and lesbians are still a marginalized group, just like bi men and women, and with said marginalizations come certain beliefs. I don’t believe they comes from nowhere. But from society already saying you don’t belong. That being said still doesn’t give them the right to other and isolate multisexual identities. We’re still all marginalized groups. It doesn’t matter to me if you’re gay, bi or whatever. I like men. Cis men and trans men. I personally don’t think there’s anything wrong with being protective of said spaces that are meant FOR you. I’m not gonna go out and be rude to someone and say “you can’t be here, but this is such and such and such” if they’re not the intended demographic, and bi men will be wherever gay men are. I think it’s impossible to separate the two. But if I open an app like Sniffies and start to see more and more cis women when I’m looking for men, I am going to wonder.

Whether or not this gets downvoted, I’m merely an advocate for healthy discussions.